I mean you have to have a super uber connection for that!!!
Seriously? How do you women do this? I can't be in a room for more than 2 hours without going nuts, much less for 12. What do you do all that time considering there is only so much fkin you can do, before you are in the damn ER? Do you play chess or watch TV? Are you not bored to tears regardless of how hot, or good in bed, the guy is?
Just wondering, because I have NEVER done an overnight that was strictly in the hotel room or even in a huge incall space. I would have to charge like 5k to keep from pulling my damn hair out. I don't care how much I like someone or how great we might connect, but no way in hell I would literally be locked up in a space with no outside time, for that long.
I have read reviews where all they did was order food in, and not even go to the bar or restaurant for an hour....YIKES! No worries....I am not exactly cryptic if someone contacts me about an overnight, and my feelings on them lol. I am also a smoker and though I can go 2 hours without it, I would go nuts being without a cig for any longer than that....especially when I drink.
I honestly don't know how some of you ladies do this...guys either.
We can smoke our brains out.
I'll get so drunk. I'll forget that we are supposed to fuck.
Perfect date!
In all honesty.. 12 hours is a long time to spend with someone.
I can't see me ever booking a date that long.
I agree with you.. It wouldn't matter how hot she was.
I would get bored eventually.
We would wind up playing video games or something
LOL...that's what I am saying. I have never had a guy book an overnight who did not take me out first for at least 3-4 hours. We went back to the incall, soaked in the hot tub, and then played til we knocked out. Played again if he woke me up, and again in the morning after I ordered room service while he was still asleep. I know a girl in my area who does a clock free for about 1500, and she will spend 8 solid hours in the damn room...never!
you know a girl that will do clock free for 1500? What's her name?
12 years ago. Had never met her but had talked extensively on the boards and via email, and had mutual friends.
I showed up at her nice hotel incall at 6pm. She practically mounted me at the door and we "got to know each other" for about 2 hours. We took a break and ordered room service, had a couple of really good steaks. We were also drinking vodka. Dinner and conversation took just under 2 hours, and the we settled back on the bed, bloated and buzzed
, to watch a movie. She was in front of me and I started off massaging her shoulders, but really was just fondling and molesting her all over, and this quickly turned into another 90 minute fuckfest, and then we passed out.
I woke up at 430am or so and got up to pee. She followed me into the bathroom and got a soapy cloth and proceeded to clean the stale sex off me, and when we got back in bed she gave me the blowjob of a lifetime, lasted maybe 30 minutes with very few short breaks. She made me return the favor, and though I didn't last as long as she did, I know she came more times than I did
We fell asleep again.
We both woke up for real at about 830, and after a little petting and making out, decided that we just didn't have any more in us, so we showered (together) and went out for brunch. We parted at about 1130am. I figure 17.5 hours total broke down to: 5 hours passionate sex, 1 hour fondling, fore and after play, 3.5 hours eating and conversing, 8 hours sleeping or relaxing.
She was a smoker, and I don't mind the smoke. I wasn't bored for a single minute, and I'm pretty sure she wasn't, either.
Hey Mr. F, you remember Mel, don't you?
She and Lady Rose moved out west. We kept in touch for a while but haven't heard from them in several years.
I still follow her blog, though she is retired now.
I did see her in Boston when she came to visit a few years ago.
The name Mel doesn't ring any bells with me, however.
If you are sleeping 5 out of 12 hours, that is a long time so might not be so bad that way, but I rarely get even 2 hours of restful sleep. So for me, it's 12 hours stuck in a room. May as well be a padded cell.
But then guys are from Mars and you gals are from Venus.
So, at the very least, I like to get out someplace for dinner, and a stroll afterwards as well. If time permits, go to a club, or maybe some shopping.
The closest I've come to 12 hours in the room was during a blizzard where we couldn't get out. We did go down to the lounge though, so there was some diversion.
I managed to get a paper and do the crossword puzzle, and she greatly assisted me there.
Fortunately, we turned out to really like each other. We spend lots of time together now.
I offer a 12 hour package but it includes a mandatory nice dinner out. I also have two fees.... one for we will sleep at least here and there and the other for we play all night. So far no one has grabbed the up all night package. Yay!
