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breannabreeze See my TER Reviews 384 reads
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There are too many variations of what people consider to be cheating.  Some people would even consider watching porn cheating.   I agree with most of the posters, I think cheating is developing an emotional connection and feelings for a person behind your SO's back.  Sex is kind of like food, sure you can eat the same damn thing every single day but it wouldn't be fun and you would no longer look forward to a meal, whether it's boxed Mac and cheese or a 5 star dinner.  Sexually open relationships/marriage and swinging is becoming more common as people realize monogamy is ridiculous.

decadentxy800 reads

"(Ladies) think about what cheating is...Cheating is a man who sneaks out of his own house, to go and find some happiness behind your back.  So YOUR feelings aren't hurt. Cheating is for YOU.  It's not for me!"    

- Patrice O'Neal - R.I.P.

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donbecker54475 reads

I hope his grave is well-hidden, or some women are going to dig him up and kick his butt.

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London Rayne453 reads

Posted By: decadentxy
"(Ladies) think about what cheating is...Cheating is a man who sneaks out of his own house, to go and find some happiness behind your back.  So YOUR feelings aren't hurt. Cheating is for YOU.  It's not for me!"      
   
 - Patrice O'Neal - R.I.P.

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RonThibideaux378 reads

As others have said...I think of forming some sort of emotional attachment with another person is "cheating". Fucking on the side? Not so much. I'm sure my wife would disagree though.

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mrfisher350 reads

Or is this just semantics?

A good definition of cheating is something that you keep quiet rather than reveal to your SO.

By that definition, seeing an escort is cheating.  Now you may feel that it is justifiable, and I won't argue that point with you, but let's not quibble about the words and what they mean.

As Patrick Henry once said:  "If this be treason, make the most of it."

The same can be said for cheating.

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breannabreeze385 reads

There are too many variations of what people consider to be cheating.  Some people would even consider watching porn cheating.   I agree with most of the posters, I think cheating is developing an emotional connection and feelings for a person behind your SO's back.  Sex is kind of like food, sure you can eat the same damn thing every single day but it wouldn't be fun and you would no longer look forward to a meal, whether it's boxed Mac and cheese or a 5 star dinner.  Sexually open relationships/marriage and swinging is becoming more common as people realize monogamy is ridiculous.

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London Rayne370 reads

I think any time you have to lie, you're cheating. End of story. If you knew it was really all good, you would not have to go through so much trouble to hide the shit. Now, some women have this mentality that as long as he goes home to them, that's enough. Well, I do NOT have that mentality lol. I am not saying I could ever live with someone, but I also know that different people want different things from their mate, and to some wives, it very well cuts like a knife to know their mate is kissing, going down, or fkin someone else. Most don't seem to care about him getting a bj, because it's not that intimate. I can blow just about anyone.

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breannabreeze379 reads

What are your thoughts on married men who partake in the hobby because they aren't getting what they want at home?  Most likely 99% of them are lying but do you think they have a right to cheat?  Is it a lesser evil to go to one of us?  I just don't see sex the same way after I started providing which is why if I do enter a relationship I'd rather it be an open one.  It does feel better to give someone permission to fool around then to have them do it behind your back.

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lungman336 reads

You and I both know London, that even the ones that are "OK", as long as he comes home......deep down inside, it HAS to hurt. ( doesn't it ? ) Or are some people just that numb?
Most of the women I have known, even a BJ would hurt them.
Oh well, really not the place to discuss it.

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London Rayne370 reads

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lungman355 reads

SHE may not know, but believe me, it IS known, what you are doing.
"Cheating is for YOU".....I swear, now I've heard it all.

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Jamie.Solo581 reads

When you develop feelings for someone else. Sex is not cheating, by my definition. Fuck anyone you want, but your HEART that's mine! Don't give that away.

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YouCantSeeMe397 reads

EOM

Posted By: decadentxy
"(Ladies) think about what cheating is...Cheating is a man who sneaks out of his own house, to go and find some happiness behind your back.  So YOUR feelings aren't hurt. Cheating is for YOU.  It's not for me!"      
   
 - Patrice O'Neal - R.I.P.

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