She didn't lie to you-at least not based on the story you told.  She DID sell you a bunch of lap dances-that's her job. She will call or text you when she wants you to come in and buy more dances.  If you call her to ask her out she will stall and ask you to come to see her at the club so you can "talk" about it...at which point she will try to sell you more dances.

By the way, they don't care what you look like, only how fat your wallet is.

i get sooo frustrated with guys insisting that women aren't people. every woman is different. no one knows for sure if this stripper was playing the guy or not. only she does. strippers like company as much as the next person.

... Call her number to see if your local Dominos Pizza answers.

then you already know the answer."

Still and all, it's Christmas, and maybe it's a Christmas miracle and you two will fall in love and live happily ever after, or at least get your rocks off together and have some fun.

Here's hoping you get lucky.

Let us know.

Ok guys I have a bit of a story. I'll try to keep it as short as possible, but I think it's an interesting story nonetheless. Felt like having a bit of fun tonight, but most places/providers were obviously closed. I decided to visit a local strip club that I haven't been to for a while. I didn't plan on staying long... maybe just a few lap dances to get my dick wet. I sit at the bar for a little while, but didn't see too many girls I was interested in. I got up to use the restroom, and while on my way I lock eyes with this girl. It was one of those moments where you lock eyes with a girl where you know there is a mutual attraction. I'm a young guy, in good shape, and I would say fairly attractive, so its not out of the realm of possibility. I thought to myself "damn... I shouldn't have gotten up!"

Anyway, I come back from the restroom and I see the girl try to get a few other guys to take her for a dance down towards the end of the bar. For some crazy reason, they decline. Lucky me. I make sure to stare her way to try to get her attention. When I see that she notices, I turn away, testing her to see if she would walk towards me. Luckily, she does. We chit chat for a little while, standing very close with my arm around her, and we eventually head to the private area for some lap dances.

This girl got 6 dances out of me. After 3 dances, it was always "just 1 more". I figured this girl was taking me for a ride but I was enjoying myself so what the hell. While she was bouncing up and down on me, she said she wanted to fuck. I've heard of guys banging strippers before, so I decide to push the issue a little bit, and say I would love to and lets make it happen. She kinda ignores it at first, but things started progressing. This is where things get interesting. Things got progressively more erotic, with some mutual touching, her letting me suck on her nipple a little bit. We even did some quick kissing with a little tongue (we had to be very discreet because of the security guy watching). She says that shes horny, and we continue teasing eachother by saying things like "i want you" and moaning. At the end when I finally cut her off on the dances, she asks for my phone number! She punches in her number (supposedly) on my phone and dials it, and says "ok I'll call you". After I left, I sent a text saying "Nice to meet you tonight baby, hope to hear from you soon". Did this girl play me, or do I really have a chance to bang this girl? I'm not exactly expecting her to call, but it would be pretty cool. If she was playing me, why go through the whole act with the phone number? Especially after I said no more dances?

In my short experience with strip club girls, many have tried to play me.  You will discover that she only calls when times are slow at the club and needs to milk you. Doesn't matter if you think you're hot as fuck. I think she feels you're an easy target.  IMO, it's their job to seduce you out of your money.  6 lap dances?? Damn, no wonder she asked you for your number. She thinks you're a big spender.

It's tricky... They are tricky... but the challenge of winning the playing game excites me sometimes.  
Can't win it all, but I'm happy with it either way.

Why don't you call her back-I would think that since she called you on your cell phone you should have a number in your phone???  At the same time-YOU BEEN PLAYED!!

what i'm talking about is stippers that are 18-25. no one old school girls.

if you got real game and she is genuinely attracted you will score of course.

if you get to know whats going on in the club biz these days you find that strippers are hihgly trained at working the mark. if you are a paying guy, especially older, they need you back at the club buying dances. they ruin those chances when they see you away from the club.

if you hear from her again, you'll know for sure. only she knows. you'll find out soon enough if you try to connect.

