To the gents and ladies I have a question after a session with a lady or gent do you send a thank you note?
I usually send a thank you email or on occassion I receive a thank you email from a gent.
Either by email maybe ter pm or if the guy is free to get text messages maybe a thank you note that way.
Does that bother you guys to receive a short message like this?Do you think "Oh she had a great time or is just fishing for future business or both?"
Just wanted some opinions on this...

i send one after every appointment to thank the lady for a great time..i think it is a courtesy that everyone should adopt..the ladies always appreciate a well deserved compliment..it simply serves as a simple ego booster for both client and provider..

As for having sessions with the gals...I have not sent thank you notes for taking my money.  It's a given that she appreciated my money.  If she enjoyed my company than I would expect that if I wanted to see her again she'll reply timely to my request.  

A lot of the gals I see are repeats who, in some cases, are also friends.  So, while there may not be a  "thank you" note going either way, there is contact.
There are also a good percentage of girls who've sent me a note afterwards.  No big deal.  It's just good business.

would they not be insincere and meaningless? And then how would we regard not sending a note that was "expected"?  

I love it when a lady corresponds with a follow up notification.
Like wise when she rocks my world I like to thank her in return.

if it is someone I see regularly, I can thank her with a card, text or the next time we hook up.

Generally speaking, and except for certain professions like the medical field, proper etiquette for a business is to thank the customer, first. Same goes for the aftermath of a provider/client session (Which can be done by sending a simple thank you text/email/note). Whether or not there was true chemistry or sincerity, it at least shows a form of professionalism and acknowledgement to a customer that he is valued. Then, the customer reciprocates and thanks the provider, thus letting her know that she is valued, too. On the other hand, there are no real rules to sending thank you texts/emails/notes; so if a customer wants to go ahead and thank the provider first, than that is okay, too. For me, I find it more meaningful the other way around.

lly, I'd be turd if I WASN'T thankful that I can earn in an hour what some folks earn in a week...or that a guy with an infinite variety of options chose me to play with...or that he was thoughtful, and/or fun, and/or hot as Hades...or that he sent me home all flushed and glowing, with crazy just-got-fucked hair barely contained by my barrette...

When I buy something online, I get a thank you email. Then they keep sending emails every day for years after. Such great folks

Recently I got a text while pulling out of the hotel lot. it felt great.  It wasn't so much a thank you as two minds with one thought - 'when can we do this again'    

CPA has this one on lock down. You don't send someone a thank you after you just paid THEM $$$$.The onus, if one exists at all, is for the RECEIVER of the massive sum of money to thank the GIVER.  

Nothing magical about it, it's just a courtesy.  I also fill out comment cards at restaurants when a server is particularly good.  I find the older I get the less I suffer fools and the more I appreciate those who make an extra effort.

I have received a few and have sent a few thank you's by text.  

Nice way to brainwash the lower IQ johns here with your bullshit. How about you tip US for all the money we spend at your Breastaurant honey?

You are yummy! And it seems from your reply, quite bright. I'll be making my way back to see another beautiful woman soon, I really do need to look you up as well.

If I enjoyed my time, it's always nice to know that she had a good enough time to want to turn me into a repeat.  Not reveiving one doesn't say anything, but getting one is a positive sign for me.

about something pretty innocuous.  For example, I don't tip and I don't do "pamper" stuff.  I give repeat business to amazing providers and refer them to others that may ask my opinion.  And yes, if my doors were blown off I may send a one line thank you email...and my doors are frequently blown off because I usually research well and choose wisely.  I guess I don't get why this has to be such a big deal, or why someone who sends a thank you note is automatically a groveling, stiletto licking wussbag.

You wouldn't want to miss out on any of that Lysol or Febreeze.

We must frequent the same vendors!

I guess I was raised old school.  Seat the lady at the table, walk on the street side of the sidewalk with her, ask to kiss her and to unbutton her blouse, skirt or dolphin suit, etc..   I wouldn't think not to send a thank you note whether or not I'd see her again.  Not only is it a courtesy to her, but also to me as a sort of stepping stone off the high of a sensual and erotic encounter on the way back to normal world.

And I will give it all the consideration it deserves, I assure you.  And I like TH, btw...maybe it'll catch on and I'll stop regretting my late night, scotch influenced handle selection.

...I don't see any reason not to say thank you when I receive good service. I thank servers, maintenance people, providers, and anyone else that does what I either tip or pay them to do if they do it well. I appreciate a thank you in return from these people. I don't see the thank you as being in the same category as the gifts page and all the other things railed against whenever a discussion like this comes up.  

Most of it isn't something she is proud of either.

well and coherently. When it seems an attack or bitter diatribe, the point is lost.

Or any gal sending a John a TY email.

