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The downside to LinkedIn
coach618925 44 Reviews 924 reads
posted
1 / 13

I own a company and am searching through LinkedIn to find strong executives outside my database and network. Well for those of you that use LinkedIn you know how all of the pictures appear across the top and going down the right side because they are similar to the profile you are looking at.  

Well you guessed it.... right there as beautiful as can be is someone I have seen 12 or more times. I never knew her real name nor did I care, it isn't my business but there she was. As I am looking at her profile, I am reviewing all of the others that are similar to her and you guessed it again there was one more beautiful lady that I have seen 4 or 5 times.  

I only share because it makes me think of the old phrase...... what a small world we live in.

inicky46 61 Reviews 629 reads
posted
2 / 13

Yes, it's a very small world we live in, especially in this Facebook/LinkedIn age.  And it's especially perilous for gals who are living in two worlds at the same time.  It would be a great idea to let them know how you found them, assuming it can be done without revealing your identity, too

LunaNYC See my TER Reviews 607 reads
posted
3 / 13

is that if you were signed into your account wile looking at the girls pages, then they can see that you looked at them - so there's no hiding it.

I'd suggest you tell them to remove their pictures on LinkedIn.

coach618925 44 Reviews 278 reads
posted
4 / 13

I would never even think about saying anything to them or anyone else. Not my style.

Posted By: likem_slim_toned
Most of the gals I have seen have real 'careers'. This is just another source of income for them. It's not your place to say anything nor is it mine. Small worlds require closed mouths for your sake and theirs.  
   
Posted By: coach618925
I own a company and am searching through LinkedIn to find strong executives outside my database and network. Well for those of you that use LinkedIn you know how all of the pictures appear across the top and going down the right side because they are similar to the profile you are looking at.    
     
  Well you guessed it.... right there as beautiful as can be is someone I have seen 12 or more times. I never knew her real name nor did I care, it isn't my business but there she was. As I am looking at her profile, I am reviewing all of the others that are similar to her and you guessed it again there was one more beautiful lady that I have seen 4 or 5 times.    
     
  I only share because it makes me think of the old phrase...... what a small world we live in.

coach618925 44 Reviews 396 reads
posted
5 / 13

Not in my case, I have their premier package which allows me to have anonymity as I search. That is paramount to my business model. Without this package you would be correct.

I actually sent them both emails and let them know it was a pure fluke that I found them and to my knowledge they do not know each other, they are in different industries but similar positions. They actually both replied and said they didn't have an issue with me seeing them because they trust me. There is no value in me saying anything nor will it do me any favors. I simply shared the posting because I had an old friend that always talked about how small of a world it really is. No harm, no foul.

whgerfrg56u5hrghreg345 86 Reviews 483 reads
posted
6 / 13

What type of business you run and what you were searching for - ha. I may be in the wrong line of work.  

 
 good story coach.

palomamontecarlo See my TER Reviews 355 reads
posted
7 / 13

And yes is a small world which should teach us that we need to remain low key. I avoid going to events and having my picture taken (you never know who will be perusing around those magazines), I avoid networking events near my hometown or having LinkedIn. Maybe I am missing out on tons of professional opportunities but perhaps when I decide to pursue other endeavors, I will be able to live more freely.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 206 reads
posted
8 / 13

"I actually sent them both emails and let them know it was a pure fluke that I found them and to my knowledge they do not know each other, they are in different industries but similar positions. They actually both replied and said they didn't have an issue with me seeing them because they trust me. There is no value in me saying anything nor will it do me any favors. I simply shared the posting because I had an old friend that always talked about how small of a world it really is. No harm, no foul."

Old Navy saying, "Loss lips sink ships".

Shooter30 22 Reviews 368 reads
posted
9 / 13

I suspect the 'people you may know' feature keys off email addresses, and wondered if she simply entered her email contacts and mine was there...  

In my case, no harm no foul, her profile was for modeling and I have a side photography business.  
Posted By: coach618925
I own a company and am searching through LinkedIn to find strong executives outside my database and network. Well for those of you that use LinkedIn you know how all of the pictures appear across the top and going down the right side because they are similar to the profile you are looking at.  
   
 Well you guessed it.... right there as beautiful as can be is someone I have seen 12 or more times. I never knew her real name nor did I care, it isn't my business but there she was. As I am looking at her profile, I am reviewing all of the others that are similar to her and you guessed it again there was one more beautiful lady that I have seen 4 or 5 times.  
   
 I only share because it makes me think of the old phrase...... what a small world we live in.

coach618925 44 Reviews 130 reads
posted
10 / 13

I sent them personal emails not emails through LinkedIn. As I said, one I have seen a good bit and the other enough to send occasional emails to each other.

Posted By: keystonekid
"I actually sent them both emails and let them know it was a pure fluke that I found them and to my knowledge they do not know each other, they are in different industries but similar positions. They actually both replied and said they didn't have an issue with me seeing them because they trust me. There is no value in me saying anything nor will it do me any favors. I simply shared the posting because I had an old friend that always talked about how small of a world it really is. No harm, no foul."  
   
 Old Navy saying, "Loss lips sink ships".

coach618925 44 Reviews 325 reads
posted
11 / 13

I have a database of over 11,000 professionals but am always looking to add more strong executives so I am always searching.

coach618925 44 Reviews 340 reads
posted
12 / 13

You are bent out of shape for nothing. We exchange emails regularly, it stays professional but when you see a beautiful lady enough you develop the relationship to say Hey every week or so. They are the ones that typically say Hey first. So, when I sent them an email telling them they did not care at all, they trust me and know I will not disclose their names to anyone. It isn't like I saw them once and sent them an email that said I gotcha.... Relax.

I never said I expect anyone lays around waiting to get screwed nor did I imply it. WOW.......

Boris993 21 Reviews 263 reads
posted
13 / 13

The intuitive part of LinkedIn is importing your email address book to begin with. Then, from there they make suggestions of people you know to kick start your network base so you can grow it from friends, family & co-workers (present and past). I've had a dozen Providers/ Civilian dates show up on LinkedIn.... But I would never reach out to them.. That is something I'll give a REAL good leaving alone. EVERY time.

I already have ways to contact them, but I'm not going to put them in that position. No judgement, just my practice. Some providers have told me their real identities and some I have found out accidentally (like LinkedIn), but I just don't think it's my place to initiate anything. If they contact me... different story.

Hell..... LinkedIn suggested I should friend my Ex-wife....I gave that one a GOOD leaving alone also...lol
Posted By: coach618925
I own a company and am searching through LinkedIn to find strong executives outside my database and network. Well for those of you that use LinkedIn you know how all of the pictures appear across the top and going down the right side because they are similar to the profile you are looking at.  
   
 Well you guessed it.... right there as beautiful as can be is someone I have seen 12 or more times. I never knew her real name nor did I care, it isn't my business but there she was. As I am looking at her profile, I am reviewing all of the others that are similar to her and you guessed it again there was one more beautiful lady that I have seen 4 or 5 times.  
   
 I only share because it makes me think of the old phrase...... what a small world we live in.

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