This was a question on the game show "Power of Ten" this evening. 76% of Americans surveyed answered yes.

I have to confess, I can't remember the names of every woman I had sex with last weekend, but of course I spent last weekend at the Del Rey in Costa Rica. ROFL


I wonder if any TER members could answer yes, honestly to the question?

The list of civvies is so small I can remember it like a very short shopping list.  As for providers, but for a handful of exceptions anyone I saw before I started posting reviews is nameless.  Faces, hair color, bod and whether it was a good or bad time yes--names no.

there are a handful of boyfriends or guys that i slept with for years. so those are easy to remember.

handful of guys that happen to have the same name. for example 2 "johns". there's six in that category. those are easy to remember.

couple others.

and a handful of clients. my rates are high enough to stay low volume enough to probably remember. for awhile.



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In the earliest (pick an agency out of the phone book) days of hobbying I made it a point never to ask their names, the thinking being that if I didn't know her name there was no chance of muttering it in my sleep.  I know, but I didn't know any better, LOL.

I wish I could say yes, but in my late teens and early twenties were a big drunking blur.

I have remembered a lot but not all.

That is funny though that many people can remember each one. For them it must have been 10 or less.

Shane

In fact, I wish I knew their numbers. Wink!  

Hugs,
Ciara

I'm a lightweight- been married without cheating for 24 years until began the hobby 4 months ago- so ....  Yes, I can!

Fantastically, the answer is finally 'no'

The more interesting question for people on THIS list is, "Do you KNOW the names of everyone you've had sex with?"

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Remember if you got Goofy with Dopey. Wink ! !

Thank You

Unless you mean "real" names of providers, then no.

b-

YES. I am low volume (by choice) so yes, I can remember each and every hobbyist I've ever seen, what they look like and what they're into.

As far as civvie boys, nope. I kinda' broke loose my freshman year in college and had a lot of random drunken frat boy sex. Hell, I'm not sure I got all of their names. lol. After that, I slowed a bit, mostly had boyfriends, but there were random one night stands here and there where I can only remember his looks (if at all.)

Damn I'm a slut.

Katie

Even without including hobbying, no way ! but including hobbying, even more no way !

and the 3 blonde ones, and the gang at Natasha's AMP...

Oh, you mean last week too?

NO - not all encounters are that eventful..
I do remember those with which there is 'fire' in our meeting and they are usually the ones who are repeat visitors...

Uhm.....not if my life depended on it.  lol

Im sure there are some of us that which we could forget some too....lol

Except of course for the ones who I never got around to asking...

No - no I can't.  But, as my wife constantly reminds me I can't remember what I had for lunch yesterday or the shirt I wore on our first date (over 15 years ago) so what's your point.

Yes. I lost my virginity at 21, late bloomer and was never really great at talking to women. It wasn't until  my late 30's that I shed the shell. I hope and expect to live a long life.

and I remember where, when, and the circumstances of the event.
I have what some people might call a photo graphic memory.
I can remember what they wore, how they looked the layout of the room, how they smelled, how they tasted, how they felt in my arms.

It is very easy to relive these events whenvere I choose.

Just my opinion...
B

I dread family get togethers because I'm always forgetting their names.  I have to consult a family tree before I go.

On the other hands, there's one girl I dated over thirty years ago at college, just once, but I can still remember her name:  Irka Zazulak.

You just don't forget a name like that.  She was very nice too, but so busy:  She had two full time jobs to pay for school.

Hey Irka, you out there?

Read all about them.

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Let's see...since my initial foray back in spring 2004... I had written a synopsis of most that I have seen, then deleted it, in the name of discretion.  Suffice to say that I remember everyone, though I've forgotten a few names...

you realize the first result when anyone gooogles for this woman's name for the next 50 years will be  the erotic review message boards right?

O boy, let us know if you come to D.C., Katie.

And my number is pretty low at 39 compared to many of you I would guess.  Most Americans' number is lower still, which would account for the survey.  If the average number is something like 12 it wouldn't be hard to remember all those without a list.

except for those who have been the beneficiaries of my largesse.

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Yes of course!!  Funny thing is though, they're all named John!!

A few years back, I decided to list all that I had sex with.... kinda fun remembering.... some of the ladies I would love to see again and find out how they are doing... others... well, it is just as well we parted.... But that could be said about almost every human encounter.

. . . my memory's no longer reliable above lists of three.

Just last night I was trying to remember every guy I was engaged to and managed to forget husband #3!  Yeah, yeah, I don't need any lectures, I won't be walking down the aisle again any time soon.

or patients lying in death throes on the bathroom floor!  lol!!!  or maybe you are trying to forget....!!! winky dink!!!  

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EOM

Yes, every one.  Treasure each lady.  Had a new lady recently ask how many I had seen, and she was quite astounded at the number (modest below lifetime 100).  But then I've had 60 years to play.

I BUSTED OUT LAUGHING WITH THIS REPLY, "JOHN", LOL... Its sometimes hard to remember faces, let alone whole names, especially on my end, but is you asked me that question about my personal life, i could honestly say yes....

Re: lol Can you remember everyone you wish you hadn't ever had sex with? eom

yes sir my first wife, and she was also my 3rd wife. WTF I didn't learn my lesson the first time.

Yes, their names are Tom, Dick, and Harry. Respectively. Hah! I am too funny!

Great question.

Although I'm usually really bad with names, I can remember all the civies that I've had sex with (thinking about it has brought back wonderful memories), but then again, the number isn't that large.  And although I remember the names of many of the providers (especially those that I saw multiple times), I don't remember everyone of them.  Some of those liasons simply weren't very memorable I guess (while others were so memorable that I can remember details from many years ago).  Memory is a funny thing.

(i.e., no, are you joking?)

...though some are blurry.

no but I could probably pick them out of a line up!

But I have been pretty Dopey with Goofies at times.

Hugs,
Ciara

I can remember a few outright mistakes like when I dated a guy for like 3 months and the first time we actually get it on, he tells me moments before that he's only slept with 2 other girls. DOH! He didn't know what the hell he was doing. I dumped him the next day. Then there was this hot guy I picked up at my friend's party. It was like jackrabbit sex. I didn't know what the hell was going on but it was over in like 3 minutes flat. Hmmm... or let me think, this one guy I slept with freshman year in college. He was my friend's boyfriend. Oops. I was such a bitch. Oh well. She moved away soon after, though, so it wasn't that big of an issue.

Katie

Baby, I want to get on your list this summer when I come to LA.