For both providers and clients:

Especially with an ATF who you enjoy spending time with as a person and not just for the sex.  Though I must say, after finishing an energetic session I sometimes have to take a few minutes just to catch my breath and bask.  I try to never go overtime because thats not right (unless OTC is freely offered I don't expect it)

It often follows a quick trip to the bathroom by the client. Many go to flush the condom shortly after. I try not to break away, but I will if the client is a regular and likes a round 2. I like to clean up a bit before starting up again. And, I usually keep a brush and makeup wipes in the bathroom bc, even with minimal makeup, a roll in the hay can make me look more Alice Cooper than I care for. Lol

... or getting ready for the next client (or picking up her kids etc) intrudes.  I love the post-O cuddling and favor providers who seem to like it also.

When a session comes to it's climax (pun intended) My preference is for you to lay back and just relax while I get up (for a total of 2mins maybe) to take care of things that need flushing , and prepare a warm washcloth to comeback and clean you up with. Then I lay back down for a few to chat, or rub your back, sip our coffee/water/drinks, (basically whatever you prefer). I have noticed at the end of a session some guys just rush up, and some like to lay back to enjoy the sex-brain (my term for post orgasm ha). I like to cater to you and it goes without saying when one wants to shower after or before that is always ok to do.  

I saw a girl that I'm friends with.. she's a provider.. I simply met her for lunch.. we talked .. went to nice spot .. sat for awhile and had a nice afternoon.. It pretty much turned into a date.. completely OTC..  
Went back to her place, she asked me up.. .. cuddled and had a great make out session for a very long time.. I followed her lead.. One thing lead to another.. and we had a very passionate session.. When we were done.. I looked at my watch.. it was kind of late .. so I got dressed.. told her I had a great time and left.. she told me later she felt kind of used.. I felt awful.. she was absolutely correct... Out of habit.. when we were done.. I got up got dressed & left.. it was a different situation and I failed to realize that.. so, my point is... habits developed in the hobby are not a good idea when outside the hobby.. even if the person is the same.. I still feel badly about that..

There have been multiple threads on this board seeking the definitive description or definition of GFE. Most of the focus is on the various acronyms like DFK , BBBJ etc....
To me what happens the period of time prior and after the boom boom are essential components to the experience and affect my performance scoring . The afterglow often becomes the difference between a pretty good time but not gonna repeat and a GFE I can't wait to see again

I am incapable of much movement for about two minutes. After that there is nothing I would love more than to lay there and bask in the afterglow. But I'm always mindful of the ladies time. So if we finish up and there I am a grinnin' fool, happy as a dead pig in the sunshine and there's time left on the clock? I get the hell out! Kind of like a tip, I figure, giving her some time back.  

yes...I certainly need a few moments for the sex brain, and I love it if they pamper me like you said for that few minutes...
don't care for the hit and run.

Posted By: Premiummsbritney

When a session comes to it's climax (pun intended) My preference is for you to lay back and just relax while I get up (for a total of 2mins maybe) to take care of things that need flushing , and prepare a warm washcloth to comeback and clean you up with. Then I lay back down for a few to chat, or rub your back, sip our coffee/water/drinks, (basically whatever you prefer). I have noticed at the end of a session some guys just rush up, and some like to lay back to enjoy the sex-brain (my term for post orgasm ha). I like to cater to you and it goes without saying when one wants to shower after or before that is always ok to do.  
   
   
  (also it is important for women to go potty right after sex..not to get all medical on ya'll but true haha)

Just wow. But she was sort of your regular who liked you a lot, right? Xo

You'll clog the plumbing and pollute the environment.  I recommend having your own plastic bag to dispose of them, then if you don't want the hotel staff to find them, you simply dump them in a gas station garbage while you're filling your tank.

I like to hold her and kiss her some more, whisper in her ear how beautiful she is and how fantastic her lovemaking was.  Then some mutual washing off, condom disposal, etc.  And finally some more conversation as I get dressed and start to make my way out the door...with a nice goodbye kiss before the door shuts.  I will also usually shoot her a text a little later on thanking her and letting her know that she is appreciated.

two-hours sessions with my regulars, and I love a short 15-minute power nap between pops with her laying next to me, using my bicep as a pillow.  Its just the energizer I need for round 2 at my age.  For one-hour sessions with new girls, I try to time my O at about the 40 min mark, so I have some cuddle/chat time to get to know each other a little more.  (My way of interviewing a girl for a two-hour repeat - lol)

vanish to the bathroom to destroy the evidence before I get a chance to remove it for them.

The session didn't start till around 11 PM, and she had to leave at 4 AM for her day job.  It was set up to run those hours in any case.

I always take care of the trash and come back w a warm cloth almost immediately after. I take the time while the water is heating to freshen myself up. Sometimes it takes a min or 2 to catch my breath and get my legs working again haha. If it's my incall and he doesn't already have a drink Ill offer one again then. After that I like to crawl back in bed. I always follow the other persons lead, weather he wants to cuddle, just lay there and talk or whatever. Most of my sessions are longer so time isn't really a concern and regardless I don't like anyone to feel rushed out the door rite after. Even if time is up I dont mind taking a few minutes to relax and recover, as long as its not taken advantage of. Sometimes, usually with new people I'll come back from getting the washcloth and he'll be up getting dressed, even though I said something along the lines of relax or don't move. I always feel bad because I dont want anyone to feel rushed. Most of the time when I see them again they do take the time to relax.  
Guys, most of us are pretty good at indicating when its time to go. Don't be afraid to take a few min to relax! Just don't take advantage of it. When I get up and start getting dressed, its time to go

cuddle, kiss, and converse if allowed.  I dislike to get up and dress after the deed.

Body language, etc. That's what works for all.

Other men, no matter when they release, practically jump out of bed and run out the room.  I suppose over time, I get to know what the desried response is and go with that.  I try to let you take the lead in this experience...so sometimes, it is a preference thing...and sometimes it can truly be a time thing.  If a person comes for hh, hour...there is not a lot of cool down time desired in that contract.  The gents who enjoy that true girlfriend expereince usually book 2-4 hour dates.  Lots of time for chatting, teasing, playfulness, and downtime.

Fortunately, we also like to return to the scene of the crime