The very first time you plunged into the hobby world.  What were you expecting, if anything?  What was the person like?  Is it true we always remember our first?    

.. 30 years ago. She said her name was Cream.

it was horrible......

It was about 4 or 5 years ago.  I saw Cameron in West LA.  We exchanged emails and she gave me the address to her place.  She was tall, Euro, thin, nice ass and tits and really friendly.  I had NO idea what to expect, it was kinda awkward until we got naked and it just seemed to flow.  We complimented each other on our bodies and we fucked like rabbits.  It was fun and a great experience.  That's why I continued to hobby.  It was easy, painless, fun, exciting, and NO strings attached.  You didn't have a women calling you telling you she misses you and she's in love with you, blah, blah.  :  

I visited a 50 year old tall beautiful blonde women at her luxurious condo. I chose her because an elderly man I thought I would be more comfortable than I would be with a much younger provider. She met met at the door with a kiss and a hug. I'll never forget the BBBJCIM. She became a regular visitor to my place. She clued me in to what my new hobby was all about. Recently she retired but we still exchange emails and have lunch or coffee together.

Mine was forty plus years ago in TJ, drunk off my ass on mescal at the ripe old age of 15. I doubt I could have remembered her name the very next day, much less all these years later. lol

Im still fairly new I guess.  She was a provider from BP.  She was a bigger woman, I didnt mind I like all shapes and sizes.  I told her it was my first time.  She said I think you know what to do then put her giant tits in my mouth.  She was right, I knew exactly what to do.  Was an ok experience, not bad.  Good sex, texted a few times, repeated, havent seen her since.  Ive toyed with the idea of seeing her again just for old times sake.  I might.  Overall a good memory.

You might remember it if you werent drunk lol.  I would think it would be a relevant experience.  Did you lose your V card?

Low end hotel in the burbs with Holly Berry. I didn't really know what to expect other than having a vague, Hollywood stereotype of "whore" in my head. She turned out to be this incredibly sweet girl, very understanding of it being my first time with a provider and completely not what I expected....except the sex, having seen her vids that part was exactly what I expected! That's probably the biggest revelation I've had in the hobby, the difference between the (mostly, every profession has bad eggs) wonderfully sweet, giving, girls that take such pride in what they do and how well they do it, vs. what puritanical social mores and the media had conditioned me to believe and expect. You can call that sucking up to providers if you want, but frankly I know so many great ones now that I've no need for that nonsense so this is straight from the heart.

a AMP...  it was ok but not great.  I didn't go back.
My second was a FS provider...  I was rushed & failed to complete...   Not a good experience
My third was a success...  A FBSM provider who advertized on a competive Escort site (now shut down).  After she got to know you, extras were available & we got along well...  became 'friends'...  continued for years.

She was young and very slender with long, straight, platinum blonde hair.  I don't recall her name off hand but it was probably either Crystal, brandy, or Amber because every gal back then used one of those names.

See link for my answer.

Truth be told, drunk or sober, I just don't see paid pussy as being memorable to hold onto for years or even decades. Enjoyable? Yes, most definitely, but life altering or worth holding onto the memory for the rest of your life? Not so much.

I really think the estrogen level on this board has risen to a whole new level. We are talking about fucking hookers here, not life changing events of the heart. By and large it seems like the women have a better grasp on what this is all about than the men. It's a business, purely physical, and doesn't need to be elevated or romanticized into being something more than what it is.  It's just sex for fucks sake!!!

The smell of all those new and crisp hundred dollar bills that is. lmao

Honestly, why do the hookers on this board seem to get it better than the guys? With a few exceptions, it really seems like the women have all the balls, and the men have all the emotions.

Or is this simply a late charge for the BSU's?

Interesting point about the business/physical part, and I agree that is not something to be elevated or romanticized.   I would suggest though, that some things that make it a memorable point in one's life are non-physical/sexual and that those things can reasonably be memorable without being either of those two.  

Or she would have knocked my socks off if I still had them on.

I see your point, but I only started two years ago.  Will I remember it 40 years from now, maybe maybe not.  I cant say.  Do you think you would remember if you hadnt gotten drunk?  Also I think the entire lifestyle has changed since then.  Now the hobby is a community of sorts where folks can talk openly about it.  Not so much back then.  So back then banging prostitutes was whatever but now, its almost akin to joining a group of like-minded people.  This may account for the shift in the hobby world you're experiencing.  

