So I see that sometimes you guys want the ladies to wear special clothes. Can we also ask for the fellas to wear something special? Have any guys gotten those requests? For instance, at my work,  I notice some of the guys wear suspenders. That was when I realized how sexy I thought that they were! Even seeing them pass by with their jackets off and watching the x on the back of their shirts (from the suspenders) got me aroused!!! Men in suits have long gotten me swollen. I have a regular that shows up dressed up from work and during our last visit I had to bite down on my lip ferociously to contain myself from attacking him. So who has gotten these requests and do you delight the lady by wearing what she asks?

I don't see why I wouldn't give it a go provided I already had something suitable in my wardrobe and I wouldn't look way out of place doing so.

... I've had after-the-fact requests.  Meaning that sometimes a provider comments very favorably on something I'm wearing.  So if I remember I try to wear it if I repeat with her.

since I usually have midday appointments when I see a lady in my home city. I did have an ATM request I wear a specific Brioni tie I had worn for a prior date which she put on while I showered.  Very hot.

...coz she somehow got her signals crossed.

It's a little awkward in hotel lobbies, however. EVERYBODY seems to notice that I'm wearing black shoes with a brown suit.

My GF at the time had a thing for cops so I rented a police uniform and showed up at her door.   First I handcuffed her. You can imagine the rest.

That's sexist.  Lots of women wear suits.  Back in the day of men wearing hats, the Fedora was actually first a woman's hat.

I try to make everyone comfortable . . . . . .If she's thin, I'll wear a pinstriped suit.  If she's on the thicker side, I'll wear a solid color suit.  If she doesn't shave her pussy, I'll wear a mohair jacket.  

..... I wear a pair of blue briefs. I am extremely flattered by her attention as I take my jeans off and stand in front of her in those briefs. I have been seeing her for over 3 years and she always takes the time to give me that attention. She will stop what she's doing and watch me. Either she really enjoys it or she is a great actor. To tell you the truth,  the attention feels really good.  
Of course, I always wear her request.

I'll always set my "date" till after dinner, so I'm wearing a suit and tie..ALWAYS . I did get one request to just leave my tie on, I was naked, except for my tie. It was fun being tugged on..... But afterwards if we decide to "hang" out, it's jeans and shirt or sweater. It's very casual.

A few have commented on my leather jacket and 'I support single moms' t-shirt.

It seems appropriate if its a dinner date, or a casino show date...maybe a role play date and it's kind of like a porno and the clothes never really make it to the floor. However, I have to admit, you're the first provider I ever heard of suggesting guys wear clothing to a short playdate that is time consuming to get in and out of LOL. Usually their etiquette pages suggest the opposite, so the guy can get undressed/dressed and out the door after the date easily. I own a service business and am a blue collar worker. I don't even own a suit, but if your fantasy is ever a tall dark and handsome working man with a tool belt, I can make that happen LOL

One of my favorites saw  my women's clothes and requested that I cross dress for our next date. That turned out to be more fun than I had anticipated. We played strip club, and her role was "client."  I "bribed the bouncer " so he'd leave us alone and took her to the "VIP room" for some not-so-legal fun.

Here is my thinking: A provider asks you to wear, say a nice shirt and slacks because it excites her. Wouldn't it be hot when, the minute you walk through the door she is on you kissing you and licking your face while also removing said clothing? I don't think a suit is tough to get out of. Now a tuxedo, lol, yes! So here's the scene: You knock at the door, I open it, we smile at each other. You walk in, I get in your face and say, the suit is hot! So am I now take off your fucking clothes NOW! You frantically remove that suit and it would be off quick, wouldn't it??! LOL! Naked in no time. That's how I see it.

....Now that made me wet! Lol

I wear jeans and t-shirts everyday. If my SO saw me going out or coming home wearing something different, it would raise questions that I might not be able to finesse without creating suspicions.  

You could not sneak a set of suspenders in your back pocket or anything? You know, just to make a lady smile extra hard???

I have never worn a suit, with the exceptions of 3 rented tuxedos for 3 different weddings where I was a groomsman  (30 plus years ago).

What's the right woman for seersucker?

I love a man in a suit so I let him know.  Majority wear them. It's all communication.

I was talking with a guy who had this. Sweat pants with no underwear. It was a non hobby related discussion and I admit I was checking out the eggplant. I was hooked after that on this look. I love seeing bulges in pants. It stirs up something too! I am sure this would be easy to pull off lol yeah I'd yank those suckers off!!!!

for visiting a horny woman that wants to look at it, touch it through the pants then play with it!

Never heard of dress code imposed by a provider only by the clients.

being dark and smoldering Sicialian this is how I envision my date with you

No shoes, no garters, no hose, I mean nothing.

My love, yes absolutely.

He's  Clean,  and Good in Bed ..and  most are... 👿   Xoxo.  👄💋

When I showed up dressed this way (pic), I thought I was dressing to suit my hostess. Turns out that I had to spend the first 50 minutes trying to revive her and the last 10 minutes apologizing. Always a gentleman dick, I left the envelope anyway.

To buy suspenders! Lol

Tux will add stud set, vest and braces. Some will also have a detachable collar, which is a gigantic pain.