I'm posting this under my alias because I need objective feedback here.  To all of you gentlemen who are married or have a significant other,  what type of acquiescence do you expect a provider to have for your situation?  For example, do you truly expect for her to be available and ready at her incall with hair and makeup done within a half hour of your frantic call or email?  I'm not being facetious but I really do believe that some men have that expectation.  I tend to get incensed with such requests and have considered not seeing local men because of this reason.   I'm well aware that this subject may be well trodden on this board but I would like a fresh perspective.

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But there are a lot of guys who are big babies and think they are entitled to instant gratification.  When they don't get it they act like spoiled children.  It's annoying but you'll find our world attracts lots of neurotic stupid people of both sexes.  They can't get away with acting entitled at work or at home so they do it with you and probably also any service people unlucky enough to deal with them.

We're talking escort service right, not FBSM?

I would think single guys would be the ones calling for last minute dates... But I could be wrong.  

But why get incensed at all? Many clients, or possible clients, will make unreasonable demands, and that you can't control.

(That was for your 2nd question.). And it seems you already know how to deal with this kind of behavior

In my experience it is the married guys who want last minute bookings. The "found some free time" aka got off work early before they have to be home. Wife unexpectedly went out for the night. That type of stuff. The single guys don't have those time constraints. I often get stuff like "can you meet me at exactly 4pm because I have to be home by 530 and the hotel is 30 min away from my home". Always cutting it real close. Single guys are easy, they can meet any time in the evening. I'm NOT knocking the married guys with time constraints, I understand why they do it. Just explaining why it happens.  

There are just certain behaviors that annoy me more than others and I'm getting better at letting them own it but I just needed to vent,  hence the alias!

Thank you for the standard TER response to my post. As mentioned above there are certain behaviors that annoy me more than others and I was just venting. Does anything that anyone else does that you can't control or change annoy you in business or in life in general?  If not it must be nice to be on such a high plane of self-actualization!

Thank you girl!  That is exactly what I mean!

within 10 minutes of my bekoning call with her legs spread and wet as a geiser.

You just re-enforced to the board what type of personality you have. Many providers seem to forget that this business they are in is a "Customer Service" business. As such you should have good tolerant, thick skin and be prepared to handle all types of customers.

Any other absurd generalizations you want to through out there or are you exhausted from just that one? LOL

If a hobbyist (especially a local, like you mentioned) has an interest in a short notice rendezvous with me, to submit his information to be pre-screened.  Then if I'm available and able to accommodate his short notice rendezvous request, his chance of being with me is much greater.

I just thought that married guys would have to plan ahead more so than single guys... You want to know what I do when I feel the need to vent? ...I go for a ride. 😎

Thank you for presuming to know me.  It's all good I appreciate a little banter under the anonymity of an alias and I did anticipate a fair amount of criticism and for people to actually tell me that I should stay ready to be at their beck and call.  To respond to that last line, not all money is good money, especially when it dictates your life

You know what airlines do for last minute bookings -- charge a premium

I'm completely and utterly humbled by your generic response. I'm sharing what bothers me on a F*** board with total strangers because it is important for me to gather information about my business practices and make an informed decision.  I understood that people would not agree with me and took that into consideration beforehand. How accurate would my "survey" be if everyone agreed with me?

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Sincerely understand that your need to vent is a reflection of your desire to provide the best experience for the "gents" that visit you. However, speaking as a wretched (lol) mess of a bad planner myself,  you just have to say no to last minute requests that probably aren't going to work out for the best anyway...  and let the chips fall.

LOL awesome!  Money talks and BS walks right!!

but it boils down to are you available or not?  If you are not "On Duty" then just turn your phone off.  If you want to only do booking for the following day or beyond, just say so.  No reason to be nasty.  
Maybe you can book with a certain minimum amount of notice...  2 hours or 4 hours?  If you have availability on your dance card.  It's your business, you set the rules.  

I agree!  I was just annoyed at the time of the op because this particular client is a complete nuisance and will NOT take NO for an answer but I have since put him on permanent ignore status!

