But of course, what exactly defines the dividing line is a bit up for debate.

It's an awfully complicated piece of geography, as we all know.

I've been reading the massage reviews and need some clarification about what "touch on the outside" means.  Does that mean touching on the outside of the panties or does that mean rubbing the clit but no inserting fingers?

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touch on the "outside" would mean rubbing "on" her pussy, but not being allowed inside with your digits.

on how they are dressed.

...FIV finger in vagina.

..."touch on the inside". Dammit, now I won't be able to criticize anyone for not paying attention for at least a week.

I'm a massage provider and I allow light touching on the outside. I prefer outside of the lips no insertion no clitoris. Reasons why most guys are not gentle enough. The skin is sensitive, plus half the time people don't bother to wash their hands alter walking into my place.  I then get scratched and irritation. My rates are for massage only I'd be more accepting of a bit of discomfort if I was making triple my rate.

Thanks Alyssa.  Would it make a difference if the gentleman had washed his hands, had immaculate fingernails (clean, short) and asked you if he could rub your clit and said he would be gentle?

I'm wired different in that I don't get hard if I know FS isn't going to happen.   I don't have ED or anything like that its just that I'm not excited.  I get all my pleasure from getting the woman aroused, not so much what she is doing to me.  If FS isn't going to happen but if I get to rub her clitoris and hear her breathing harder or getting wet --  then I'll get hard

Touch on the outside can means the following:
1. touching the breasts.2. touching labia ad or the clitoris
3. touching the thighs , neck ass, hips with the purpose of arousing women and make them want to f..u...c..k or b..l...o...w you
Do you know what I mean now?