I finally got up the nerve to visit an asian massage parlor that advertised "sensual massage by beautiful, sexy asian girls that want to please you". This ad was posted in the adult services section with the escorts and others. I was very nervous and expected the happy ending, but it never came. There was a sign in the room with a message that said there would be no sex and not to offer or imply it, but I thought this was just a cover. What did I do wrong? How do I know I will get what I pay for in the future?
Avoid the AMPS, stick with well reviewed providers.
Hard to say without more information. Did she ever ask you if you wanted anything else? What did you say? What was her response?
My experience with AMP's is pretty limited. I went to one once and had a good time, then the local authorities cracked down on them pretty hard.
Keep in mind, just because they imply that you'll have a good time, it doesn't mean that you will. They're running a business, and will do what they can to get customers in the door. The fact that they've advertised in the adult services section means nothing.
You'll have to do some research. How many AMP's are there in your area? Some may be full service, many may not be.
Jackson's WSG forum helped me immensely, but I understand he's in some legal trouble. BTW, does anyone know what is going with that? The site used to say that it had moved to another unspecified URL, now it just says "Under Construction." I was always a lurker there, and don't have the connections to anyone that may know where it has moved to.
Wish I could point you to another website, but I'm not aware of any. Do some Googling, I'm sure there are other forums out there. Failing that, try becoming a repeat customer. If they begin to recognize you, and you appear less nervous, more options may become available. But if they aren't asking you what you'd like by the third or fourth visit, I'd chalk the place up as being legitimate.
Good luck!
You can find it over at usasexguide.info. I don't know about the "other countries" part -- I haven't looked at it in years. I hope nothing's seriously wrong for Jackson, as his site has been very helpful to me in the past.
Then they had a "happy" ending. 
Seriously, you got burned, but bad.
Was the massage itself at least half decent?
I happen to be an AMP affectionatto and I would say that 75% of my experiences are good to great. One of my ATF's I met at an AMP and (until recently when Waterbury CT got shut down by the State's AG.) met her there all the time as well as off campus.
So try getting some reviews of places and try again.
My experience is that you do at least as well at an AMP as you do with another (non-reviewed) setting.
I have never, repeat, NEVER visited an AMP that didn't offer 'extras'. If you want something extra, it's all about being subtle. Don't come right out and ask for it. Also, if it was your first time in that particular parlor, I'm not surprised that you received nothing. It's common to have to return for a second visit-preferably soon enough that they still remember you-before you'll get what you want. Remember, there's no hard and fast rules on how to get the happy ending since every girl is different. Some that I've seen come right out and offer it...some are much more careful about it. Make sure you compliment her on how she looks. Tell her how sexy she is. You have to make her feel comfortable with you. If she puts you in a small steam room (common for most parlors) leave your 'junk' uncovered. You will need to seem very comfortable with yourself to put them at ease.
I've always found that not being afraid to touch them works well. On your way into the shower, maybe brush up against her backside. While you're laying on the table getting the massage, try and rub her legs a bit. Sometimes in the shower they'll motion for approval to wash your dick, say yes and give her a little moan of pleasure. That should definetely give her the reassurance that you're not LE.
In summary, be polite...be calm...and don't be afraid to touch her. What's the worst that could happen anyways-she says no? If you follow my advice, they'll NEVER say no.
By the way, with an ad that reads:
"sensual massage by beautiful, sexy asian girls that want to please you"-happy endings are an absolute certainty!
Good Luck 
if you do a happy ending on a client that the massage place has never seen before, you can get busted as cops bust girls that way and it becomes a felony with all the medical regulations out there
you can go back there and see if you can get a massage or you can try with an escort.
My guess is that you just went to the wrong AMP. AMPs run the spectrum from no service by hags to fantastic, full-menu service delivered by beautiful attentive women. Another variable that affects the menu is how recently they got busted.
You have to in most cases take the initiative. Start by putting your hand on the back of her leg. If she does not protest put it on her ass and rub it. . From that point start touching her breasts. If all goes well you can gently place her hand on your cock. At this point she may giggle, and start to go to work on it, or make a hint for more money. $50.00 should do it. If the place has had any trouble with the law you have to take it slow like this. 've been to a couple other places, where you go in and the asian girl will make all the moves. Some places will only do a hand job, others will go all the way. They generally have one price for a hand job, antoher for oral, and then a third for fucking. I've had real good experieces with these places because its a good value, and you can do it on an impulse.
Another option, if you have them in your area is to look for one of these off-brand type of papers that advertise the club scene. You'll find classifieds from massagers that are working out of their house. Many of them that are liscenced will give a hand job. They know it doesn't take much effort on their part, and is great for business. It doesn't hurt to ask, at some time during the massage. I think it's not unreasonable in today's society to expect this. I had a first time massage form an attractive, but heavy massage therapist out of her home about 10 years ago. I did not expect any hank-panky. When the massage was done, she told me next time that she would do it in the nude, and give me a hand job. I took her up on it, but had her leave the clothes on.
More recently, about a year ago, I met a women online, on a site called freerub.com. We started exchanging massages. Now this is hard to believe. She was 20, attractive, and was a liscensed therapist who was working an office job. I am none of these, except maybee midly attractive. We exchanged them for a while. Giving them to her was not as stimulating as I thought it would be after the first time however. She was very demanding about how she wanted her massage done. It took all the fun out of it. As a result I eventually told her I did not want to give massages any more, but I would pay her to receive them. We agreed on $40.00. She was excited, becasue she wanted to build a clientele. I did a couple legit ones with her but soon stoped because she was too far out of m y way. She called me after about a month, and asked where I had been. I told her that I was seeing (not true) another therapist who was givint me hand release. She said she supposed I could do that. I told her I thought it would be a very good business move on her part. Since then I've taken her up on it three times. The last time I squirted her in the eye, and I'm not sure how that went over. By the way I've uped her to $70.00., and told her she should get at least this. Whew, I'm done. 25 years of massages in a couple of paragraphs
