I've never done the fbsm, full body sensual massage before, but I'm looking at a provider that basically isn't an escort, but does the massage with a happy ending. Meaning she specializes in it.
I'm a touchy feely person so is it usually allowed for me to touch her as she's massaging me? I know most people are going to say either, ask the provider or depends on the provider. I'm just looking for the basic etiquette for FBSM. Thanks in advance.
My experience is that 80% of the time, the massage provider is fine with a little touchy-feely. This is particularly true at AMPS (Though I recall one exception.)
I always attempt it, and in the few cases where it was not welcomed, the gal simply removed my hands from her in a friendly enough manner to make her point without being unpleasant about it.
Bottom line: Give it a go, but be gentle about it.
if she has any. Those should give you an idea of how open she is to being touched and in what way.
If there’s no guidance from reviews, I always start slow. I ask if she has any “ground rules”; often she’ll wink and say “I’ll let you know”, or sometimes she’ll be more specific. Also, I love to give massage so I always ask at the start if she’d like some table time. Almost always she does. There again I start slow and feel her out 😁 for what she’d like to have rubbed or not rubbed. I’ve found that providers appreciate my asking first, and it often leads to their guiding me way beyond their usual menu. And sometimes all she wants is a therapeutic massage, at least the first time. And that’s fine too. Giving a massage to a beautiful, sexy, naked woman is fun no matter what direction it takes.
You might post something in the Massage Parlors forum and take a look at threads there that might give you insight on your question.
I responded to my own post shortly after making it as I found a good thread on here explaining on what to expect with FBSM, but it didn't come through. The post I found was Very helpful.
Very interesting I never thought about asking her if she'd like some table time. I'd def be up for that as I'm a touchy-feely kind of person. Thanks for the suggestion.
In my situation yesterday, first time with any of this I've been a SD for a while now (other than all of this and more in Thailand), I just asked if I could touch her and she said anywhere but the privates and breasts.
I've offered massage to a few ladies, FBSM and otherwise, and I don't recall any rejections. As it turns out I give a totally decent massage, but most women will appreciate the offer and the effort, even if you're not professional grade. And there's no downside to a happy provider.
I suppose if she allowed touching according to the last X number of reviewers, you can try and see whether she stops you; in which case stop. And of course if she mentions in her ad that she allows that. But otherwise, there is no downside to asking, only upside. A woman may tailor her offerings at times (some stopped DFK early in the Pandemic) or she may just not feel like being touched that day even though she's happy to touch you, or it may be she's only comfortable doing that after a couple of meetings. Really--why not just ask.
Exactly - ASK, if she doesn't lay out the ground rules at the beginning of the appointment.
I saw a lady who provides the same type of service - who is based in Wilmington, DE. The first time you see her she sits down with you when you get there and explains what is allowed and what is not allowed and asks your preferences about certain things.
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