I'm talking, in public. You know the type of woman, who is opinionated, and has a big personality. Usually starting some disturbance in public, with someone who is minding their own business. I can't metaphorically  slap the dame, it's not my place. Should the man in her life, convey the message that she is misbehaving, and causing a spectacle?

...like your board persona, you would routinely make a spectacle of yourself in public.

I do understand, however.  Women with big personalities starting disturbances in public when I'm just minding my own business are seriously misbehaving.  They should be chastised.  By people like you.  Thanks for bringing up this important and relevant topic.

Especially women in the company of their large, short tempered, violent husbands or BF's, preferably "biker bitches" in the company of their entire club.

I think he should make an example of these women and go up and slap them right across the face to make his point, the consequences be damned. lol

It seems far more 'men' are being physically/verbally/psychologically abused by their SO than the National Organization of Women would lead us to believe.
Our culture as well as its civilian police force historically turns a blind eye to women's violence against  men. It ain't right; but it DOES none the less!  

We are quite the spectacle, if that offends you?.. that's on you.

For some it works, for some it don't.  

Next time I go shopping, I'll call ahead and have all the other customers removed before I arrive.

I thought about you.

if you want to embarrass yourself by acting like a misogynistic ninny.  

that human intelligence is likely normally distributed on a bell curve, but to actually interact with the individual representing the leftmost data point, now that is really something.  I am honored and in your debt sir.  Of course by definition you will understand none of this, but take heart, many will!

I'll bet your parents had rotator cuff problems from slapping you around so much.

If the woman is an adult, she should control herself. We're all big boys and big girls, we should all act like it. Women like the one you describe will push others away until they hopefully realize it's their attitude that is doing it. I have a good friend who has a wife like you describe, after being around her 3 times I stopped hanging out with my friend when I knew she was going to be around. A few times she's shown up unexpected (unexpected to me anyway) and I gracefully left in a very short period of time. Life is too short to spend it in the company of people like that, I have much better things to do with my time.

I wasn't given enough discipline, I'm talking psychologically, remember I was raised a bastard.

There are still other people in the store. There are also occasions where I have deal with the public, it's a requirement for most occupations

I'll bring the popcorn...

But, yes, I know the situation you're talking about (even though I have always led a very genteel and soft life far removed from the rough jungle I suspect most of you deal with), especially if the woman had been drinking, has been done an injustice and is irate about it, or, in general, facing a situation too demanding for how she's dressed.

What if the check out girl, is worth checking-out? Should we make it a three way? where should I put my cum? Paper or plastic? clean up on isle 69!

I've never heard that saying before, may I use it?

Can't go crazy?  

I can read English.

Growing up, some of my friends had Italian mothers, and Grand mamas.

I also don't go out of my way to put my self in such situations, but they sometimes happen

Opinionated and big personality I can deal with,  as long as she is polite.
I would never put up with a loud mouth starting disturbances in public.
  I'd be gone in a New York minute.  
 If I don't like the scene or company surrounding me, I leave.
 That's all the control I need.  
     
   
 
 

Let alone have the luxury of the thinking time to plan how to react.

Use Melissa's saying

If I don't like the scene or company surrounding me, I leave. That's all the control I need.

How does that play out when you next want to connect with her?

What if you find yourself in a disabled elevator.

Usually I'll bounce on a fool, once they've acted up. That's just how I roll.

Yoo mite can reed engrish butt yoo can't spel four shite.

who is with anyone who is misbehaving in public needs to set some boundaries.  Be with a woman, a man or a child

Maybe we went to Greece, we were discussing ass-holes.

Not holding it down and embarrassing you?
Going through a traumatic event and breaking down?
Initiating a confrontation with staff or strangers?

If she's an asshole once, I'll simply choose someone else. Why on earth would I take the chance she'll be an asshole another time, when there are so many beautiful, sexy, interesting women to choose from. If she's an asshole, she's lost a whole lot of her beauty and sexiness.

The OP specifically asked about controlling the type of woman who starts a disturbance in public with someone who minds their own business .
  I would never  try to appease a woman who starts a ruckus  with someone minding their own business.
            I would leave her at the curb with cab fare.
 
   Some guys beg and plead  with insanity.   I don't .  
   In my opinion, Life's too short to  put up with that kind of nonsense.  
 
   
 He didn't ask about women in trouble or suffering grief, who need a helping hand.  
    That's an entirely different topic.  I wouldn't leave her when she's in despair.  

Sometimes the man she's with appears too embarrassed to do anything, and I've had to step in and calm her down. I don't recall ever groveling. Sometimes what seems to be belligerence turns out to be a very real concern. The tone you take with me suggests that you yourself are the type of "big personality" who yells at valets and belittled the waiter serving you your dinner. I hope I never have to deal with you in a restaurant or club. But if I do, I don't foresee myself grove lung with the crazy guy to get him to hold it down a bit.

... it's your GF.

I have NEVER  yelled at a Valet,  a server or someone in customer service .  
 The lower a person is on the Totem pole the better I treat them . I have enough self confidence in myself I have no need to chastise servers. 90% of the time bad service isn't their fault.  
  I won't stoop to yell at a GF who goes off the deep end in public for no valid reason , I will merely answer her nonsense by leaving  with unemotional  detachment.
 If she's cranky and irrational from hunger I'll get her something to eat.
 
 If my service is bad I still leave a tip though not the customary 25% + or 50% at the Greasy spoon.  
   I was only attempting to persuade you to stick to answering the questions without twisting the scenario to one of your own choosing.
  I mighty be mistaken , from your replies you seem like a groveler to me.  
 If doubt you butt in on couples very often,  trying to calm down a deranged woman, or you wouldn't be able to type.  

So i fracture your larynx and you suffocate to death...not really even breaking a sweat. And then go have an awesome sushi dinner.