He was hot and it was amazing.
One of my all time favorite experiences.
I arrived with a three day itinerary and he said "I'm tired of work, I'm tired of noise, I want to relax"...
...And that is what we did : ).
We played, we ordered other girls, we talked, we napped, we watched movies etc.
I'm down for whatever during overnights and multiple days (save for jumping out of a plane which I have been asked to do on multiple occasions).
No sleep clauses demanding eight hours of paid rest, no requirements of X hours spent here or there.
I enjoy adventure dates and social dates but if a client wants only to bathe, make love, eat rinse and repeat for an entire night or a weekend I have no objections and haven't found it to be that unusual on the few occasions its happened like that.
Its really not all that bad when you have pleasurable company London : ).
Damn girl...I would not even do that shit with a husband. Sorry, I became a hooker because I am a small doses type of gal. I don't even like staying in my own house alone, for that amount of time. I would go stir crazy, so I don't care if Brad Pitt was paying...not happening. Maybe for like 5k, but no less. If I have to be pulling my hair out, at least I could focus on the money lol. I am not into pse type dates, when they are extended, and never will be.
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Bad news sweetie...
Achilles apparently took out Serpius.
Maybe Maximus is available?
with a person for a long time, but being LOCKED in a fkin room for that duration. I am not built for that type of shit, period lol. The men who book me for overnights are either old and just want to talk, dine, shop, and cuddle, or party guys...both of which are not exactly demanding we stay locked up together with no air to breathe. That's insane. How does one manage to even go to the bathroom? Gross...
Achilles traveled with his myrmidons...so if he poops out plenty of others to step in.
Where the fuck is Serpius?
Did Achilles finally rid TER of this vermin?
I mean you have to have a super uber connection for that!!!
I respond to the initial post and then read all the other responses. I could have just said, "What Ally said" or Ditto.
Too Funny!
And I'd never pay anyone to sleep next to them. The exception is my ATF, for whom I do some screening. This Friday she's stopping by my place and we'll play for an hour or so, then I'll take her to lunch. But it's all OTC. That said, it takes all kinds. A friend of mine was involved with a provider who told him many of the guys she sees never even have sex with her, just take her to dinner and talk. Nice work if you can get it.
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having you labia and friends gently kissed, licked and suckled on for like an hour or more?
To answer your question, no...an hour straight of just oral on me, would also drive me nuts and not in a good way. There is a saying, "Too much of a good thing" you know. Once I orgasm like 2 times, I want a sandwich and a nap....3 times is pushing it to the point of being too sensitive to enjoy it.
Not all women (even hookers) are multi orgasmic. Just like your pee pee tip gets sensitive after you cum too many times, well so does our clit. It simply feels bad after so much has been done with it. I am not at the age where I have reached that sexual prime I hear women talking about, so here's hoping that changes in 5 more years or so lol. Would be nice to see what the fuss is all about.
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2 overnighters and a weekend trip to Vegas in the last 30 days. Both overnighters lasted like 20 hours and well the weekender was for the weekend. Overnights are great, but your right you can't spend the whole time in bed, you've got to do other things.
She would come to my hotel ~ 6:00 or 7:00 - go out to eat (sometimes order in room service).
Next morning have room service breakfast. She would leave about 11:00 AM or so. Total date time would be ~ 16 hours with 12+ in the room.
Unless I was truly in love with the guy, I can not do it either...
My overnights usually consist of 2 hours play time, then off to dinner, a show, or something... then back for more play time... we sleep for a bit, get up early, play some more, shower, go have breakfast and one last hurrah before we say goodbye!
to be honest most guys booking overnights with me, go about 3 times and that's a done deal. Maybe, I need to see guys under 80? LOL.
He's not 80 yet...is he? LOL
I enjoy overnights, I like to connect with the woman more than the simple physical actions. I have done several overnighgts, one for multiple nights, It has always included some public time, going to dinner, shopping, sightseeing, etc. It is still pay per play, but it also adds to the overall gfe experience.
