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The base rate for hourly appts. in the U.S. is 300, so his estimate is about average.
London Rayne See my TER Reviews 625 reads
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It's obvious he plays on a different field than you do, but if he makes it to 12 appts. that is pretty damn good, actually. I get bored after about 5 with the same person, and I am getting paid for the shit.

wrps071802 reads

For me it is around $4000 or 12 appointments.  I find that with those numbers we get too familiar with each other and take each other for granted.

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wrps07655 reads

I collect data and store in my spreadsheets for that past 14 years. Just went back and looked at the data for what I am seeing in my hobby habits.

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toofuckingstupid679 reads

if you need a spreadsheet to keep track of your escapades, you have more issues than realized. who the hell does that? can't you just say, "this week I need to save money, so I will wait until next week to get my dick sucked?"  

Posted By: wrps07
I collect data and store in my spreadsheets for that past 14 years. Just went back and looked at the data for what I am seeing in my hobby habits.

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wrps07750 reads

To keep from overspending. If I don't keep records I will spend $3000 in one month before I notice. My average budget is $900-$1000 a month on the hobby.

Posted By: toofuckingstupid
if you need a spreadsheet to keep track of your escapades, you have more issues than realized. who the hell does that? can't you just say, "this week I need to save money, so I will wait until next week to get my dick sucked?"  
   
Posted By: wrps07
I collect data and store in my spreadsheets for that past 14 years. Just went back and looked at the data for what I am seeing in my hobby habits.

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Dr Who revived598 reads

That's the insane thinking that many auditors use as well  LOL

Why not just cash a check on the first of the month...you know, when the unemployment check arrives, and when you run out of the $ 1k you cashed...you're done for the month.

Or spend countless hours tracking it via detailed account analysis.

I'll bet you read your reviews every night just before bedtime...EVERY night  :D

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toofuckingstupid674 reads

try a fucking cookie jar or show box. put your money aside for spending, and when you are out, you are out. it's not rocket science. if you can't control yourself, you need a shrink not a spread sheet  

Posted By: wrps07
To keep from overspending. If I don't keep records I will spend $3000 in one month before I notice. My average budget is $900-$1000 a month on the hobby.  
   
Posted By: toofuckingstupid
if you need a spreadsheet to keep track of your escapades, you have more issues than realized. who the hell does that? can't you just say, "this week I need to save money, so I will wait until next week to get my dick sucked?"    
     
Posted By: wrps07
I collect data and store in my spreadsheets for that past 14 years. Just went back and looked at the data for what I am seeing in my hobby habits.

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wrps07639 reads

I take out a certain and that is what I do. I don't use a cookie jar(envelope), but the concept is the same. I still keep records. So for  month that has 5 Sundays I just hobby 4 weeks in the month. I have some over from last week, so If wanted I can see three providers this week.

Posted By: toofuckingstupid
try a fucking cookie jar or show box. put your money aside for spending, and when you are out, you are out. it's not rocket science. if you can't control yourself, you need a shrink not a spread sheet  
   
Posted By: wrps07
To keep from overspending. If I don't keep records I will spend $3000 in one month before I notice. My average budget is $900-$1000 a month on the hobby.  
     
Posted By: toofuckingstupid
if you need a spreadsheet to keep track of your escapades, you have more issues than realized. who the hell does that? can't you just say, "this week I need to save money, so I will wait until next week to get my dick sucked?"    
       
   
Posted By: wrps07
I collect data and store in my spreadsheets for that past 14 years. Just went back and looked at the data for what I am seeing in my hobby habits.

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Dr Who revived611 reads

Create those spreadsheets for them so they can also be aware that they are sick and tired of seeing some john.  They may not realize it until they have the data.

Or join up with the other guy (ghostwriter) that is doing screening and create your own agency.  Sounds like a win-win for everybody  LOL

Can't have enough johns here knowing personal info on other johns.

Posted By: wrps07
I collect data and store in my spreadsheets for that past 14 years. Just went back and looked at the data for what I am seeing in my hobby habits.

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toofuckingstupid546 reads

any provider letting a client see my info is DNS. that's just plain stupid. a screener provider is one thing, but a fucking john? no wonder no one wants to provide real info. you don't know who is seeing the shit.

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Dr Who revived588 reads

Ghostwriter is the dude doing screening.

This OP (wrps) is not looking to screen.

