but I refuse to put up with a demanding bitch, ie rules upon rules, just for the privelege of giving her my money.

Naturally I prefer the best of both worlds, but given a choice between the two, I'll take accomodating and stupid, over prissy and demanding any day of the week

but it's your personality that will keep me coming back for more.

The best way for me to learn about that personality is how you do your website.

Make it a delight to the eye, and easy on the mind.  It should express your friendliness and make me feel that time with you will be like being in paradise.

Not even 2 doses of Viagra would make up for the turn off that results from such longwinding set of rules.

I once saw a girl's ad website that had over full 2 pages of rules (and my screen resolution is a huge 1900x1600)

As I read her rant, I started thinking WTF is wrong with this girl? Is she a sociopath?

Does she have any friends in the business?
If so, then why didn't they stop her from posting such a turn off on her ad?

Does she have a problem with society?  
Does she have issues with her family?


However, a concise set of rules, maybe a paragraph or two written in a lady-like and polite manner are something I almost always read beforehand.
I think most sane guys want to respect lady's rules but when it's plastered on her website, de-emphasizes anything else on her ad and comes off as a biyatch.

I am simply turned off by them, and I refuse to see any woman who's attitude reflects that type of attitude.

There are literally thousands of women out there competing for my money. I choose to patronize those that put my needs first, the same as in any other business transaction, actually given the personal nature of this business, even more so.

I have been seeing a lot of "thrown together" websites lately and the curiosity has gotten the better of me


What do you think when you see a providers ads and shes really well reviewed,great pics and then you get to her website and its written like she has never heard of capitalization or punctuation,but full of "big words" ?

How do you feel about websites that start out with a full page of rules before you even enter the site?

Are you more likely to see a lady with a more organized website than one of the above ?
Or  Is it all about the pictures and reviews ?

I don't mind the rules page -- great pics and great reviews are the top two things for me, however, a cleaner website is nice.  Bad grammar is a turn off, and I do enjoy reading the "about me" or bio pages.  Still though, reviews and pictures would trump a poor looking website.   The reason is:  reviews will give me a better impression of what a lady is like (averaged out over the all the reviews), and the pictures obviously help me determine if she's my type.

One thing though:  I'll never fill out an online form with personal information.  It's almost never secure (SSL), and I have no idea where that info is going once it's submitted (saved in a database, emailed to several people, etc.).

The best web sites for me are those that show several pics, have a simple statement from the lady, as to her background, likes / does not like and include information she wants to list about her. It is useful that she indicate what she accepts for references; White List, P411, Date-Check.
Shows Rates and how to contact her.
Please make sure you can view the site from an IPad. Also list your legal age check.

I believe that it is better to have a few organized, yet simple pages.
The Eros pages are simple but allow me to see everything I want. Probably the simplest layout.

Taylor Sky and Valerie Lace both have good sites in my view. More information than on Eros, but organized.
I may have missed it, but I did not see the legal age check on either.

If someone has great reviews, yet is not organized on her site, I would move on without contacting her.



Balboa

If we were playing by the "rules" most of us would stay home.  Personally I see all the pre written rules as a  turn off. It has been my experience with all the types who feel the need to lay down the rules upfront that they are from two camps.
1) Used to dealing with such knuckleheads that they feel the need.
2) Will pull the rule book out, like the Geneva Convention rulebook,  at every turn and really spoil the mood.
Either way people who lay down a bunch of rules upfront tend not to be very good in the "service" industry. And are better suited for the "enforcement" and "audit" industries and  a lot  are.

i want to see photos, rates and services so there is no uncertainity about the envelope.  a little narrative about the provider is a plus.     if i must register or log in to get any of that,  i am moving on to another provider.

(Part of a word game I'm playing on my blog)

...are websites that play music. Some of us don't want to attract attention to our hobby searches when we are at work or when others are around and music does just that....most of the "musical" selections are dreadful, btw.

You can take them anywhere and do all sorts of shit.

Speaking of, guess what I'm doing right now....

My advice is, don't let that stop you.  For example, on Brenda Boobies' site there are lots of rules and it's possible to be intimidated by them.  I wasn't and the result was a terrific hour with a very friendly and highly sexy lady.

I do it at work myself but, I connect to my home PC using remote desktop so there's no trace of my surfing habits at work.  It's probably still a bad idea in case someone sees and reports it to HR.  But, without risk, there is no reward!

