I just recently had a session with a provider whom I will not name, and I had a really good time with her. So much so that I think I am ruined from the perspective of expecting as much or the same quality from other providers. I have seen posts from a few providers asking similar questions and I thought I would throw this one out there. How do you tow the line between seeing your ATF too much, and experiencing a letdown because the 2nd, or 3rd session wasn't as good as the 1st?
Some will advise you to wait a while and savor the moment while you go see other women to keep your perspective, others will disagree with that strategy. We all have different outlooks.
I have had many a session that just blew my socks off and had me thinking about it for days, most of the time I have waited a few days and gone back to see her again, a few times I have gone back to see her the very next day. One time I was so taken by a woman I saw her something like five times in the first week, I guess the feelings were mutual, because very shortly afterwards she decided she liked me more than my money, stopped charging me and became my GF for quite some time. So be very careful what you ask for, you might just get it. lol I guess the rule here is that there is no rule. Do what you think is best and let the cards fall as they may.
First of all, no two ladies are alike. You cannot expect from one, what another does for you. As for your atf, let her decide what is too much. She'll have a better perspective while you're delirious. Also know, that 99.9% of all hobby relationships, atf or otherwise, will end. One more thing. even with an atf, no two sessions will be alike. For example, with any given atf, sometimes there's a lot of otc, and sometimes there's not. Sometimes you get invited to lunch, sometimes you don't. Sometimes they stay in touch in between sessions, and sometimes they don't. You can never have any expectations with an atf. Just let the chips fall where they may, and enjoy yourself when there's a little extra perk. Oh, and sometimes the sex is off the chart, and sometimes it's back on the chart (always high on the chart).
There was a time in the hobby where I saw just one lady for 18 months. She did so much for me that I thought why see anyone else. I really enjoyed that 18 months, but when she retired, that left me pretty much at square one. The other atfs were none too happy they didn't get chosen to be the one. I could definitely feel the rift. So I would suggest occasionally seeing another lady or two while you're having fun with your atf. Maybe there are exceptions, but monogamy really doesn't suit this hobby.
If you enjoy a lobster, does that mean you'll never want steak, or sushi, or roast duck?
If you enjoy a Beethoven symphony, does that mean you can't enjoy Bach? Each gal I see is unique, and I enjoy them to the fullest, in part because of that uniqueness. As for not burning out however, it's best to space out visits to no more than once a month. That way each session is fresh. As far as quality trailing off, it is true that that sometimes happens. The cure is to have a long lapse between visits and see if that reignites their quality. If not, then it's time to explore anew
What is "too much"? If a certain provider knocks your socks off, why not enjoy? What you are speaking of in terms of being "ruined" regards other encounters is that magic that some of us seek in this hobby called chemistry. Now the question is, have you had a repeat session, and was it as good or better than the first? If it was, then my friend, why not ride that horse as the saying goes. If it wasn't, well yes, that can be a "letdown". But don't forget that there are other horses in the corral.
Some will advise you to wait a while and savor the moment while you go see other women to keep your perspective, others will disagree with that strategy. We all have different outlooks.
I have had many a session that just blew my socks off and had me thinking about it for days, most of the time I have waited a few days and gone back to see her again, a few times I have gone back to see her the very next day. One time I was so taken by a woman I saw her something like five times in the first week, I guess the feelings were mutual, because very shortly afterwards she decided she liked me more than my money, stopped charging me and became my GF for quite some time. So be very careful what you ask for, you might just get it. lol
I guess the rule here is that there is no rule. Do what you think is best and let the cards fall as they may.
I just recently had a session with a provider whom I will not name, and I had a really good time with her. So much so that I think I am ruined from the perspective of expecting as much or the same quality from other providers. I have seen posts from a few providers asking similar questions and I thought I would throw this one out there. How do you tow the line between seeing your ATF too much, and experiencing a letdown because the 2nd, or 3rd session wasn't as good as the 1st?
We're all different, so you have to decided what works best in your own situation. Personally, if I'm seeing a provider that I really like, I continue to see her. Although, I've been in the hobby long enough to know that ATFs can come and go from your life for many different reasons ...whether you start getting tired/bored with each other over time or perhaps she decides to retire.
My local ATF retired a few years ago and I still haven't found someone to replace her, but I have a few other favorites that I see when I'm traveling to other cities. Sometime you just need variety to keep the hobby fresh and exciting too.
I did the ATF thing & after a bit, she was taking me for granted... service definately suffered & I took a long break. I didn't think I'd see her again & she probably thought like wise... during the break in the action, I tried others who appealed to me... Of them, I added 2 Favs to my list. When I went back to see #1, it was now in a 3 Favorite loose rotation. I found this worked very well...
Three gals "rotation" worked very well, giving options of availablity & services (One was FBSM w/ HE, one was FBSM with FS, one was a FS Escort). The FBSM/HE has retired. The FBSM/FS went BSC... I'm not going back. (Non-reviewed, no qualifying ads) The FS Escort has been hard to reach but I will see her again when I can connect. (Web site still up)
So I am back to trying out potential Favs again...
When I have an ATF I typically see her twice a month. I have found that the sessions get better with time. Up to a point. I have been seeing my current fav for well over a year now and was feeling the need to move on because the fire just wasn't there anymore. Then out of the blue she just rocked my world. I don't know what changed, but something did! Now, I have no need to see another.
I live in small mountain ski town. The choices are limited. Like down to two ! And one I cannot afford. So I have to travel any where from 4 hours to eight hours to see a provider. Yes you guys are spoiled
Of course the first time is going to be Awesome. Subsequent visits will never equal the first one. After almost three years I still love seeing my ATF. Sure the sessions have become routine. But for me that's what I like. I see a few other girls every now and then. My ATF will never equal the other girls I see.
Once in a lifetime experience more than once. But even that experience shouldn't be held up against another with the same provider. We're not machines. There's more that goes into a session, how I'm feeling that given day, how the provider is feeling on that day and how that plays out with each other. Hence, the other worldly experience.
My expectations are to have the best experience possible each time. If there weren't good and better performances, how would you recognize the best. It's rare that someone can duplicate excellence. When you find it, ride that horse as long as you can. For me, it was over 7 years. Still a favorite, we see each other less frequently now, but with a very enjoyable result. Last fall, I shared two otherworldly sessions that were mindbending. A third and final was only amazing. I think it was me that day ... lol
There is one Thai agency in Dallas who's girls all seem to get 8s 9s and even some 10s in appearance that are fucking butt ugly in the face. There bodies are decent enough I suppose, but they all have faces that all but assure nothing but doggie style from me.
Of course Thai women hardly have a monopoly on this, by and large I have been very happy with the Thai women I have met and they age a lot better than white women. I don't mean to sound racist, but it's a fact, most Asian women age much better than most white women. Don't shoot the messenger.
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