Send a thank you, don't sent a thank you...personal taste, shouldn't be expected, and damn sure no offense should be taken if not sent.

I love thank you notes, or simple, "I had a nice time." I get a little giggle and blush out of it and pat on the back. I like it, so I send notes too, if I think the guy will appreciate it.  

Followed by an apology for spilling it all over your desk?
Lmfao

This is a great place to play.  

Oh wait...it was  LOL

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Followed by an apology for spilling it all over your desk?  
 Lmfao

Then on the phone...

You try to do something nice for people, and they all go nuts and yell at the cashier.

Don't want to burst her bubble.

Thank you for the donation. I really needed that boner today.

How much I enjoyed our time together and how I hoped to see her again to a provider a few months ago.  She was on the verge of retiring (unbeknownst to me) and she sent me back a communique also saying she had a nice time.  I won't go into details, but it was cordial, polite and well, normal.  It was a GFE taken to the nth degree, even after the session was over.  To me that speaks of class.  The lady has class.  When she disappeared from the scene I emailed her to see what was up and she responded that she was taking a hiatus/retiring from advertising but that if I wanted we could still see each other on occasion for the same terms.  So... Moral of the story is.  Be civilized and maybe you can keep connections that less communicative people or less cordial people will not.  Or be a pig and move on.  Life is about choices

I just used it in my car. I think I spilled something...

because it can be UGLY. Being nice without thinking about it, by nature, is BEAUTIFUL.  

Think about it... If she becomes scared that you're a stalker from a simple "thank you, you're the shit," text, she's in the wrong business. That or she thinks she's 'The One and Only Shit' lol.

They can throw buckets of money and gifts, I don't mind! Lol

to send a TY note after a session...  I know I've gotten very good responses when I do...

My post was directed at Mac's response (and guys like him) when he posted this:

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No, I don't agree that every lady should be thanked, so I did miss the context.

But I'll still send a thank you note when I'm rocked.  But no Flower Bomb or Cristal, sorry ladies.

You're Welcome!!!

Mutual thank you notes help build business relationships.  


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but i never ever think that business isnot part of this whole arrangement.  and thats ok.

Receiving such from the provider before sending her an email is always appreciated, although somewhat embarrassing at not having been the first to respond.

Agreed!  I send a thank-you email or PM afterwards (unless it didn't go well), and always get a positive response back.  But I think thank-you notes are a lost art with many people today.  I find it odd that I am almost always the first to send a thank-you note to the provider after a date.  I agree with the earlier post that according to business etiquette, it's the client who should receive the thank-you.  On only one occasion have I received a thank-you before I sent one.  It was a text shortly after I arrived home, noting how much she enjoyed our time together.  Needless to say I saw that provider again!

But a simple note will be fine!!

If you could do this job for a week and fuck the female equivalent of the johns we see, you would understand. Those high fees offset a lot as far as I am concerned.  

It is simple courtesy to thank someone for good service- it's done in all walks of life - restaurants, the grocery store, clothing stores- it doesn't matter the service provided, to say thank you after said service is appreciated.

I dont care what a girl charges. And I'm not sucking any droopy old dick for $$$$ an hour. lol.

They still get blown the same way. My best. But if a client feels good making me feel good with more, by all means, live it out! Lol.  

Some agency’s frowns on it. So it depends.

Well you're lined up with Capt Drip on this one all I need to know. I'm with Jack.  

Isn't Lysol and Febreeze about 8 bucks total for a container of each?

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I do get thank yous but yes have deleted some , I just cant have an extensive dialogue both leading up too and after every single solitary appt i do, Currently i am shooting for 2 a day with one -2 days rest. Massages fetish and escort a variety of clientelle and style session, By end the month at that pace it just gets to a point where as polite as you d like to be you cant keep up with them all.........................Some get upset, but they arent worth worrying about any how.  
 99 persent understand that you are busy and just cant spend an hour otc with every customer you meet that week if you factor in all the attempts they make to send you an email concerning a scripted session or all the banter concerning just even the POSSIBILTY of a minor one hour date,
 I experience at times they want to discuss or email too ncuh about a small donation hour session they havent even committed too yet, If they want to send thank you its very kind if the lady does also very kind, However if you choose to engage in further time and enerrgy with them than already given its your choice, i know the next day after meeting some one i am tied up with the appts forr that day and the following week and trying to uphold my family and soial life and personal commitments aside from esacorting, having a dialogue concerning a 280 dllar or worse 140 dollar half hour hour body rub we did yesterday i just dont got the enrgy for that ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i do smile and take not and appreciate it, but I cant do it all. you gotta see if you are workin alot and stuff you may not have time to chat after the date with each client that week,

I'll think for myself thanks