I’ve been hoping you would visit NYC sometime soon but that doesn’t appear to be the case yet. I’m disappointed but I understand. That being said, it sounds like you’re offering FYTM instead of FMTY. If that’s the case I should probably shoot you a DM
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A few providers I have seen shared with me that occasionally they would hire a male client. They did so because it allowed them to be in the driver's seat and select a younger/hotter guy. One shared she got tired of it though because too often they were cocky and arrogant.
This makes me wonder, providers on here, have you hired escorts to be with you and what are you thoughts on these experiences?
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About a Escort reaching out and meeting one of the guys.
I doubt IF she'll chime in....There were a few TER reviewed girls that did cameos on that series.
Actually, there were at least 3 but the scuttlebutt was it was all staged. In other words, the client was also being paid. The most eerie thing about that show was one of the Gigolos committing murder and his buddy part of an attempted cover up. I believe it was a Showtime documentary.
I saw that and was surprised at the one who actually did it I totally thought it was one of the other guys never saw that coming.
Who did a cameo on an episode. I even reviewed her and she became a “kinda”regular. She said it was staged .
A provider in Vegas once told me that she occasionally hires a male provider when she wants some good sex with a hot young stud. Apparently an outfit called cowboys for angels is the best bet. At least in Vegas.
Honestly, that was a pretty cool conversation to have with a provider. It was instantly relatable obviously. And humanizing, or maybe a better description would be that she was obviously very down to earth. We had a lot in common as far as the mental gymnastics of picking out a provider; who should I see, who can I trust, will I like them in person, I hope this goes well, etc.
Knowing that she had been on the client side of the situation, the nerves and excitement of meeting someone new and all that, it was fun to talk about and put us both at ease.
The ladies who hire other ladies....I've heard of this back in the day
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banging 5 customers a day, then paying for someone ... hard to believe.
You’re responding like all ladies are high volume. Some see a few clients a week or less. And, banging clients doesn’t always meet their sexual desires.
I don’t know if you knew this, but women love sex too.
I 💯 could have sex 5 times plus in a day..Honestly once I hit a point of orgasms.. it awakens insatiable goddess..
Hahaha I love being a woman.
But you've never PAID for it, correct? This is what is hard to believe.
I have a healthy sex drive, curious to be on the client end for research purposes, and like the idea of supporting another sw.
My thoughts: my clients and personal life keep me busy and I’m selective. The times I’ve had my hands free and was in the mood, I tried vanilla apps but those were very overwhelming to sort through, or can be more potentially dangerous since no screening is required. When I looked at male escorts.. almost none floated my boat lol. The ones who did had bios that felt alarming (woman beater/arrogant gym bro vibes) or unfortunately only serviced other men.
Would I in the future? Maybe. I like non-conventional, but am fine if not. Def interested to hear from ladies who have!
Your experience looking around is why we love TER. It’s scary to look and not know if she (or he in your case) will not be some douche. Not sure if anything exists to help you out. Maybe word of mouth from a lady you trust?
Hi Brielle, if you're ever in the Boston or Sarasota area I'd like to offer myself to you. I think you are incredibly hot and would love to enjoy some time with you. 😘😘😍😍😍🍆🍆🍑🍑💦💦
I've been around a longtime. B.C. Before creating lives I was a Madame and professional talent scout. I had my own escort agency male & female escorts and exotic dancers. I loved my lifestyle!
I had a sexy male switch escort who had a hot body builder physic. He hired me to fulfill his fantasies and we became fast friends. I used him on a professional level, but never for private. We are all so very different. I have yet to meet a person, like myself.
I am a curious person, I absolutely would if I found someone who intrigued me!
I'd never repeat but it was fun in the moment.
I've hired a long-time provider for FBSM , she had mentioned that she had done body work for trauma , And I've always loved her through social media so I went and saw her. I loved her so much. I bought a package. I love supporting other sex workers. I did get to fill her warm pussy through her yoga pants but I never asked for a happy ending 😂. She stretched me in so many ways. It was so wonderful. We're still friends to this day. Oh I actually have been with a mail escort before, He's actually came and seen me a few times but as a client. After we played we sat on the bed and he told me that he also had an ad on tryst and I was like no freaking way. He is built like a machine and he is a gorgeous man, I didn't hire him personally, but I'm pretty sure he's going to do great in his business.
