mentally prepare for what you do.  Specifically, for those ladies who see several guys a day (I know it is none of our business), how do you maintain a fresh mental outlook so you are not just going through the motions?  We all realize hobbyists are not all Brad Pitt look-a-likes, some guys do not have good hygiene, etc.

Obviously, you may use an alias.

Inquiring minds want to know.

and who wouldn't be..It's you I am meeting and not any one body part..I love people and am always very excited about our special time between just the two of us. I'm sensual and open to anyone who finds me attractive. It's a real turn on to be desired

Kisses Haley

One of the advantages of having my own website is that I made sure it presented me and my personality accurately. I was fairly thorough about the content and information presented. Usually by the time I am contacted by the gentlemen he is ready to proceed and is serious in his inquiry. My site does most of the screening for me. Once the gentlemen's information is verified it is smooth sailing and nothing but fun for me.

I screen not only for safety but for compatibility and it really does make the difference. I only have dates with respectful, courteous gents. It sounds so cliché but really it makes things so much more fun for both parties. If I can't bring 110% or I feel like I'm going to have to break you off a piece of my mind then why bother?

Once the bureaucratic bru-ha-ha is out of the way it's on to the primping. I have accumulated a dresser full of lingerie so all of my suitors are at an immediate disadvantage. Depending on the date and what we have planned whether we are staying in or going out of the town I like a variety of options. I'm a girl and getting ready takes time and effort. This is a big reason us ladies like plenty of notice when you're booking our date. I put a lot of effort into getting ready now that I think about it! Lots of tanning, polishing, exfoliating, waxing, plucking, powdering, etc. All of this is usually going on while I'm dancing around listening to my ipod. Sometimes I'm baking treats for my clients. It all depends! I'm exhausted just thinking of it!

I only see a few select clients a week that I really look forward to so I can't complain at all. I love my life!

and pleasures of what I do.   I only see one person a day so it is easy to have a fresh mental outlook.  I like to have time to arrange things...preparation is part of the anticipation and excitement of it all.  Spending time in a long bath, lighting candles, fixing pretty hair and makeup, dressing in seductive lingerie or evening attire, pouring champagne (my favorite Veuve) and listening  to music that puts me in the mood.  By the time my date arrives, I am ready to embrace, caress, fondle. kiss, lick, squeeze and tease!  It becomes more than just going through the motions.  It is letting go and becoming completely caught up in the passion and fervor...no inhibition, no reticence, no holding back.

Two songs I always listen to that put me in the mood...
Santana's Europa and Samba Pa Ti.  mmmmmmm.  sultry, smoky, sensuous, arousing.  I think I am ready!

I maintain a fresh mental outlook by recognizing each man is very different....their expectations and desired results of our date are also vastly different.

I like to get to know my clients....I cant really deal with seeing an assembly line of clients per day....week...month. it is a personal preference and I am not knocking anyone who does business like that.

When a lady TRULY and thoroughly enjoys the company of said GENTLEMAN, all the "others" comes soooo naturally.

Being a "people" person is a very special trait and gift to have. When "we" surround ourselves with those types of individuals, ANY company is wonderful to have!

Yes, NOT all the time a fella is of TOP good hygiene habit, if you will, but that's a great reason to bring out the soaps and suds!

Nor are the fellas a Brad Pitt look-a-like, but not all ladies are top model material either...

EACH and EVERY gent is special to me, it's the kindness, respect, and consideration one gives me that gets this lil' bits wound up!  

I am down-to-earth, very comfortable w/myself, happy with what I do and feel very honored when 1 CHOOSES to spend "his" time w/ME.  That says ALOT, so automatically, I'm anxious to provide great company to another. Afterall, there were tons of others(providers)that the gent could have been with, even for the very 1,2, or even 3 hours with but....he spent it with me.

I'm always looking for new friends.  Of course I enjoy my old and recent friends and are always excited when we have a revisit.  I love meeting new people.  

Some meetings are definitely more enjoyable then others but I decided to get into the hobby and I have to take the not so desireable with the most desireable.  I just have to be unavailable when the not so desireable calls again.

My radar still goes off and I do feel some nervousness when I meet new friends.  When I am very comfortable with my screening of the gentleman, it is more of anticipation I feel before that door opens.

A bonus for me is that I truly enjoy what I do.  I guess that is what keeps my mental outlook fresh.  When I start feeling negative toward various aspects of the hobby/business, I take a break.

you sure don't look like a "Kennedy James".

Not that anyone would be thinking about that...