When you're booking a session, which extra services do you personally think are worth the upgrade? Some punters swear by OWO or CIM, while others say the vibe matters more than the menu.

My ideal system would permit me to contact you through an app, choose my delivery method and have the girl delivered by drone directly onto the tip of my penis, mouth first or pussy first.

Some of it depends how you market it. For example, if it's called GFE, and I'm then told it costs more for DFK, BBBJ, or FIV, I'm annoyed. I'm less annoyed if she doesn't allow FIV because she doesn't like it. Girlfriends don't like certain things. But if she's upcharging for it, nope. I'm on the fence about CIM and COT since those I can see as a small upcharge if GFE. Greek I absolutely get. That said, if PSE is offerred at a higher rate, I would think these are included. If she doesn't do Greek, than she shouldn't be advertising a PSE upcharge, unless she is offerring BB.

The vibe matters.  Any provider who presented a menu to me would kill the mood.  

That is almost always frowned upon here in the U.S. I am certainly not a fan at all. Curious if it's a cultural, UK thing?

The title says "booking system" and my brain went to the technology side of things. Cool, I'm curious, let me learn what's out there.
But then the post is about up-selling/add-ons, which is a pricing structure thing. Huh?
What am I'm missing here?
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Personally, I can't fathom doing up-selling/add-ons/etc aside from something durable, like pics/video. Even with all the acronyms that get tossed around that folks like to attempt to frame as a value-add, there are plenty of guys who just like smoochies and snugglies (theoretically "less work"/cheaper by these bizarre standards) to make up for the those who want to swing from the chandeliers (theoretically "more work/pricier) .... but that only makes GD sense if you're looking at quality time like it's a freakin salad bar and are trying to calculate how many garbanzo beans a person wants but then counter that if they're willing to skip the cucumbers. Seriously?? 🤯 Life's too short, honey  
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I'd rather spend my energy developing chemistry with a new friend and letting events unfold however they do (unless he's got a specific scene in mind, of course) than trying to calculate what acts, for what duration, at what interval should be separated out for up-selling.
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But hey, that's just me. Y'all do you'z and in all sincerity... best of luck!🙏🏼
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(and can someone tell me how to get paragraph breaks without using a period, please?)  
(and then also tell me why I keep having to add links to stuff that's not actually an ad just to get it posted within 12hrs?)

It starts with browsing the ads. I come across an ad or profile I like and think to myself "I'd like to book this girl." All of a sudden MY phone is ringing, and its the same number from her ad? It turns out the provider is clairvoyant and can read minds. When I answer the  phone she remarks "I know you want to see me babe lets do this." She doesn't require a deposit and is fine with references. Before I ask she sends me her TER profile number and its all 10/10 reviews. We quickly book the appointment and she immediately comes to my place or is picking me up in her Lamborghini. We get into the bedroom and the fun beings. We do every position in the world... TWICE! After fucking like animals for HOURS and going  WAY over our time, she rolls over and kisses me. She tells me "you are the best I ever had and your penis is perfect, it is neither too big nor too small." I thank her for her kind words and then she says "honestly I had such a great time I don't even want you to pay me and if anything I should be paying you." I am taken aback by her compliment. I tell her its fine, but she insists on paying me. We both eventually agree that $1000/hour is a fair rate. She pays me and then lets me borrow her Lamborghini to joyride for a few hours. I end up crashing the Lambo but when I tell her she says "its ok babe, you're too cute to do anything wrong."  
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I think that would be the perfect system and I would love to see more providers implement it.

Haha, now that is truly the gold standard of booking systems  clairvoyance, Lambos, ego-boosting pillow talk, and reverse payments? Sign me up too! 😂

I totally get your take on upselling too. For many, chemistry and connection are the whole point  not a checklist of services with price tags. That said, we’ve also found that others (both providers and clients) appreciate upfront clarity, especially when it comes to time-limited bookings, specific fetishes, or requests that might require prep. So, it’s always that balance between “organic vibes” and “transparent expectations.”

Totally fair point  and you’re right, upselling can definitely rub people the wrong way, especially when it feels forced or transactional. In the U.S., it does seem to be more frowned upon, whereas in the UK (and parts of Europe), it’s sometimes seen as just part of the booking culture  more like customizing a service than nickel-and-diming.

You represent your agency very well, btw.

That's too nerdy  LMAO  

I would just walk up to a  house, which would be a house built in 1900s or late 1800s upgraded and renovated to modern style, but would still have that charm that is absent from the cookie cutter houses they build today.  

Well, in that case, depending on who you have on order, I'll fuck her for you free of charge

No.

Come on, man! LOL.

Maybe you should just go full gay at this point. You don't want to talk to them. you don't even want to look at them. You don't want to do anything at all for them but still have sex with them lol. What is even the point? Just masturbate at that point.

NOT make the whole encounter seem transactional and cold?   For me, it's a firm "NO" to all upsell attempts, followed by no tip, and I will never use that agency again.   Men want a fantasy, not reality, and as soon as they start nit-picking about what is included and what isn't when GFE is clearly advertised, it will end up being not much different than a haircut, manicure or a shoe shine, which are other personal services often rife with upsells.   I can only name a couple of guys here who would find a shoe-shine sexy.  

I have read his post to mean very different thing than what you've inferred.

As someone who have been at a lot of storefront amps and know a thing or ten about haggling/negotiating prices and calling bluffs...

I would make some distinction among these types of offerings. A fixed menu (e.g., GFE) keeps things simple and probably meets a majority of client's wants. The a la carte approach offers a lot more flexibility and customization in the session -- but not sure it offers as much value as in a restaurant with lots of options to choose from.  From a pure finance/econ perspective it does offer the business some degree of price discrimination (self-selected by the client) so can offer an incremental boost to profits. As a pure transfer, since the customer is still getting something they value more than the price is should be a bit neutral, but if customers used to get a set menu and then suddenly get a la carte pricing for all the same things they won't be happy.

