Lately I have seen three providers who explicitly said they do not want me to post any review. One said a reviewer posted a service  that she does not provide and TER refuse to change it, hence no more post. Two said they want to keep our interaction private.

Does anyone has similar experience?

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To stay UTR. They probably have established clientele,  and back channel ways of establishing new clients...if and when desired. Reviews here show an active business. Since LE looks at these reviews as well....its a pretty smart move on their part. Less web presence means less chance of getting busted.

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Your comment that LE checks this board is interesting.  I assume providers post reviews on clients also. So the concern works both ways.

Absolutely. But that's out of our control. If LE has established a presence within the PO board here....then who knows what's being said. I Would hope they use back channels to discuss problem clients by name. I prefer to not let myself be driven to the edge of paranoia over this.

Then honor her request. Don't post a review about her. Why ruin a good thing?

You can't review her if she doesn't have a ad site..Need the link of her ad site to complete her profile. Jus sayin..

Not here.  Where, then?

And if a provider says she doesn't want reviews, I honor that request, unless I think she poses a risk or danger to others, eg a rip-off situation. So far I haven't needed to make that exception.

Before I book a session with any provider, I ask whether she's read my reviews -- I want her to know what I like and how things might go between us by seeing how I've interacted with other providers. So she knows going into the appointment that I'm a reviewer and that's especially true if we're meeting via TER.

If she doesn't want a review of our time together, she may decline to book the appointment --that's her decision; if we have a session, then I will write a review -- that's my decision.

I look at my reviews and those of other clients as a database of information available so that we can all make more informed decisions. Think of it as the "Consumer Reports" of p4p.

There are several reasons why a provider might not want you to write a review such as

1.  UTR.  Doesn't need clients.  Already has a solid client base.
2.  You write crappy reviews or appear to be a harsh grader.  You think a 7/6 is a solid review.
3.  She has several recent reviews and doesn't want to appear to be high volume.
4.  She treated you more or less favorably than most clients and doesn't want to set a new standard.
5.  She only wants people who have seen her multiple times who will write positive reviews and respond favorably to PMs from other dudes to write reviews on her.
6.  She finds reviews invasive and values her privacy.
7.  She doesn't like the new scoring system and is happy with her current rating.
8.  Combinations of the above and/or other reasons.

This is happening more and more.  Especially with higher end ladies.

I did not ask her why not, and have respected her decision.  

That said, she has several very good reviews, without which I may never had decided to see her. She was referred to me by a PM from another TER member who thought she was right for me.  

In any case, any gal can always request that TER remove her profile.

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Well said

Some people here get caught up in the bullshit and have lost the purpose of hobbying.

If the review was going to be a positive one, it's quite the betrayal to not honor her request. OTOH, if it was a negative experience she has no right asking the client not to warn others.

You will piss her off if you don't, and you might get rewards from her later if you show respect. Obviously, you shouldn't lie about services offered, and if she gives you the opportunity to sample something off of the menu, don't mention it to anyone.

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... if I'd taken that approach when asked by different providers for different reasons to not write a review of our great session.  Examples are:

Her:  "I'm studying for and taking finals the next few weeks, so I'd appreciate it if you wouldn't write a review."
Me:  "Of course. My no-review fee is only a $100 discount off your one-hour rate."

Her: "I'd like to keep a low profile right now, my mom is ill and I need to spend a lot of time with her out of town."
Me:  "Sure, I understand, I had a similar situation with my mom.  So instead of my regular no-review discount of $100, for you it'll only be $50."

And there's been others but you get the idea. I bet I'd never be able to see those providers again, and probably others after they tell their friends.

Good luck with that...

with no complaints...  review is optional.  Especially if she has enough reviews.  If there were issues, I write an alias review anyway.  I'm not going back.  

Does my loyalty lie with the person that I have a business and physical relationship with?
Or does my loyalty lie with a community of mongers, mostly male, that I don't know.  

When it comes to truth in advertising, information exchange and monger safety, I'm for the mongers.  

When it comes to these amazing ladies that I have a relationship with, I want their safety, success and for them to like what they do. So, I will honor their wishes, as long as they are not asking me to be dishonest.

I don't think I can generalize an answer, each situation has it's own answer.

Well put.  I agree with the Aussie.

I'm siding with the ladies. It just takes one or a few guys to mess up the gig you have with these ladies. I owe the guys ZERO Loyalty.

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A well reviewed lady who I am seeing for the first time made no reviews part of the agreement. Most of my reviews are very positive but she says she has enough.  If I make agreement, I honor it.

Will you meet up and deliver?  Cuz as read, it sounds like you have some sort of weird allegiance to guys on a website.  I feel like I can get damn near anything I want from you if you'll ignore the very simple wishes of intimate partner for the sake of my reading material.  