Yes, thank you. Me locked in a room with some dude for 12 hours is not GFE to me. It's PSE and borderline insanity.
lol yeah I guess it helps if they are younger and have taken V
One lady stayed in the hotel room for 6 days. During the day she stayed in the hotel. Others from 8 pm to 8am. The chemistry has to be right. We would fuck 3 times before going to bed. Once at 2:00 am in the morning and another at 7:00 am. I have not done one since 2008.
in the room all day alone when you were out doing whatever...six days? Cmon. I don't care how much of a connection there is, that's prison, not fun. I would beat the shit out of him and likely jump out the damn window. Actually, I don't think any guy COULD stay with my hyper ass for that long, unless we were doing some uh...well, nevermind.
She is a submissive. I had her chained down to the bed and fucked her in many positions that way, ballgagged, and blindfolded. During the day I kept the locked restraints on her lol. Free to roam around but with the locks on the ankles and wrist restraints. She would get her rest from the night of fun, lol.
You watch too much BDSM porn LOL
Did housekeeping ever show up?
If you really want some advice on how to properly maintain your subbie toys...join a BDSM group and learn from folks who truly know how to play.
Cardinal rule NUMBER ONE....Never leave someone bound alone. EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Go back and watch some more porn as that's as close to a BDSM session you're likely to ever get to.
I did not leave her restrained when I left. I left the restraints just on her ankles and wrists. She was free to move around.
She was hawt in that movie...goodness! You could never do that to me, boy. I would have that whole room looking like Breaking Dawn when Edward taps that virgin ass!
When you see what is in my hobby bag. I gently say do you want to put these on you, of course with some extra cash. Many can't resist, lol. I don't force, everything is with consent. One lady got really scared with the ballgag, she put her hands on the gag trying to take it out frantically. I took it out because she was freaking out.
I have videos that I show for demonstration from previous fun. Some women take the challenge because they want to out due the competition.
One favorite is to lock the ankles and wrists together for forced missionary style. Then there is the flip side with chained to the bed for lap doggie.
... but I bet you would be fun! Can't wait to find out when I come down and I won't run away if you start crawling the walls, we might need to get drunk but that's fine by me :P
So what do you mean "unless we are doing some..."? Whatever are you speaking of? Inquiring minds would like to know!
I like to go to dinner, a performance and then maybe dancing before coming back to the room for lots of sex or romance (chick flick included), and then go to sleep. Depending on who the overnight is with, I won't really sleep b/c I snore, but a couple of my friends don't mind.
It's not just overnights thought I can't be in small quarters with anyone (even my bestie) for too long or I get antsy like I'm ADHD. lol...good question.
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with a touch of claustrophobia and ADD all rolled into one, lol. You're a hot mess baby, haha!!!
Experience. They were with someone I knew well, and adored. But normally overnights (mine were about 14 hours) were a combination of out and in time. We'd meet for dinner, either go to a show or head back to the room, and have fun as long as he could handle me, and then we'd sleep. In the morning we'd have more fun and either dine in or go out for breakfast. A few times we've awakened in the night to have fun too.
But it's never been 12 hours if pure sex. That would definitely hurt!!
But thinking back, I've done that several times as a civvie with a couple of tasty lovers in my early 20s.
After 2 or 3 good rounds I am ready to crash hard.
We took baths and showers together, we gave each other massages, we talked for hours, pay-per-viewed some current movies, we had plenty of sex, we ordered room service breakfast, lunch and dinner (all three days) because neither of us wanted to get dressed. I didn't even put on a robe for the room service guy, I just slipped into the bed under the covers. Really, come to think about it, after the first night I didn't need any of the clothes or lingerie I brought. I could have saved a lot of money at Victoria's and Fredrick's.
That's crazy. I thought guys who booked VIP girls, did not require that much sex? I thought it was about "the whole experience" lol. I will send you all mine, girl. Not even trying to go there!
..but we did go out to a restaurant for dinner at one point. Sleep time was about six hours--fitful for both of us--she was on jet lag, and I was umm, kind of tied up for bedtime. More fun and games in the AM. Heck, I would have stayed and played longer if she hadn't already booked up her next day.
I love longer dates. Not to be a mangina, but I like connecting with someone on a more-than-superficial level...