There was a thread below about the high heel shoes and stockings which set me to thinking if I was in the vast minority of hobbiests who prefer a woman in pretty flat ballerina shoes or flat sandals in the summer as compared to 4 inch high hooker shoes? Whatever clothes are worn should be a fabric that is sensual to the touch. Silk, coton, linen, all feel nice. Most synthetics to do not. Is this a fantasy for the hobbiest, the provider or is my fantasy just different?
Unless I get a specific request for the heels, stockings, etc... I prefer to be barefoot and dressed in a satin slip, or silk chemise and panties, or skirt (with no panties)... something that looks nice, but will also feel good against my skin (and his.)
I'm a tactile person... so I love silks, cottons, thin fabrics, etc. (If it's a tiny bit sheer, all the better!)
However, it can be argued that most men are 'visually' stimulated, so I think more thought goes into the initial visual impression. (And since that's how reviews typically begin, it's sometimes better to offer the visual 'wow factor' rather than the touchy-feely.)
But that's just my two cents from the peanut gallery.
I prefer to be dressed in lingerie and will upon request wear something special. Now, I DO wear high heels and the one and only reason for that is because I am very short. 5'1" and unless I drag a chair in front of my door I can not see out the peep hole. Literally. I want to see who is knocking on my door. So for me they really are a necessary part of the "job" so to speak. You can stop laughing now I can hear you!
Actually, I have no preference as far as stiletto, or tennis shoes. The best date I have ever had...I was met on the balcony of the hotel, by a lady in a nice top, shorts, and barefoot. No show, no "hooker heels" as you call them...just her! What followed was incredible! Now I did take one out one night who insisted on those things...she looked absolutely gorgeous, but the stares were NOT due to her beauty...the shoes made her look like she had a neon sign that said.."Yep I'm getting paid to be with this loser" was the last time I did that, if they insisted on wearing them out. Ladies if your reading this...they do NOT make you fit into the surroundings well. Answer the doo in anyhing you'de like...it's hot. if going out bring flip flops LOL
Just personally, but during meetings, I prefer that everything come off, i.e., totally unclothed at the end, which includes removal of heels, stockings, garters, and lingerie. Jewelry excluded! Wearing these at the beginning of a meeting is fine, but, as things progress, enjoy watching these come off, and the lady be au naturale when the seesion reaches it's apex. Just a personal opinion, not a knock on anyone else who has different preferences...
I totally agree, CD, but probably like the nakedness to come evener earlier than you.......I have seen quite enough of hosiery, garter belts, etc in my life time.......give me the feel of smooth flesh any day.....minute....second !
Incall is definitely better. I can come to the door in a sexy negligee or a teddy and heels (my favorite). I will wear thigh-highs but only if it is requested. Hey, it's Arizona and it's hot. However, I'd rather wear thigh-highs than full stockings. A note to guys: Full stockings doesn't leave the coochie as fresh as thigh-highs. They give you some air to breathe down there.
I love to tease: A huge kiss and hug at the door (unless I feel the gentleman backing up), and pushing him up against the door and giving him a kiss that will knock his socks off. Then, I teasingly break away and offer a drink. That usually gets his motor running and the ice -- well, let's just say -- is broken.
Maybe not for the same reasons I like my girls to look as little like a hookers as possible.
For one it lends to the fantasy of the whole thing.
Two most of us probably like to keep our hobby activities out of the public eye.
The dress is a super "tell" to anyone with a brain. As well as the 4-inch hooker shoes.
Put them together with an over-wieght middle aged guy and some super-hot young sex machine and Forrest fuckin Gump could figure it out.
Black is traditionally a color of mourning and associated with negativity or evil. For me I like sandals and white or pink something feminine, innocent and lets not forget sexy.
In my opinion all providers should take thier Red or Black trick gear and burn it. 4-inch high hooker shoes and all.
Conversely real women (no offense intended) dressed like hookers is incredibly sexy. Hmm...
I tend to dress for the occasion and the time of day. I spent 4hrs over the weekend in Newport with a sweet client, sandals and a sundress was the way I showed up. Very appropriate for a lunch appt near the beach. Sexy yet summery and not the "hooker Look" as you call it...lol...
Then again I was dressed to the nines in the 4inch heels and little black dress for a dinner appt with a Gentleman in Boston last week and tonight in sandals and a long cotton skirt so its all who you are seeing, when and where ...dress apppropriately. I have regs who just like the jeans a t-shirts too. I think woman can look hot in jeans as well..In the long run I always seem to end up naked anyway!!
My fave choice for 'outcall' is a nice business suit (or blazer and skirt.)
I usually have my hair up and arrive with my briefcase... and could be anyone. Real estate gal, tax attorney, insurance agent.
It makes a fun game out of going BCD to 'let my hair down' and reveal the racy attire underneath my standard business wear.
But I'm with you... there's a girl that does incall in my neighborhood. I drove by one afternoon as she was chatting up a guy at her door and my 12-year-old exclaimed "Look mom, a stripper!!"
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