Like yourself, I follow every step your list.

Unlike you, I am not good looking. I carry a few extra pounds in my calves alone, let alone my gut. I'm not young, and unfortunately was not blessed with Keith Richards syndrome. My years of self abuse have left me, let's say... challenged.

Even so, I have had the most amazing and fulfilling experiences with the ladies out there, and continue to be invited to return.

I'm not 'a mangina.' Not a softy, nor fool. However, I am filled with gratitude and adoring respect for true providers, who choose this line of work.

I have zero patience for assclown attitudes of faux-tough little boys, who haven't figured out that, as women, these ladies possess something - a characteristic, an outlook, an understanding - that is missing in (from my experience) a major segment of American women in general.

That is not an indictement of women, just the recognition that these ladies have something rare and incredible. And at least to me, valuable. Not only am I happier since meeting providers, but I respect and love women in general even more that I ever did.

I've had an incredibly fulfilling sex life, and haven't had a shortage of female companionship. However, if I had any idea -- I mean ANY -- of what these ladies had to offer, I would have sought them out years ago.

If this weren't still a socially unacceptable activity, I would be a provider evangelist, encouraging any guys I know to first learn to be a good client and then go out and experience what I have.

I guess I will stop rambling, now too. I also wanted to let the girls know that they are appreciated and say you are spot on, Serf! You are not alone feeling this way!


HalfHour

I just wanted to express my gratitude to all the ladies out there who do this. I am a pretty good looking guy who happens to carry a few extra pounds in my gut as a result of the work I do. After reading some threads here the past few days I just wanted to say that in my experience I have been generously rewarded by treating these ladies with the same amount of respect and courtesies that i would treat any other human being I was interested in having a friendly relationship with, if not more so. I show up on time, ask questions, and respect answers I am given. I am new to this but am catching up quite quick and making uo for lost time. A couple providers I have seen recently had me worried because some of their reviews seemed heavy on the YMMV. I have found that my mileage goes very far thus far and I attribute it to the above mentioned respect I give the girls. I do not understand why anyone would treat them otherwise. maybe I am a softy or a fool or perhaps I understand since I am also in the service industry. I am a firm believer in you get what you give back not only in buisness but in perosnal relatioships and life over all. I guess I will stop rambling. Just wanted to let the girls know that they are appreciated and I know I am not alone feeling this way.

It sounds like you have the golden rule down "treat Other's how you want to be treated."

Thankyou for showing respect

your 420 handle, thats probally why you seem so chill and pleasant.love it!haha

You sound really sweet. Thank you!

Please don't think that anyone will treat you different because of your "extra pounds". Schmoozing and being respectful is nice to have from everyone. It works both ways. I hope you are enjoying your feet first jump into the massive escort pool.

Serf,

I am happy that you have had such positive results. With the constant negativity on the board its a wonder the hobby exists at all. Honestly from what I read if I were a hobbyist I would seek another form of entertainment. In the past few months the general demeanor on the board has become one of conflicting and varying results. Each and every companion you have reviewed deserves a big hug from the rest of us. They have obviously done the job in a manner that we could all take notice from.

Customer satisfaction should be measured by the end results. If a product is advertised in a truthful and honest way, a benchmark can be set. When the benchmark by which you measure is clouded in half truths and blatant lies, then the results will never be good. Its obvious that this happens on occasion. Both the companion and the hobbyist can often share blame in this. Its also obvious that this has not been the case in your adventures.

The idea of mutual respect begins before the date has even begun. A good companion does not want to be a notch on your belt, and you don't want to be a notch on her bedpost. If you begin your interaction in that manner, you will never get her undivided attention.

There have been numerous threads representing the viability, need or desire to have an engaging appointment. I find the dichotomy of opinions to be so confusing. Companions love clients that represent the qualities you describe. We want to be treated with respect, we want our clients to be courteous. When we receive that type of treatment, the sky is the limit. I wish you the best of luck in your searches and hope the rest of your appointments are as good and even better than what you have already experienced.

.....being respectful, gentleman, etc you'll find  that SOME providers do not appreciate it! Some providers become so cold/Jaded past the point of no return and begin to dislike their clients/men in general. I've been in this hobby for 15 years and I've seen this occur over time.

Will guaranty that you will be successful as a hobbyist, and most will want to see you again.  But you seem to already know that already...

Some people here might attack you for being nice to the ladies, and even call you the M word. However, at the risk of being attacked and called the M word myself...I agree with you 1000%

On everything you and Serf said. Ditto.

motherfucker?

Kum bay ya, my Lord, kum bay ya; Kum bay ya, my Lord, kum bay ya;

Does this make anyone else horny;






HH

A positive, happy note!  Thanks much.  It's just what this board needed.  

Have a great day

You can say anything about "some" providers, as they could say almost anything about "some" hobbyists.  

It doesn't change the fact that most of the time (in my experience) you get back the energy and and good (or bad) vibes you put out.  I would like to echo the sentiments of the original poster to thank the women who risk much to offer a service that brings happiness and healing to so many people.

The vast majority of ladies I have met in this business - with appropriate credit due to TER for helping me to choose carefully - have been quality providers who know the golden rule of customer service; do your best to deliver an experience that exceeds their expectations.  Provide value, and make them want to come again.

So to all of you wonderful ladies who bring sunshine into the lives of so many...  THANK YOU!  You ROCK!!

Great point about ter making it possible. I would like to amend to include ter in my thank you

"n" word = bad.  Check.  What are we going to do after we tag 24 other words by their first letter and have to move beyond?  I see this as a slippery slope where the options are either

1. "m41" = bad and we get a cheat sheet where we see all the bad words.
2.  we just stop using bad words because they're, well, bad
3.  we drop all political correctness and use the damn words where appropriate and deal with the consequences.

Just sayin

To be honest, sometimes this board reads like the relationship between hobbiest and provider is adversarial, like the battle of the sexes played out in microcosm.

At first, I thought that it was that you all knew each other and were screwing with each other. I'm beginning to think though, that many of the posts on here are borne of frustration and resentment. Given what this site is all about, that's just plain wrong.

This community ought to be mutually supportive, thank you for reminding us all of that.

And, no, I'm not really going to dump on the OP (much, anyway),  because I basically agree with his provider-friendly approach to life and, well, I love the ladies, too.
BUT
Buddy, first of all don't sprain your shoulder patting yourself on the back about what a great guy you are, OK?
Second, please explain how you got those "extra pounds" in your gut because of your job.  Are you a food critic?  A chef?  In the interest of your health you might try eating less and working out more.  Just a friendly suggestion.
Having said that, I'll second the motion for a vote of gratitude, especially to the wonderful ladies I've seen.  With only one exception,  they've been great.  Same for many of the ladies who post here,  are smart and sexy with just the right balance of toughness and warmth.  This is especially true for the ones who really appear to love what they do. Brava!
And, serf420, don't feel bad about my small criticsms, you seem like a good guy.

At first I thought maybe I needed new contacts, j/k. I know that the hobbiest/provider relationship is one of business but it is also one of pleasure. I have always felt that each party should be treated with respect and graciousness. Wouldn't you treat anyone that way?  We always cultivate more with honey than vinegar and it never hurts to say thank you or show gratitude. Seeing a positive thread here is a trend that should take flight at least once in a blue moon.

Sav

Muslim?



HH