However, I would think that for most--the suggestor would have to be someone who we knew a bit more personally--as the usual non-provider attitude would be to automatically take offense (even if, with further thought, we would have seriously considered the option.)  In the pre-provider phase, the suggestor would need to be someone we knew well enough to know that his offer would be an idea meant to benefit us--and could not be out of disrespect. However, we could not know him so well that it would have that `weirdness’ factor...for lack of a better description.  

I’m not certain if this would be generally applicable to everyone--but if I judge by my own circumstances, a much higher donation would have to be offered to entice such a lady to cross that line for the first time, if she has never indicated that her own curiosities fall along those lines. She knows nothing of standard rates, and does not depend on the hobby as a source of support. It’s a “big deal” when one has never done it before (nor really even considered it as an employment option)--and the gift expected for such a venture may well be quite a bit larger than what would now be quite reasonable...

A guy walks up to a drop-dead-gorgeous beauty
and asks "will you go to bed with me for one million dollars?"
The woman says "why of course"
Then the man asks "would you go to bed with me for $50?"
She then replies "what kind of woman do you think I am?"
He retorts, "we already established that, now we are dickering
on price"

My two cents

LM

If you can figure out how to make this work without getting slapped you'll be my new hero.  This could be big.  All of the escorts I've known have gotten in the business because of a girlfriend who was there first and convinced them, or they did it on their own because they needed the money.  It would be so much easier if you didn't have to wait for them to figure it out on their own, but instead could give them a gentle nudge in the right direction.

And Lustman, you owe the estate of Henny Youngman a royalty payment for using his material (or is it Uncle Milty).  You should be ashamed, showing off for the kids again!

-- Modified on 7/4/2001 1:33:00 AM

I play this game ALL THE TIME in my head!!!

I see so many woman, especially with the start of summer, that I would LOVE to have sex with.  Many of them, one can tell, earn probably no more than $10-15 an hour in their respective jobs and I would love to offer them the opportunity to make 10-20 times that amount, at least for an hour or two!!!  I even have a girl working for me, making $8 an hour, that I would love to play this mathematical equation with.  18 years old, 5'5" 125 pounds, pretty face, cute personality, and curves in all the right places.  So, for what this girl could make in a single hour, she instead makes in 40 hours.  As a generous boss, sometimes I feel like just having her meet me somewhere a couple times a week while still receiving her 40 hours a week, but then sexual harrassment and divorce lawsuits ruin that pretty little picture.

Re:Ever have the urge to approach a non provider and make an offer?

Hey Sed sweetheart!

You can practice on me!  We can role play!

XXXOOO Ash

I think I must have accidentally deleted a reply to this question

It was good, but I don't see it now, so I think I must have boo-booed and hit the wrong button.  Sorry.  Whoever wrote it, please re-submit it, and I'll be more careful.

Thanks,
A Red-Faced GND

That was how I got into it.  I was on my way to a seminar in a hotel and stopped a guy to ask for directions.  He flirted and I told I am a stripper to make him back off.  Instead he was pleased.  He propositioned me and I took it.  I was broke.  You see to a bank teller, or any girl, an average rate is a pot of gold.  If it is too much $ it will be strange and seem too odd.  And I agree that you need to know him and trust him so you don't feel disrepected, but you can't know him too well.  If you know him too well it is like a brother.  I suggest taking her out for coffee and and lunch while slowly revealing the pervert in you.  If she seems to handle it then hit her up on the idea.