I have noticed many providers have added this to their posts. Fortunately most of them are not the hottest women, however, it is cutting off a potential regular. Personally, I am a professional male that happens to be very generous and easy to please. My size is an issues to some but I haven't met a woman yet that hasn't made it work. I am circumcised, clean cut and educated. All of my dates love my company. Big tips seem to go along way. The only thing I try not to do is post too many reviews. I just like to keeps the best ones available because I always need sex. So with all this cash flow, why on earth would a serious provider turn down such a great guy?

I, though White, chose not to see them.  There are generally three reasons some women place that on their sites:

1. They have had one or more bad experiences with Black men.
2. They are in the South, and many of their white clients will not visit women who have been with a Black man.  
3. They are bigots!

I find bigotry a major turn off.

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... age and penis size.

Yes, those ladies are limiting their opportunties, but that is their problem.

I'd just move onto the next gem. There are plenty of gems to be found.

Serpius

"They are in the South, and many of their white clients will not visit women who have been with a Black man."

How would those clients know? I'm assuming that inquiries about that would be answered with a polite "none of your business"? Or, maybe something evasive. But, I hear you about (some people in) the south. I remember visiting my grandmother in the south (~1961; I was 6) and going to a laundromat with her that I had a sign saying "White Only".....I thought it meant the clothes and couldn't imagine why they had separate laundries...

I have also seen where a lady says no Indians (from India not native Americans). Could be a race thing or something else.

in my discussions with providers on this subject..the majority do not want to see black men for several reasons...1] they are rude and arrogant..2] they want everything on the menu even though it is not offered..and 3] most smell like they just left funkytown..i know i will catch some heat for posting this..but all i am doing is repeating other opinions..in the end it comes down to individual choice..not stereotyping..

are reluctant to see a guy who doesn't score anyone higher than a 7 in appearance and only gives a 6 for performance.

Maybe, you should re-evaluate your selection process to see a few ladies who you can have a better time with and that are also more attractive.

If you are that generous.
And why be concerned for the providers that add no black men in their ads? Focus on the women that do include you!

when some say all hookers will do anything to anyone as long as that donation is there...simply not true. Race is not an issue with me, but other things are. As an above poster said, move on. The women who do this know full well they are limiting their business, and that's the point. Not all women want money from just anyone, so we all have our ways of ensuring we only attract who we actually want to spend time with.

The race card is played out...it will never change, so move on. Know that it is not you personally, and never take it that way. Also, consider there are still guys out there who would shun a lady if it were found out she saw black guys...yes, they exist. This is her business, so if her main source of income is old white dudes who are KKK, she is not going to make it known she sees black guys. Think of her POV and that fact that this is how her bills get paid.

Your size is what would keep me away, not your race.






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something just says "problem"

Lina

to be as one who knows she has been compensated. I won't waste my time with those who can't respect how things are done in this business, unless he is someone I have seen before. I don't worry about my regulars not paying, but a first timer...yea right. I don't care how many refs he as either....means nothing. Many with refs have also ripped ladies off down the line, after they used those very refs to establish how credible they were. Won't fly with me.

... that say "no black men". Therefore, he has already been excluded before the lady can ever see his review scoring or how he handles the donation. I don't see how those things are relevant to his post unless you're just trying to help him out with ladies in the future who will see him regardless of his race.

Do you like to see 300lb providers? Does that mean you hate "fat" people or does it mean you're just not attracted to that type of woman?

Yes, his review numbers look low, and if providers just look at the raw numbers, that would be something to consider.... When you look at WHO he reviewed,  the tend to be "BP" girls, and his reviews are exactly in line with what other reviewers are giving... both in looks and performance.

It seems that he has limited his ability to give high scores by seeking out those ladies with a track record of mediocrity....  It seems his ratings are in line, his research is lacking...  my .02

very strange to exclude indians specifically, i cannot figure that one out. i can't agree with London on the uncut thing as most men across the globe are uncircumcised. i have actually seen a good deal more uncircumcised than cut penis in my time. anywho, perhaps she had a bad experience with an indian man at some time? maybe they stole property from her family?? lol

That's usually my question...and I am not a bigot.  You are right on the money though...that isn't what my interest is.

And the ladies certainly can exclude whoever they want.  Last I checked this is an illegal business, and not subject to discrimination rules.

Dear Lina:
I was wondering what part of the content do you tend to pay most attention to in reviews during the verification process? Also predicated on this thread, not that you are doing it, what would be a topic of discussion in the providers only board or to another provider that he has seen if you where verifying him? Thank you for your time and your cooperation.