I dare say you could have had more than one session...  and guarenteed gotten F*cked...   with a provider for what you paid.  
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That's foreplay, not being played, it's worth it, don't know about you, but have you ever tried to get a session where the first 30 minutes you keep your clothes on and just hump grind and make out ?   It hard to find.

it may even be sane

i guess the board would lose a lot of posts if people didn't come here asking to read what is in some client's or provider's mind. PLUS what she was thinking at the moment may not be what she is thinking when there is further contact.

it's better / simpler to let the other tell you what they are thinking. all you get asking strangers is some average answer that reflects the experience of the responder and may have abolutelu NADA to do with the situation.

i will revert to my usual insanity shortly, don't worry.

I admit it's been a while since I've gone to a booby bar, but it wasn't uncommon to go home with a lady's number or her for that matter.

Especially if the provider is genuinely bi, and is down for talking the stripper into coming back to the room for a game of checkers!

$10 per dance? $5 per dance? Uh.. not where I'm from, unless it's from a homeless lady

Some would think this is funny or pointless or whatever... but I've tried a few different approaches to different strippers, ranging from looking cocky, looking shy, spending big to spending little, tipping , not tipping, lapdance, no lapdance, hard to get / chasing, playing mind games, being truthful.

And I believe you're absolutely right. getting 6 lap dances that same night is probably a guaranteed way to get on her sucker list. Chances of dating her after hours has diminished the moment he came across looking like an ATM machine. He may still have luck sleeping with her in the champaign room though. lol

For me, though, I've had more luck sleeping with a dancer after hours when I got one or two dances over the course of a few weeks than nothing at all. The train of thought is that keeps them guessing whether or not I'll get a dance and keeps them coming back to talk to me and try to seduce me into a dance. If I never get any, some stop talking to me as often as the others who think I may or may not.  It was a tad bit harder to get the other girls to come talking to me regularly when they've decided I never get dances from them.  Unless I go during off peak hours, these ladies hardly have time to spend more than 30 seconds saying hi.

So far, I have noticed that being a little shy / gentlemen (but not a total loser) worked better in winning the girl's trust befriending her into a civvy friendship (and bedding her off the clock) than being a loud pomptious guy, kinda works the girl's motherly instincts maybe. I've done champaign and gotten some nice perks from some girls but never grew into anything more. Being humble yet sounding like you got your shit together is better than flaunting money and thinking these girls will do anything for money.  Calling strippers a whore or throwing money at them, can be considered very offensive. I saw a dude licking the dollar bill before handing it to a girl I know well, needless to say he didn't anywhere with her.

My experiences are by no means representative of what's typical, it probably only reflects my own since the few I've taken home does not make a trend and I'm still looking to learn new ways.

Currently working on shagging a stripper right now too but all my bag of tricks hasn't worked. This stripper, I've known for a few months and communicate often, is either highly skilled in the art of deception and false promises.... or she genuinely has legitimate reasons. She makes it sound like she really wants to go out with me, even claims that she's not making it up and that she is very sincere... but I'm starting to think she's got other agenda. It remains to be seen which is the case, but no real harm done... it's all just an experiment for me anyway.

Re: Strippers love women...bring one with you next time and it will increase your chances

I gave up strip clubs a long time ago when I discovered that escorts are far more worthwhile.  The only times I go to a SC now are with a lady--usually a provider.  Absolutely, positively it is better to go with a lady already on your arm!

$20 per. so $120.

How many "drinks" did you buy her?  ...any charge for the private area?

You got played, bro... but that's her job.  I've dated strippers before, and a good deal of them are kind of lazy.  They work maybe 4 nights a week, hate it when it's their turn to take the stage, and don't really like having to walk around finding guys to dance for.  They prefer to have regulars that will come in and spend a couple hundred on them.  And how do they get regulars???  ...read your story again. lol

If she was really horny for you that night, you would have hooked up with her that night.  She exchanged numbers with you so she has a way to contact you on a slow night... $$$.

$120 and that's all. No drinks. No private area. But yes, I realize that she was full of it