 
Thanks man.  I'll have that blowjob now, please.  

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Everything is review manipulation, including good performance.

Nobody is putting a gun to anyone's head.

True.  Opting not to scribe the details of my intimate encounters for a bunch of faceless voyeurs is weird, now that you mention it.  

Lol you sound like such a fucking dweeb.

No Reviews on clients,  just oks and whitelists😎

I think it's like the Pete Rose thing.  He FINALLY admitted to betting on baseball games but he said he NEVER bet against the Reds, the team he was managing. He NEVER "manipulated" his management of the games to avoid a win. He was always going for a "10." (But he didn't say whether he bet on the Reds to win when he knew they had a poor chance of winning ... maybe he was manipulating his bets?)  
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If you agree not to post a POSITIVE review, you aren't manipulating your review. I you agree not to post a NEGATIVE review, THAT is manipulation.

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If you’ve got a hard on about documenting every experience you have with a provider, at least have the decency to let the provider know beforehand that you will be writing a review.

The terms of a visit with a providers who don’t want reviews are $ per hour and no reviews.  You entered into the agreement with the intent of breaking it.

Sounds like a quick route to getting blacklisted by providers.

If a girl asks me not to review her at the end of our time together i may honor her request if she at least tried to deliver a quality service but no way I am agreeing to it before we have a session I was burnt twice that way!

What’s stopping you from posting a review after the fact? Your verbal agreement with her beforehand? Give me a break. Similar to “money is exchanged for time and companionship only”

it is quite interesting that if you feel you own other guys nothing why are you here posting.  Why not stay away from the review board altogether and shop for escorts on your own.

Wait its cause you use TER for yourself but don't contribute anything to it

Never ever have - just my style/choice

I’ve heard/tell that reviews are often “exaggerated”

I’ve also found that someone’s 10/10 is my 7/7......and vice versa

My $.02

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... Have you ever read a review on TER?

It apprears that you have, otherwise you wouldn't know whether a provider is someone's 10/10.

Thus you find reviews of some value to you (or you wouldn't bother looking at them), but not enough value to help other mongers with reviews. Right?

If she asks you not to, DON'T. Plus we have ZERO control over having them taken down and leads to LE - including leading LE straight to YOU.

Well....Jake from State Farm:
Since I don't see ladies reviewing clients anywhere else here. The PO board seems to be the only other place within TER walls that this could " possibly" occur. Forgive my use of deductive reasoning...

are mainly about safety. or he's a pimp, or tried to not pay, or a serial timewaster, tried anal or something else without asking, tried to film or take photos etc. .

if clients reviews on providers were simply about whether or not she had a pimp, stole your money, or missrepresented herself then most ladies would be all for them, but they are much more than that

Sorry if that bothers you!  Sorry for the inconvenience of NOT seeing my opinions!
Again, I’m told that guys “exaggerate” and I’ve found that they outright lie about what the lady does.
I call these “fake” reviews!
So, rather than eliminating ladies because the reviews are exaggerated or “fake” I choose to not write reviews.
Many/most of the ladies that I’ve seen act/seem different than their reviews.
I’m further told that I ain’t the only guy who doesn’t write reviews...

Then honor her request.

If you asked something of her, wouldn't you want her to honor it?

I agree 100 million percent.

... that, if everyone followed, would make the p4p world and the world in general a much better place.

Although it would also eliminate the need for over half the threads on this board. 😜

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A girl that has become one of my atfs asked me not to write one.  She has a great track record of reviews, especially recently.   Unfortunately, she said these recent glowing reviews have attracted new clients that were not gentlemen. She would prefer to stick with regular clients that treat her well.

My city and suburban ATFs said exactly the same thing.

You're kidding right?  

"think of it as consumer reports??  LOL   OK, guess you're buying a car right?  It's supposed to drive the same for every buyer and all the marketing promises to deliver the same results for ALL buyers if you all pay the same advertised price.   C'mon  who are you kidding?   Pissed yet?  read on!  

WE ARE HUMAN.  WE ARE MOTHERS. WE HAVE "REAL LIVES"  "REAL FEELINGS" "REAL HOPES AND DREAMS" "REAL BILLS/TAXES"  BOTTOM LINE IS YOU SHOULD RESPECT HER WISHES (ESPECIALLY IF YOU'D LIKE TO REPEAT WITH HER!) and Especially if you'd never forgive yourself if some nutjob hurt her because she refused a service he Expected because it was on her "reviews"  Most of us don't care about LE,  just want to get back home to our kids, that's all that matters to most. Because going to Jail won't allow your kids to see you at home and getting killed guarantees they never will.   How does your conscience feel about that?  

