I use her professional name. When we are together, since there is seldom anyone else in the room, no names are needed.

Most of the women I've seen 3 or more times usually have no problem with telling me their first names and sometimes their last. I also learn something about them, their ambitions, hopes and dreams and all that. You build rapport and trust to a certain degree.  It comes with the territory. I've also had providers tell me too much and I've stopped them. If I take someone to a public place then being familiar with their real name is handy, especially if she knows someone who comes to the table (it happened more than once).

so when contacting your ATF or when you're with her what do you call each other?

By name?

By pet name?

We've only used babe or sweetie.   Sometimes we may utter each others name in the heat of passion.

She said I shouldn't call her bitch.  Honestly it's true.  I normally call her by her first name unless I'm referring to her to another hobbyist or provider.  She knows her real name and knows that I know it too so it's not a big deal.

Usually, real name; she wants it that way.

i just realized me and a regular i see have never actually used each others names, or any name for that matter. never enough time to get a word in edge wise cause we always go straight to the fun and our lips are occupied with other activities then talking

via e-mail or text we usually refer to each other as babe or sweetie.

we seldom ever use our names when we're together.  

I always use their professional name in any kind of communication that is not face to face. I know the "real" names of my favorites but don't use them. They know my first name. During our time together names don't come up much.

Don't know what to tell you. I'm besides myself. Lucky, I guess....  

Yeah, this is P4P. But in my limited experience, I've found that the ladies feel more comfortable calling me Mike, or Mikey, Mickey with one lady, and most share their real names with me.

The fact of the matter is, we're going to fuck each other. I make it a point to try and make us comfortable, on both ends.

Yeah, I'm giving them money. But I'm not some nameless, faceless fuck. Same applies to the lady. I have more respect than that.

Like I said, just me. Flame away!

that's only if she's been good. If she's innocent just call her Octavia.

I think I love you!

Although we've introduced ourselves (I told her my first name, she told me her real first name), frankly we don't really address each other by name.  That said, I'm pretty sure she doesn't remember my name, and I'm thinking she probably forgot that she told me her real name too.  But that's okay.  Let's keep it all in perspective - its a hobby, don't take it too seriously and just enjoy.

setting up the date, I signed the last e-mail with my real name.  She replied back, "To me you are keystone and I am x."

No, she did not require my real name for screening; I guess that is a benefit of having been around the community for over 8 years and having a long posting and review histroy.

No flame here. I agree.

I go by part of my real name, and don't really care if you happen to know my "real" name, however I prefer that you call me by Renae for that is the person I am when I am providing.