Anybody know of and indy providers in the NYC area that provides BBFSTC???!!! There seems to be a fair number of AMPs that offer this service but I am having a hard time finding indys that offer this service in the NYC area. Any information would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.

judging from the last reaction to your recent question about who offers BBFS in AMPS, what do you think the reaction to this one will be?

Not just the obvious possible STD issue that was brought up before, but you know that little thing called child support can be a real bitch if someone really wanted to nail ya and try to go after a chunk of your assets.

So you're willing to not only put your health and your life but also your financial security in the hands of a complete stranger? you're an unusual one, lovedaddy. That's a lot of trust to put in someone you don't know.

Let me ask you a question Kitana. Are you a provider or a hobbiest? The reason I'm asking this is that if you are a provider and are telling this to me from a provider's point of view, are you saying that there are certain providers that would be willing to get pregnant to get at a complete stranger's assets even if it means having to give up their profession, reputation and the rest of their life for child rearing?
Lets be realistic here. Nobody in this biz would want to get pregnant and if they are willing to provide BBFSTC they are certainly smart enough to use some kind of contraceptive device. Don't you think? Also, you can't deny that BBFSTC provides a degree of intimacy that can't be reached with a condom. Anyways,I'd really be interested in what you have to say in response.  

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To your first question, I am a provider.

Why is it such an unrealistic concept that there may likely be some women, providers or otherwise, who would be willing to get pregnant by a complete stranger in order to not have to work and to be financially set for at least as long as the child is a minor. Not saying its ethical or wise, just saying it wouldn’t surprise me. Not that the majority of providers are this way. But then again, the majority of us don’t offer BBFS either. Point is that when it comes to your own health, safety, or personal assets you can never assume what someone else’s motivations, thought processes, or beliefs may be

Seems like you are basing everything and what you call realistic on what a reasonable, rational, and stable person would do, and how such a person would think. Not everyone in this business, or outside of it, is so logical and sound minded, though you may not know that until you get to know them. That’s why IMHO it’s always best to get to know someone before you decide to do things that may impact your wellbeing in any way. For your own sake, why bet on the fact that someone will do the smart, reasonable thing before you know them well enough to make that judgment? You’re judging others by what good judgment you’d assume them to have, which may not be their reality at all.


I never use the phrase “Nobody in this business would ever” because I know that there is probably someone somewhere who would do that which I find outrageous, stupid, and down right self destructive. Do you really think there isnt someone somewhere out there who wouldn't try to get pregnant by you or willingly give you an STD? You can never rely on the inherent goodness of people, let alone their good judgment.

Just as anyone familiar with statistics can tell you that even very improbable things will happen with some regularity, it is also true that people will do really stupid things.

Sure it would be stupid for a provider to get pregnant to deliberately try to get a chunk of a strangers assets. It is also stupid for a teenager to get pregnant because they are lonely and want a baby to love them.

That a provider is willing to provide BBFSTC isnt necessarily an indication that they think things out and prepare. Quite the contrary.

I think you are putting a lot of faith in people you don't know.

Omigawd, you can't be serious!

Wadaya mean serious? Ofcourse I'm serious. As Justaplayer pointed out in a previous thread the dangers of BBFSTC are similar to that of what we normally think as the GFE experience, namely BBBJ+DFK+DATY. I mean if you DATY a provider and get her cunt juice inside your mouth and then DFK her so that the cunt juice goes into her mouth and she BBBJs you hence transfering her cunt juice to your cock you might as well BBBJTC cause that has the same effect...

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Well then, Lovedaddy, maybe you should rethink whether you should engage in DATY?

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The truth to the matter is be careful, think with the head that has to eyes and that has given you the wisdom to live thus far and don’t get carried away with such fantasies, desires and illusions. Leave the BBFSTC for your mate and not to one that has seen thousands of men in their lengthy career.

Some tests are 99.9% accurate but it only takes you to be in that .1% and shorten your life for 1 second of brief satisfaction.

Peace!

You need to read up on STDs and how they are transmitted.  There are have been plenty of threads on the issue.  The risks of transmitting diseases from mouth to genital area and vice versa is lower than straight genital to genital contact.  The risks are a lot higher with BBFS than with DATY and BBBJ, especially for HIV.

Besides, don't you worry about the guy who just visited your provider the hour before you did and enjoyed BBFSTC with he?  That scares the $#!@$% out of me.

Reminds me of my first time (as a hobbist). The girl came over, did a bbbj to start things off. After 5 minutes, begins to get on top. That's when I quickly pull out a condom. She tells me its O.K. - she doesn't mind. My resonse - its not for you, its for me! Better safe then sorry.

Which reminds me - why are good providers penalized for being safe? Max score a good provider can have is 7. If they do things like dfk, greek, bbbj, etc. they can earn more points. However, that may be viewed as being unsafe by some providers, so they do not provide the service. Why is that so?