You are got this whole ESCORTing thing all confused.    An ESCORT is a COMPANION! and YOUR payment allows YOU a set amount of TIME to have US all to yourself! Which means she accompanies you on travels, dinners, meetings, sports games, movies the beach or just stay home and watch Netflix.   NEVER do most of us advertise that "if you pay my rate of $500 you'll get to to have your way with me and treat me like a sex slave.  Bang me in all possible positions, locations, orifices and walk away feeling like a STUD and leave her feeling less than decaying corpse!  

 Explicit reviews against her wishes only makes you look less of a man for violating her trust, instead of protecting her, especially if you like her, why would you want someone else to mistreat her if she refuses to cater to others requests because they "expected the same Service. You're not just incriminating her but yourself as wel,  It usually will haunt YOU too!   The more you show her respect you'll be rewarded in the long run, at least by her.    

That's why P411 is popular since it mainly says, She's legit by having a said number of Oks and he's OK'd by many women makes him safe to be alone  with.  

NO 2 sessions are alike, reviews are simply Entertainment. If anyone thinks they get the same "standard" treatment/services as others have described, they are delirious and living in candyland.   It's actually OK to have negative reviews as well. Nothing wrong with people not having chemistry. I tell all of my clients. If there's chemistry and your hygiene is on point, let's get busy!  I love what I do, I want to enjoy myself as well with my gents. Sex is fun, shouldn't feel like and Obligation just cause the "reviews" said so.  Geez, I've always said, "If I'm as good as the reviews say I am, I should do porn and charge guys a ton more!" Hardly read them, in all honesty.  Can't please everyone, Even the top paid supermodels get judged by others and cheated on.  

Just because I've seen a client ONE time, doesn't mean I'll see him again!   He has to earn his right to see me again. That's how I run my business, Yes we do black list, we do share intimate details as to why we won't see a client when references are provided to get you verified. We just handle things a lot better than MONGERS do.  You guys just don't get it, Reviews are there to LURE you to spend your money and sign up on the site.  There's so many fake websites with fake photos. Hell, I've been solicited multiple times to buy reviews and get discounts for referring other ladies to buy from the writers! Cmon it's a game - Mind games!  

 I've called out other websites that freeloaded off my pics to make it seem like they have a lot of hot girls on their site, Even had my lawyer draw up legal docs sent it their way!  

I have no problem cutting sessions short, giving them their money back because NO means FUCK YOU!  
 A review should definitely be written if she was absolutely horrible, basically took your money, sat their twirling her hair while on her cellphone, was nothing close to her advertised pics, her incall was gross etc.  That's all.  A review should be tasteful and intriguing to the reader so they too will be excited to see how it turns out, Just validate her legitimacy and help your bros out by recomming a hidden gem or to save $$$

Just my two cents, take what you will, you don't always have to be a Dog. It's OK be a gentleman, if you're capable that is, or if you need a refresher, hit me up on private message I'd be happy to provide links!  
Just don't cross my path, you'll be severely disappointed....   NOW,  FIRE BACK, I wouldn't expect anything else!  

Raquel Reigns

You're a rare breed, an Alpha male who won't conform to bottom crawlers!  
Now that's sexy!

I only have this to say;

I agree with you 100 billion percent!

Thats wierd.  Surely reviews are an important part of the Escort Industry both good and bad?

It is helpful to clients and if you are good at what you do then it must get you more bookings??

Getting more reviews doesn't always equate to more bookings. Especially seeing good clients.  

One girl I'm currently seeing had numerous reviews. At first she saw as many clients as she could. But then certain clients treated her very badly. She stopped seeing a lot of clients and just saw a select few that she felt comfortable with. I'm just one of the lucky few that still see her.

Since when is it a requirement that I have to post a review of an escort I'm seeing? I find escorts on my own. I don't need to ask or beg anyone for escort information.  

LOL, thanks for the giggle....any woman with an ounce of common sense will first check the reviews posted by the client before agreeing to see them

Its simply ones opinion at the end of the day........for the other gentleman who have posted on this thread:
what someone's expectations and preferences are differs person to person. Reviewing a lady is not the same as reviewing a product/service eg dinner at a restaurant. Perhaps you don't click with one another, maybe one of you has had a bad day, who knows you could have rubbed the woman up the wrong way and you didn't realise. We are humans and have been known to react to how we are treated.  Its subjective.  

OH and by the way just as you have forums where you discuss us ladies, we too have communities where we discuss you.....so don't for one moment think that you are not accountable. Posting a vile review of a personal nature will put off any providers from accepting your request.

..unless something happened that you feel the need to report (a ripoff. for example).

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