I definitely prefer have a little communication with a provider.  I am looking for more than sex.  I want a little intimacy.  

That said, once a connection is established, there are definitely times when I would want to walk in the door and "hit the ground running" as you say, but only with someone I have seen before.

A GFE without any conversation?  Have you ever had a GF?  

Seriously, what makes an experience a GFE, for me, is all about the way I "click" with a girl.  And a lot of that is what happens between the pops.  Again, someone would have to feel like a GF already before we could have a conversationless session within that framework.  I don't see it as a real possibility.

If clients just want something physical, they can get that off the street.

In terms of GFE (first time visit) there can be an instant attraction, but a converstation should start first. When meeting a GFE provider sometimes you can chit-chat for about 1/2 hour before things get started. For the provider your more likely to get repeat business from a client if you can talk them first, before just getting physical.

Then when the next visits happen things will be pretty hot. It is ok to have an instant physical connection the next time.

The nice thing about sites like this is that you can find out who the GFE's are.

mean them strapping it on and doing me either, lol.
I like a lady who puts a smile on my face before the physical part and keeps me smiling definitely after the physical part also.
Usually a good funny connection always puts me at ease and I always let the lady take the lead when it comes to the physical part or just listen to the announcer to yell out "LETS GET READY TO RUMBLE," lol, j/k.  Yes folks I'm lame like that.

                               jammers

I'm for action only!  The only talking consists of moans and groans and the wonderful question "what position next??"!

I would like to get to know the ladie before anything happen.the GFE is important as to intimacy and feelings. it make for a better relationship then the cool reality of just jumping her bones.

While I'm more to the "let's get on with the show" end of the spectrum I do think that there are a lot of things that create a great experience somewhere between chatting on the sofa and mindlessly pounding away.  I'm in this for the sex, not a relationship but there are ebbs and flows, there are little things that are said, there are the eyes which can communicate so, so much.  There are just a hundred small actions that make a guy, or at least me, feel special without a ton of conversation.  I had a provider once unbutton and take off my shirt in the most casual, natural way and then put it on a hanger.  Now that was a nice touch - it's silly I suppose but it was just part of a nice tone to things and style she had.  There is the overall attitude - smiles, giggles, naughty looks and little comments that separate just doing it with a wonderful experience with another person.    And when I do enjoy a conversation is often after.  Now at that point I'm totally relaxed, in a super good mood and I assume the provider can kick back some also.  My favorites are the ones that understand this part of the experience and know how to play in the afterglow.

If there is no personality connection at all I could have a much less complicated meeting by dating a blow-up doll.

Sex is good, but I am greedy and want more.  I want to like the person I am physically intimate with.  No, not “fall in love” with them all, but enjoy being with them.

As several have said, once I enjoy being with someone, then occasional physical-only meetings can be great as well, but never the first time.  For me, it doesn’t work that way.  And that’s why I rarely want to meet someone for only 1 hour the first time.

For me, it makes or breaks subsequent visits. Engaging in the physical act with someone who's dumber than a bucket of hair or has no opinion on an anything but how nice my shoes are holds absolutely no appeal for me. I really enjoy humor, wit, imagination, sarcasm, and intelligence in the people I spend time with.

Now, my ATF has been known to assault me as soon as I hit the door. The physicality of being all but dragged across the room and just ravaged is a *major* turn on, but it's because she's doing it. She knows I'm coming, has been thinking about what she's going to do, and is ready for it. For me, it wouldn't work with just anyone. It would come across as fake or insincere.

Some women are enjoyable to talk to and some aren't. I was once with a provider who spent the first 20 minutes whining about the broken transmission on her car. Honest to Deity. Twenty friggin minutes yammering about her car's transmission.  She could be a sleep therapist.

4 years ago I met a provider who talked for 10 minutes about how she loved to play Super Mario on Nintendo... ain't no lie either.... do you see why I don't wish to include talk time in my hour appointment?

The 10 mins of super mario bros conversation aside (good grief!), I definitely prefer the connection with my girl. For me, it's the whole GFE thing that I'm interested in. I luv women...  I like to talk to them, be around them, smell them, tease them, undress them, and of course have great sex with them. But if I wanted a simple "wham bam thank you mam" session, I could get one a lot cheaper using my hand and a good porno site.

Of course, that's also why I don't normally book 1 hour sessions in the first place....

I'm sure as you can read in my reviews, I view hobbying as an expensive method of working out. My doctor says that I need 90 min of cardio a day. So once a day I dole out $$$$$$, I get on top and pump away for 90 min straight.

The provider is way softer than those hard machines at the gym. And as an added bonus, she can massage my muscles afterwards.





OK just kidding.

I only last 35 minutes.

I do this for the feeling of companionship as much as any other reason.  That's what makes the GFE for me.  If I make a connection, then we could do whatever we both want to do.  I like conversation, so I'll do more time talking.  Getting to know each other is very important to me.

If the lady has a reasonable hourly rate, I always book 2 hours.  That way we can socialize.  It seems like a date.  

tennis

Couldn't have said it any better.  All I can add is that it's wonderful there are ladies with whom you can make a connection.  I've made several good friends since I started doing this.

tennis

However, Nicole, being an introvert, I enjoy hitting the ground running. The conversation seems to flow so much easier after the ice has been broken by physical intimacy.