An eternity ago (early 00's), I escorted on-and-off for a few years, mostly at an agency that sort of specialized in college girls (they sometimes used the term 'barely legal' then, but likely wouldn't today).
Today, I live a completely different life, but enjoy seeing (female) providers. The hobby has changed so much from the time I worked (particularly with service and menu expectations) that it feels like comparing apples to oranges. That said, I do occasionally feel like a former server in a restaurant where I can be considerably more understanding (but also more critical at times) than those who've never been on that end of the game.
Reading the boards, I tend to feel more defensive of the providers. Before sessions, I think of the appointments that I enjoyed when I was younger and try to bring that energy and experience for the provider. However, I suspect I am also more likely to get irked by certain behaviors than my male hobbyist counterparts would, and while I'm pretty mellow about extensive screening and pricing, I am probably more strict about photo accuracy.
I must say I have thought about booking a male provider but it seems too indulgent somehow. I’ve always tended toward the practical side and I tend to have reservations about treating myself to experiences. Also I am wondering if it would be as exciting for me being the customer - there is something about being pursued that is a big turn on for me. The idea that a gentleman sought me out, picked me - that feeds my sex drive.
Living where I do and not having a fabulous command of the Spanish language, dating/fucking in Panamá is hard AF (no pun intended😤). I've hired a few male hookers and some 'happy ending' masseuses. They're all early/mid 20's even tho they advertise as older (bizarre, disappointing) and are entirely unskilled at EVERYTHING. Thank god it's fucking cheap.🙄 I did recently reconnect with a (now) 26yo masseuse from a few years ago who has improved his skill set tremendously and become something of a regular release.
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This isn't the Politics board so I'll keep the reasons I'm no longer touring the US aside for the moment, but to the OP's point, yes I've hired male escorts. Sadly, in this country they're quite disappointing with the exception of one sweet, trainable baby boy.
I noticed you had taken a break from posting, thank you for gracing us with your presence
. I just wanted to say that it is currently 91 degrees in NYC. Unfortunately you mentioned you aren’t touring the US at the moment. Are you not available in the US at all or is it possible to get a FMTY or a more limited US visit to a particular city?
Oohh look at you remembering how much I hate the cold!😍 I did have plans to visit NYC/Chicago/Miami/Vegas/LA/SEA this year but, well, shit's changed up there.... There's just no rational human who's gonna choose to visit the US at the moment (hello FIFA folk!). Dozens of countries have travel warnings about the US and when Rwanda is safer, some people might want to catch a clue.🤦🏻♀️
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So I've been in a bit of a professional pivot from 'in person' fun to online fun.
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Granted, I have the complexion for protection so I wouldn't likely be kidnapped for more than a week if some creep decides that me being a permanent resident for 6yrs in a Central American country with well known trafficking routes from Colombia to the US and who just happened to visit the US every 5weeks like clockwork in 2025 qualifies as engaging in "suspicious travel" (oddly, a designation with zero definition but arbitrarily used to kidnap numerous native born, passport holding US citizens returning to the US from abroad in 2026)..... but if they did decide to kidnap me and steal my passport (as they've done other US citizens for a month plus), I wouldn't be able to go HOME ... and I've got a fat cat who digs his kitty sitter but *needs* his mama's titty time. 😻
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That's just not a risk I'm willing to take for any amount of money. Y'all can sort your shit out AND THEN I'll come visit..
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Besides, if someone can afford to fly me up to the US for my dinner rate, they can afford to fly themselves down to Panamá and have me 24/7 for a week. Who here remembers what a reasonable cost of living is like and misses it??😘
I’ve been hoping you would visit NYC sometime soon but that doesn’t appear to be the case yet. I’m disappointed but I understand. That being said, it sounds like you’re offering FYTM instead of FMTY. If that’s the case I should probably shoot you a DM
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Come see me, baby! NYC might finally be warm enough, but it's not exactly chill, tropical, slow paced and very reasonably priced spot. 😉