Or does upsell imply something more negative?

Exactly what I meant.. A brothel which serves upscale customers where we mingle and form a community.  

Seems like here when people talk about up-sells it is mostly in a negative context, but maybe I'm reading more into it.

Ideally the menu offered is mostly inclusive of what I want!  The usual upsells like bb, two shots and anal can be communicated quickly pre-session to avoid awkwardness after arrival. A simple system also makes it easy to understand desired upcharge based on cash contribution. Sometimes a little review research is needed to determine extent of dfk and fiv, plus CIM. The kgirl system is one of the most convenient. After screening, my booking usually goes like this. “Can I see xxxgirl on Weds at noon for one hour (2 shots)?” “Yes  she’s available. Will confirm Weds morning. Thanks.” Then it’s off to the races! Not sure I’ve ever had an awkward moment where upsell interfered with the session. Only a few where I’ve attempted fiv, for example, and girl politely move my hand.

Who are you even mingling with? In your described scenario you are sitting at the bar by yourself watching a baseball game while you only talk to the bartender and madame. The community is you and two people who work at the place?

the frequent complaints from the ladies here of customers wasting too much time with emails before showing up for the action.  The good old days are still around for those that know where to look.  

I don't know why you're so fixated on "most meetings at the bar". This is his fantasy, not most peoples or yours.

I'm accusing SinCitySinner of being a misogynist because he is one. Its not just this post, its his entire posting history as well. This is just the latest shit he's said that was weird. I won't pull posts but do yourself a favor and check out his history for some illuminating conversations. Interpret it as you will. To me, and a few others it seems, his posting history suggests the only value he thinks women provide is sex. It seems like he harbors a resentment towards women.  
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So sure, I'm being judgmental. So what? What is your problem with it all of a sudden? The fantasy strikes me as weird. So yea, maybe he should consider going gay. He wants to go to a brothel to watch baseball and talk to the bartender? Sounds pretty gay to me. What a hot fantasy lol. Yea you're right its his fantasy and I think its a shitty fantasy. If it sounds fun to you maybe you can join him. The two of you can go to some brothel in Nevada. You can watch baseball all you want and flirt with the bartender and NOT fuck any of the hot women at the brothel LMAO. Sound like a gay old time ha!

I went and took a cursory glance at some of his posts. I don't really see anything misogynistic. He has an unusually large hard on for QB, or rather her posts having very "ad" nature. I actually agree with him about nature of many of her posts, I just don't bother reading many of them (qbs posts that is, the self advertising thing just makes me not engage with her too often)  

I think 420smoka4Eva is gay for me.. LOL..

Interesting...and that's VERY reassuring you don't THINK you are a misogynist. Get back to us with your final verdict. smh

I believe 420 has some ahem, non-straight experiences. So if you're straight like I am, I don't think we can tell him what's what.

I'm a bit curious about your "perfect booking system" that has someone so worked up. Sounded like what I hear a number or places in, say, Costa Rica, are like. I suspect some of the DR places are similar. And even the go-go bars in Bangkok or Manila are somewhat like that.

The best of them is the pool bar at the Cocal in Jaco. it's basically a hooker buffet. The Sportsman's Lodge in San Jose in CR also isn't bad. But the best of all is closed. The lobby bars in the Del Rey, also in San Jose. It was like the Titty Twister in "From Duck 'Til Dawn," but no vampires. The "walk of shame" was a hoot.
There's also a great bar in Panama City, Panama, called the "Club Habanero." Same deal.

would be to get the provider I want, the day, time and length of session requested.
Provided parking and easy access to the location!

Where you could have a drink and talk to bartender and watch some sporting event WHILE getting your dick sucked.

Yes there are lot of places such a system is implemented. The establishments in Bangkok are loud and party like atmosphere.  I was thinking of something more upscale and classier.  

Thanks.  

I've mentioned this before but someone looking for the bar/brothel type situation don't have to travel far out of the USA that far, or at all.  I've been a Winter Texas for years and have a blast in SW Texas Rio Grande Valley.  There's a couple strip clubs that are very cheap to drink in and have all sorts of options for going "upstairs" for some very economical fun.  

If youre ever in San Diego and don't mind a quick detour down to Tijuana, Hong Kong is very well known.

lol. Now that would be interesting but very impersonal I think.

lol now this is quite the fantasy 😂

Maybe if you want a system like this it would like a restaurant menu where you click what items you want and it generates a price you either like and book or exit stage left. Sometimes I think this might help us ladies with marketing if we knew why someone comes to look at our ad and then decided to pass. I mean if they got to your ad in the first they have shown some So they like your look but sometimes something turns them off. In my case I believe it’s people see the word nuru and had oil poured all of them and the session went down hill from there because that is not a nuru. They don’t even get past the fact that I do just gfe or other things. But I like where you going with your idea of finding out what type of booking guys want to do.

Europe is very different from USA. For starters, it's mostly legal or not prosecuted. Activities can be talked about more openly. Base activity is everything covered, and other activities will be listed either included or with a fee. It's not technically up selling, is more like ordering a burger or a car, you want extra options you ask and pay for it. A girl could still try to upsell in person but most don't since you've already discussed before the appointment.

A la carte implies you understand the menu options going in, as well as the price of each side order, and can select either during booking or during the meal.
Upselling suggests the provider lists one price for an hour at the table, may also have a list of services provided, but fails to disclose that some of those services are not included in the listed price.