You are meeting the lady or gentleman for the very first time. The lady has checked out the gentleman and he has excellent references. The gentleman has checked out the lady and she has outstanding reviews and is incredibly hot. In your perfect scenario, how does the first 60 seconds play out?
Ladies, do you prefer to give the gentleman a: sincere hug - light French kiss - deep French kiss - a smile from across the room because you left the door ajar - a combination of above - fill in the blank..... Gentleman, do you prefer to walk in the door and receive a: light French kiss - deep French Kiss - a smile from across the room because after you knocked she simply asked you to enter - a combination of the above - fill in the blank.I like a sincere hug and a LFK from my experiance if she pulls back and looks you in the eye and goes right back to a LFK that slowly evolved to DFK then it's on!!!
Had a gal walk in once and look me up and down like we are prone to do to them gave me a wicked grin and said" this is gonna be fun, I just won the hooker lottery!" I thought she was full of it at first but she proved to be sincere!! Felt like I was the winner that day!!
Ladies, do you prefer to give the gentleman a: sincere hug - light French kiss - deep French kiss - a smile from across the room because you left the door ajar - a combination of above - fill in the blank.....
Gentleman, do you prefer to walk in the door and receive a: light French kiss - deep French Kiss - a smile from across the room because after you knocked she simply asked you to enter - a combination of the above - fill in the blank.
You can have all that other cheap soap-opera drama, I hire out for the sole purpose of purging my testicles...
Dear Madam Alexandra:
Think about it. Didn't you ever do an assessment on a guy's balls and you learn how heavy the are? Just put your nuts in the palm of your hand the next time you give your favorite client a fellatio.
and even better when you play with them whilst fucking
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but in truth, it's no big deal one way or the others.
I've had some fantastic sessions that started rather cool with an offer to sit and chat and then we went from there.
The most stupendous opening was from a waif of a gal who wrestled me to the floor before I even got the hotel room door shut and she started to tear off my clothes.
That was for sure my most memorable greeting.
She then kneeled down and started sucking me off right by door. I could not escape because my pants were still around my ankles. That is my most memorable greeting by far. It was not our first meeting, and she knew what I liked.
Talk about making a great first impression! I went on to see her many times until she retired. She didn't do that again, but every date was awesome.
"This one's on me". That's just the first 60secs though lol
Perhaps even ten to chat a bit. There is no way I am meeting somebody for the first time
and not get a little more comfortable/relaxed by talking a bit. For me, it makes for a better GFE.
just do what feels right/good and let things happen as you both want them to. No scripts for me.
just had a fantastic session with a 10/10. however, she doesn't want a review, so you guys will just have to salivate in ignorance.
but my point is, the first 60 secs of this meeting were incredibly awkward (i think). i hadn't met her, and that's pretty much not how i operate. i usually only date ladies that i have met previously at meet & greets where i can see if we have chemistry, because i've gotten burned by pics and lack of chemistry in the past.
but this new lady was a friend of someone i see regularly, and had stellar reviews, so i took a plunge. turned out to be fantastic, but the first 60 seconds were awkward.
mainly, the elevator in her 4 story building wasn't working on a hot day, so i was pretty out of breath getting up to the apartment. we chatted, i brought a bottle and we worked on opening it.
finally after a brief while of awkwardness, the lady walked up to me and pressed her body against mine and kissed me. problem solved! the rest was heaven.
in general, however, if meeting a stranger, i like a bit of small talk before dfk. it doesn't register true in my gut that someone would naturally want to tongue a complete stranger before saying hello, how are you, how is your day going, nice to meet you, etc.
if i've seen a lady before, though, my tongue is down her throat before my ass gets over the thresh hold of the door.
we close the door. I lean / fall back against the door as she kisses me like a long lost lover. Our bodies against each other, the body heat is like a magnet. She breaks the kiss, we come up for air. She engages the safety lock on the door... leads me into the room. At about the 60 second point, she'll be half way down her buttons, flashing what ever sexy outfit she has underneath.
My ATF gives me a warm, sincere hug followed by "I'm so glad to see you." The DFK is a given. ![]()
That's my way of greeting special women -- I gently grab her on her breast before/after kissing; I sometimes touch her on vagina/crotch/clit as a part greeting too ... I never got any negative reactions
..was one cold winter day. The first words out of my mouth were "my hands are cold" and she immediately whipped off her bra turned her back to me and placed my hands over her breasts.
My favorite greeting was from Kendall Lynn. Right after I walked in the door she said, "I want to be your ass whore."
. . . the best welcome from a new lady (who, if she's paid attention to our email conversations, is waiting for me in a slinky dress, stockings and heels) is a genuinely warm smile, a hug and LFK. Then, we sit and chat for a bit, but she has her hands all over me, setting the mood from what's to come.
For new friends, if it is our first "date" I go slower, and start with slow and sensual flirting, and then let it build into a passionate, fiery flame by the end! I mean here is why I changed to this strategy...
Lets say you have a blind date, and you have never met... you would not rip his clothes off in 10 seconds? No, you flirt, touch, slowly let the chemistry build, and the tension eventually erupts! So that is how I like to mostly start with new friends...
Then the second time they come back, that is when the tigress comes out, ripping clothes, cant wait to get naked and have him inside me... the passionate kisses, that say "I missed your body and lips every second we were not touching!" the " I cant wait to feel you!"
That usually is reserved in in real life, for a man or BF you are dating or have had sex with...
So that is realistic for return clients!
I tend to treat them as real as I would anyone else...
A LFK... some touching... absolutely anything that gets past the limit for what LE can (at least is supposed to do) when trying to make a bust. Once that is done, both parties can relax that last 10%.
Just my thought.