Every time I see the thread like ghost posted it reminds me of the dungman saga.  Sad  :(

Posted By: toofuckingstupid
any provider letting a client see my info is DNS. that's just plain stupid. a screener provider is one thing, but a fucking john? no wonder no one wants to provide real info. you don't know who is seeing the shit.

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wrps07690 reads

I also have the spreadsheet records so I won't forget the write the review. I use the spread sheet to keep a minimum days between appointments. One tab lets me know the last date I have seen a provider. I try not to see to a provider in less than 5 days. Sometimes I can't help myself and see them back to back. I also restrict myself to seeing no more than 2 providers a week. I also try not to see a provider for at least 3 days after I have seen the wife, that does not always work.

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Dr Who revived706 reads

yep...the computer geek in Moneyball.

Almost worked for them...maybe it is a winner for you  LOL

Posted By: wrps07
I also have the spreadsheet records so I won't forget the write the review. I use the spread sheet to keep a minimum days between appointments. One tab lets me know the last date I have seen a provider. I try not to see to a provider in less than 5 days. Sometimes I can't help myself and see them back to back. I also restrict myself to seeing no more than 2 providers a week. I also try not to see a provider for at least 3 days after I have seen the wife, that does not always work.

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GaGambler665 reads

I don't recall how many of those times was as a provider though. Our relationship has evolved from provider/client, to SD/SB to BF/GF to something along the lines of friends with benefits. lol

Just like with most things in my life, there are no hard and fast rules on this for me. Some providers are a "one and done" type of proposition, others I see many times.

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DT_lover648 reads

I would see her again if she came back.

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bluepillman607 reads

And you wonder why the Professor never shagged Ginger? It wasnt b/c SHE didnt want to. I mean what choice did she have? Skipper was fat, Mr Howell was old and Gilligan was gay. But The Prof had no intertest in Ginger b/c he was always trying to figure out how to create a helicopter out of palm fronds.  

Ginger would have been in that 10/10 BBFS crowd I'd bet. No emails back then but she'd be badgering you with that note on your hut the next day when she read your 8/9 review of her. I'll take Mary Anne who would have been thrilled with the 8/9, and would have my fav cigar, a banana cream pie and slippers waiting for me too.  

Stop being the Professor. Look to Sam Malone as inspiration.

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Dr Who revived596 reads

Lovey was dishing out the BBFS...and she was +45 and we all know that puts her in the mature category.  And certainly the other two are too young to know what to do.

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bluepillman610 reads

She's in that age group that all the gals here claim the guys want to see but the TOP 100 is filled with girls mostly 35 and under, and more than half 30 and under. Stupid men.  Hmmm...I'll bet Lovey's eros ad said 49. lol. 30 years in a row.

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AlfredReader654 reads

No idea about the money, but I've seen here well over 70 times.  Don't see any reason to stop since we both have a great time each time.

I think the key is keeping it fresh and evolving.  Saw her a month ago and it was nothing like the early years just because we have evolved, as has the relationship.

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pdef1949585 reads

I like hearing this; I don't feel so odd or silly.

I met a provider a few weeks ago and have been back a second time with the intent of many more visits. In fact at least for now, I'm not looking for new providers....yes, she's that good to me.

Frankly I like the idea of an ongoing relationship....I don't care for emotionally disconnected sex anymore.  And P4P or not, she is the closest thing I've had to a GF for quite some time.

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TheKarateKid612 reads

8 yrs with one local provider, but it would have been longer if she didn't retire.  I've seen 2 other providers for over 6 years, but since they live in other states, I don't get to see them as often.  As long as I enjoy the company of a particular provider as well as our BCD time and our feeling are mutual, I'll keep seeing her

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RokkKrinn600 reads

A typical single appointment for me runs close to $4K...

Admittedly, I have my standards:  I like longer appointments in general, I often like to do duos, and I often like a kink experience mixed in with my GFE experience, which can sometimes make things a bit pricier--and I only go with TER indies, no agencies, nothing from CL or BP; so maybe I'm just automatically putting myself into a higher price range.

But really?  $4K?  As for number of appointments:  I don't know, I've seen several providers for a greater number of appointments than that.  If there's a genuine connection of some kind, and they push the right buttons for me, I don't know that there is a maximum number of appointments.

I understand the desire for variety, but there's nothing wrong with having your dependable ATF, is there?

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London Rayne626 reads

It's obvious he plays on a different field than you do, but if he makes it to 12 appts. that is pretty damn good, actually. I get bored after about 5 with the same person, and I am getting paid for the shit.

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