I realize I just sent my ATF a "Hello. Merry X-mas. Do you have any time between now and Jan 6th?"
And hit "send." On christmas eve day.
Oh fuck. Might as well have just sent her a nice "Merry Christmas. I'm kind of a dick, and here's proof."
Was that just an example of bad form?
Now due it neing a Holiday weekend
I certainly would understand a delayed response.
Ive asked ladies for a date on Christmas eve for Christmas day! Lol
lets face it, not everybody celebrates Christmas
i am sure if you are a provider in NYC for example and willing to work Christmas , you might do very very well...especially if you are located close to Chinese take-out ...lol...
#letsgetreal
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I realize I just sent my ATF a "Hello. Merry X-mas. Do you have any time between now and Jan 6th?"
And hit "send." On christmas eve day.
Oh fuck. Might as well have just sent her a nice "Merry Christmas. I'm kind of a dick, and here's proof."
Was that just an example of bad form?
True or you might want to do something different for a change. I agree not everyone celebrates it, but in NYC in my experience (This being my first x-mas) a lot of people are away. It goes both ways. I have referred a lot of clients to providers I know for a fact are hosting 
I am an atheist and I do not celebrate Xmas at all. I just have some fun things to do with fellow non believers.
...but the opposite.
I don't believe in atheism. I haven't seen any proof of its existence.
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Lucky for you I negotiate and I'll even let you sit in the front row because I like you! LOL
i dont' give a fuck either way
I mean have you seen her ass? Can I get an amen?
We'll eat all the Godiva's I have stored up while we listen to you babble on. LOL
but i think i'll have to make her stay after class for a little one on one tutoring...
Christmas is a non event for me, actually more of an inconvenience than anything else. I am not religious at all, I don't have kids, and I really could care less about Christmas. That said, I do realize it is very important to a lot of people and I have better things to do than shit on their parade.
Well ok, I normally have better things to do. When bored or irritated I confess I have been known to shit on a parade or two.
From here on I am going to do my best to spend Christmas in non Christian countries. I am sick of being in Latin America where all the hookers are with family that day and they shut the country down for almost two weeks between about December 23 and early January. Yes, I am a selfish prick, but at least I own it.
You are putting money for gifts in her hands....I personally don't do it but I hear this is the time of YEAR providers start contacting you! lol Don't lose sleep over it. If anything follow that e-mail with something like:
Such and Such
My apologies for not not taking time to wish you and yours a happy and festive holiday!
Hope you're having an amazing time, please let me know about my holiday date request when you have a chance.
xoxo
Some-guy
Sex work will let you know sex worker available..sex workers in the business make money thats how survive... I have appointment today on christmas eve.....
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I don't think it a terrible thing. She probably knows you meant well. If she is available for a visit, I'm sure she will let you know... 
Don't worry about it! I'm definitely working through the holidays and the more requests, the better!
Merry Christmas, enjoy!
XOXO
B
If she did, and you ignored it, I would think that would cause some upset.
Also, it is much better etiquette to ask abut a specific day and time that she might be available, along with some back up dates rather than make her play 20 questions with you.
As for seeing providers on Christmas, it is quite common as some of the responses attest to; and I myself will be spending the Eve and Day with a favorite of mine this year
You're being a bit hard on yourself. It's not as though you sent her 10 texts on Christmas Day asking where she's at.
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I receive a lot of Merry Christmas emails from clients. It's nice to hear from them.
Had a few appointment requests in my inbox this AM...I'm very happy to know I'll make some money after this holiday is over.
I have two novel-writers at me, and that's a different story - at this time of year, I feel like I barely have time to sh**, much less write two five-paragraph essays every few days.
If she is not available she can say so. No need to get bent out of shape. I had a reg ask to see me on Christmas day and I just said "as much as I would love to, I have other plans"...end of story.
a great chinese restaurant near me is open on christmas day.
many gas stations and convenience stores are, too.
service providers work on holidays, dude.
some girls don't have family in town. you just might be the only company she has on the holiday.
i've got a date for christmas with my atf. she's quite looking forward to it, as her family is in another part of the world.
chill dude and remember, envelope uber alles.
She might have other things going on so if you do not hear from her as quickly as normal I am sure you understand why. I would refrain from contacting her again till the 26-27th though if you have not heard back by then. The panicked I haven't heard from you on a holiday do tend to leave a bad taste in many ladies mouth since that presumes that we do not have a life outside of this.
So let her have a little time to get back to you and I am sure you will hear back soon... Happy Holiday and what a wonderful way to either finish out your 2015 or begin anew in 2016, in the arms of your ATF... YUM
There is 3 possible outcomes. She'll reply that she is available. She'll reply that she is not available. Or she won't reply. There is certainly no harm in asking from your end. Many providers do work on holidays and through the holidays. You are not even asking for a date on Christmas day. You gave her a 2 week window!
I just saw a gal yesterday and she let me know that she has no plans for the holidays. Her family is thousands of miles away and she doesn't get along with them anyway. I may go her see her again tomorrow.
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If it wasn't a text to the phone. I don't see what the big deal is. I've owned my own business and if you don' t want to read or respond to emails on down time, you just don't. If you aren't working the season, you say , "sorry I am taking a break for myself."
I was just being paranoid because I know how much I hate it when my clients, co-workers or anyone associated with work emails me during the holidays for anything work-related. It's my time to unwind.
So I just assume that other people are like me -- not always the case.
ANYHOO, as others have alluded to, she seemed very happy to hear from me. As she usually does whenever I reach out to her regarding a session (I'm her favorite client by far -- at least according to me).
Thanks guys.