Speaking for myself, I book same day all the time, but I don't "expect" every woman to be able to see me on fifteen minutes notice, nor do I even ask for something "within the hour" OTOH, if a lady responds to my same day request and asks me when I want to come see her, often I will respond that I am ready whenever she can fit me it, and "IF" she is available I can come right now.  

I am in this hobby for my own pleasure - I always have been.

Let me try this again.  I'm sharing what bothers me on a fk board with total strangers because it is important for me to gather information about my business practices and make an informed decision.  I understood that people would not agree with me and took that into consideration beforehand. How accurate would my "survey" be if everyone agreed with me

pussy on demand. If I wanted to wait or schedule it I would have a girlfriend or wife. If you post an ad shouldn't you be ready? For MY convenience I usually schedule in advance but sometimes I want it now. If you can't accommodate me I will find somebody who can.

Just don't start charging baggage fees!

Fair enough, I want a lot of things immediately and as advertised but most of the time that's not pragmatic or realistic and you're right....if I want it now I'll search until I get it if at all possible!!!

Some of us are single dads too. Just saying. I frequented a lovely woman in my town. I would text her and ask if she could meet same day. We would go back and forth on agreed time. The guy has to be flexible too, not jst the lady. Usually she made it work, but maybe we pushed back the appointment or sometimes we scheduled for another day. I would suggest a time but always said, "if this is not good for you I understand."  

Why else would you feel the need to be snarky in your replies to several here and salivate all over the one person who seems to agree with your point?

soon as i know I have a window of opportunity, I am send an inquiring email.

You have a better chance to be upgraded
YOU-  
1. Travel at quiet times
2. Spend lots of money
4. Be early for your flight
5. Supersize yourself ( while airline would upgrade oversize passengers - so there some advices to gain some weight .. yet I would say - surprise yourself and loose may be just 10 pounds- you would see then that even your dick become bigger ( may be because you can see it now)  
6.11. Be nice
7. 12. Dress up
8. 13. Use your charms
9 Be loyal to your airline
( last one would give you so many upgrades within out hobby)

Yes, fellow TER alias user,  I TOTALLY need validation from nameless people that I will probably never meet.  You are no fun to engage with because you keep stating the same point over and over again.  Boring.  Lastly, why do you care that I complain about people who have nothing to do with you unless of course the subject hits too close to home

Roughly half the girls on BP here will not set appts too far ahead of time. Next day, next week, you must be kidding. They say text when you are ready to see me. Then its a mad rush to get there within the hour before the next one is ready to go through the turnstiles.  

It happens the other way. I'm sure it's just them wanting cash. But for whatever reason, some of my regulars will even shoot me a text during the day along the lines of "free tonight?"  

I agree with you about that last part. Maybe it's just me but as a provider I am at my best when I have adequate  time to mentally & physically prepare. Take a nice shower, wash my long hair, shave and moisturize everything, dress with ease and not rush. Sure, on demand I can jump in the shower and wash my body, throw on clothes, and meet a guy in a hurry but I surely won't be at my best. I want to give my best.  

For some men the chosen lady being fully dolled up is part of what they find appealing.  The way the wife or the girlfriend has gotten from their perspective "lazy" about as they became comfortable in their relationships.  I agree that business is business so it may not be a bad idea to be ready during your open hours.  

It's more a hope than an expectation.  A reasonable person will not be offended if you turn down a last minute request. They know it's a bit unreasonable but they're hopeing it works out.  

None of the members who have responded have faulted you for not accepting last-minute requests.  We all agree that last-minute requests are hit-or-miss at best, and sometimes rude and unreasonable.

I've used an ISO post.  It really is quite convenient, and it works.  

is a waste of time. All I want is naked and horny. Still wet from the shower is nice too. Did I mention horny ? Even with those simplistic requirements I still tend to schedule a week out. The only time I've done same day is when someone's rent is due and I get the "I'm horny" e-mail.

of people in this world;

I can sometimes let petty annoyances bother me based on my expectations of others, that's why I needed to vent....yesterday.  Today I went to a pole dancing class and had a F****** BLAST!!!  I'm in total COUGAR on the prowl mode today!!

I don't see the harm in asking... If a provider can't take a short notice appointment, they can just say no. Not a big deal...right? Better to be up front with expectations.