I haven't published it to any directories yet. I pretty much just finished it this morning, still trying to make sure everything is spelled correctly but overall I am very happy with my new site. i am just curious to see what other people will think about it!!  Any criticism is good for me.

by Brenda's rules.  Sheesh!  You need to go pound down a few vodkas!  Actually, so do I!  LOL!

I like clean organized websites without animation, flash or music. Since I seek a GFE I do like articulate communication that reflects intellect. If photo's are great, reviews are great, but website illustrates poor communication skills or disorganized and less than classy, I lose interest.

Rules tastefully expressed are OK with me as long as it does not come across arrogant or bitchy.

Cheers!!!

So suave, so articulate, always thinking about the bigger picture!  Agonizingly wise, how much experience will it take to catch you?

There are numerous templates available free making it easy to throw up web sites. Being that said, it doesn't matter whether you use a template or use the so called Web Masters (believe the term has gone out of favor), it is matter of having the relevant information on the site first, second, site loads fast, third, flash and razzle/dazzle makes the site load slow last but not least testing it to see whether the site loads properly when using different browsers. Internet Explorer has also gone out of favor and if you develop it using .net, you better know what you are doing. Microsoft has a tendency to use proprietary stuff so the site doesn't work as intended with many other browsers. This problem exist with the so called Web Masters and novices.

and lastly do not put statements like " I do not discuss rates over the phone and then not put any rate information on the site". I am not calling for information you specifically stated, "you would not discuss" and mind reading ability is ZILCH.

Posted By: inquiringmindswannaknow

I have been seeing a lot of "thrown together" websites lately and the curiosity has gotten the better of me


What do you think when you see a providers ads and shes really well reviewed,great pics and then you get to her website and its written like she has never heard of capitalization or punctuation,but full of "big words" ?

How do you feel about websites that start out with a full page of rules before you even enter the site?

Are you more likely to see a lady with a more organized website than one of the above ?
Or  Is it all about the pictures and reviews ?

Why would anyone be intimidated by any woman? Rules upon rules tells me the clientele is not up to par and don't want to waste time. I look at few photos, review and make my call and don't linger reading pages and pages. I may be wrong here, but it is what I do.

A lady has to try to cover her ass.


A poorly designed site with bad grammar will lose me pretty quick. Some ladies try to get too carried away with site design and that can be a turn-off as well. I prefer a relatively simple site that makes it easy to find the primary info I'm looking for ...Who (photos), What (fee structure), Where & When (schedule).


Some sites have no useful pics which are blurry and non-descript. Why bother? Some will put their rates in such random places (or not at all) which is frustrating. And some seem to assume that you already know the where and when part! I often don't.

I agree, the bitchiness that you perceive may not exist.  I recently saw a lady with a fairly long list of rules, and although I had a negative reaction at first, I decided to book her anyway.  (the reviews, menu and pics won out).  A wise decision, as it turned out ......... here's how it went:

- Very warm and friendly upon initial meeting up, which progressed nicely when we were alone.

- Helped me overcome a headache with a brief but awesome back/neck/head massage.

- After turning to foreplay, politely asked if it was OK to commence with the French.  (Don't you just love that) Then proceded with some great cock worship.  

- Asked if I was into dirty talk ........ oh yeah, and we were off to the races, ending with an explosive CIM.

So, the moral of the story is ............ reality often differs from perception.

We've all heard the expression, "You never get a second chance to make a first impression"

With the countless thousands of women who are eager to accept my money, I have no desire to jump through hoops to see any woman.

and if you are going to claim "it's my loss" No it really isn't "my loss" I have found no shortage of beautiful, desirable women who don't act like they are doing me a favor by taking my money, I choose to patronize these women and I take an immediate pass on any broad that start off acting like a cunt.

1st, I hope I don't misspell anything or won't I be embarrassed?  Whenever I see a website or even an e-mail with typos, lousy grammar, etc.  I immediately move on.  If someone is so sloppy that they won't even use a spell-check or posts a website that misses words, or misspells them, it really shows a total lack of detail, which in your/her business is so important.  Whatever work you do at least take enough pride in it to spell correctly.  For those who can't read or spell, ask someone else to proofread the page.

Thoughts?

Greg

Poor spelling and grammar is a big turnoff.  So is a website that's painful to look at.  Delayed response, or no email address, is even worse.  I have to do a lot of my hobbying "homework" from work, and as such phone calls can be tricky.  The more preparations I can do via email, the better.  (And as said above, there is NO reason for a provider's website, or really any website, to play music.  Ever.)

I don't mind a page of rules, as long as they're clearly written and sensible.  I'd rather know a girl's preferences ahead of time; if I disagree, I can move on and look for someone else.