Even if the details of the evening where a bit sketchy? I have always spoken openly about fucking hookers, I've never been ashamed of it, and during the few years that I was married I didn't see hookers, or any other women for that matter.

Yes, people were less likely to fall in love with hookers like so many do now, but I've dated hookers going back to my teen years, and by "dating" I mean real, non paying relationships with women who charge other men money for sex.  I've never understood the stigma where it comes to women who have sex for money, nor have I EVER been ashamed in partaking in it.

I guess this concept is new to many of you, but I've been around hookers for all of my life, I don't see anything mysterious about them, they are simply women who sell sex for a living, no biggie in my book.

That might be it.  You're simply desensitized to the life.  I can relate to that.  Ive seen some ugly UGLY things about people that you shouldnt have to see, but now I dont even blink while others almost pass out.  Makes sense.

I just never did, and still think I am doing anything the least bit wrong by having sex with likeminded, completely willing adults, who may or may not charge money for the privilege.

Other people might believe that there is somehow something immoral or wrong about what we do here, but I have NEVER felt that way, so there was nothing for me to be desensitized to.

Please look at them and their rates. $80, $60, ect for 15 minutes.. One time he paid $140 for 30 minutes but was disappointed.. I bring these up only because of the bull shit he's putting down. Oh and he just doesn't feel a "connection" with women who charge more. He's put that out there as well.

My first visit to Waikiki and had a late flight in. After checking into my hotel I went roaming the streets to see what I could find to eat. Even though I had never done anything like this I was not naïve about some of the girls walking around. One really caught my eye, tall, blonde, and some really tight short shorts, gorgeous, nothing like I had seen walking around my city at the time ewww (I remember like it was yesterday) The whole time I was eating I could not get her out of my head so after dinner while I was walking back to my hotel here she come walking towards me.....  

A girl from an agency in the local phone book it was ok. Then, I found a better provider on a trip to Vegas and then found TER not long after.

we sat outside and I sneakily fingered her. eventually I bought her a coke. I think that's the first time I paid  
nothing much has changed

But you're right nothing has changed.

One of my early civvies, more a friend with bennies than a GF, was killed in a car wreck a couple of years after we trailed off and she had moved away...sad no matter the reason you know someone.

"Local celebrity" bags $40 girls, LMFAO! Sounds like Ron Burgundy!

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kinda hearting you right now… it is what it is….

There was no train wreck.....yet.  That was, like, a prophylactic branch closing!

That's $60 or $80 for 15 minutes. I'm still trying to figure this "connection" he's talking about he gets with these lovelies  that he just can't get from what he calls the "upper echelon" laydees. I'm just wondering what "upper echelon" even means to this dude anyway?

Do you think he's seen anyone you'd consider it that in category?

Brilliant!
Too too funny girl..., I bow on awe...

I was nervous, but she knew how to make me relax.  A very sexy lady who is very comfy in her own skin.  Still one of my ATFs.

Both streetwalkers we on Beecham Street in Chelsea, not far from King Arthur's strip club which recently closed.  Both were $40 BBBJ cardates, about a week apart.  Not sure if this was before I started online hobbying or not.

She is one of my favorites. As you said not only is she hot, sexy and incredibly skilled, but she's also a wonderful person. She gave me the best compliment that I've ever been given by anyone (in or out of the hobby) she told me that she thinks I'm a free spirit.

I had scheduled my first with a top ten Chicago lady, she had to cancel a day prior to our appointment, she and her assistant were very apologetic and professional about it. My dilemma though was that I had gone through the screening process and my travel arrangements had already been secured and I wasn't sure if I'd be able to get screened by another lady in such short notice. So, the lady that had to cancel last minute, her assistant said she could vouch for me to a friend of the original lady and that all worked out well. So I arrive at my hotel and called to confirm with the new lady and she asks if I wanted incall or outcall and I said either is fine I'm staying at XXXXXX hotel, she starts laughing aloud, she says I'm at the same hotel. So my first was a short trip on an elevator in the same hotel I was staying at, so once she turned my legs to rubberbands I had a very short commute back to my room.

I guess you can take that to the bank!

What an amazing woman, in every respect.

I understand with some train wreck threads, I also understand when a thread becomes a "private fight" and ends up well over to the right side of the page, but other threads, like this one for example. I don't see any plausible reason that they closed the branch on this thread.

was Reagn Rourke and company back in the days before she got busted and then went indy/new name.