Ok...I get that we're a technology society. Hell I can't go 5 minutes without putting my phone down. I hate it. But when I'm on a date I do not look at my phone unless she's in the bathroom or something. I'm about to stop seeing my atf because she spends the last half of our time looking at her freaking phone and crap. If I'm paying for time, I want every minute of that time focused on ME.  I saw another provider yesterday who made 3 phone calls while we were together for 3 hours.  

I don't get why any of you guys here allow the hookers to pull that type of shit on you.

I live by this...I treat you how I would ant to be treated and I hate the phone interruptions. There is nothing that important, well the exception is kids but for the rest of us, stay focused on your client until the time is up.

The exact same thing happened to me yesterday. One of my ATF, for whom I have given a great review and pay big bucks, rushed the fun part, wrapped it up in 30 minutes and then spoke to people on three different phones. She then had the nerve to ask me to buy more time ... off the clock, so her assistant did not get a cut. Hell, I did not even get my full hour.

I have 2 phones: one for work and one for personal use.   Now, once in a while I forget to turn off my work phone when a gentleman caller arrives (if we're hot & heavy from the moment he walks in the door, I might forget such mundane things) but usually I remember to do so.  Even if I forget and it can be heard buzzing: I ignore it.  

I do not look at my phone when I am enjoying a gentleman. It is on silent too

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If she doesn't change her ways then.... Yeah she prolly took u for granted. Move on to greener pastures.

ever considered that she may be sending you a message?

I don't think you're being unreasonable at all. I consider it rude in ANY environment, unless it's an emergency. I also understand that not everyone thinks the same way though, and I bet (or would like to hope?) that if you expressed your desire to have quality, uninterrupted time together with her (read: no cell phone), she'd rectify the situation.

Kind of crap that happens with BP girls who are not on P411, Date-check, and have little exposure here at TER.

Had a massage girl who kept her phone on the table between my legs. Only saw her once.

That during our date I wait to escape to my phone when he's in the bathroom. Like I have been thinking about other people while he's here.

Obviously when I'm out to eat with a friend on tour working I need to understand she's here for work - I'm not paying her, and that's understood obviously.  

Was she also filing her nails? Horrible but funny.

...I mean granted, we all have lives outside of this little sphere of ours, but you're right. You are paying for privacy, discretion, and most of all, time. When I am seeing a gentleman I silence my phone and put it somewhere out of sight. It just doesn't make sense that a lady would be looking at her phone for an extended period of time. As I picture it, it looks extremely awkward and also very frustrating.  

I didn't think so.

She is his ATF because she demanded that she be so.

During play time, these things get shut off.

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i remember a provider who made a half hour phone call during a hour session. The typical, I'm so sorry. I'll make it up to you next time, BS followed. I stopped seeing her and found there are pleanty of providers who are more professional.

Most of you bore us out of our mind! lol

My thought are: if you schedule a 1 hour date, her phone should be off. It makes me mad if she uses it. You get past 3 hours and I think she should be able to glance at it occasionally. She might have a friend who is checking on her safety, family, day job messages etc. As long as it is occasional and limited I am willing to accept it on my paid time on extended dates. If she is obsessed with it I am going to say something. I am going to be doing the same. Kind of a lets refresh, use the bathroom, fart and use our phones break. Lol.  
I guess I am the minority in those who find it acceptable on long sessions. Courtney, you can use it between one of my 6 organisms. I will need a couple breather in between. Lol.

read more than a few reviews here about a provider constantly checking her phone during an appt.
It is unprofessional and not fair to the guy who has paid for a certain amount of time to be absorbed with the phone.Or going on and on about personal issues during an appt save that for civie friends and family.
I always have my phone off and put away whoever is calling,texting,or emailing can wait until I am available.
I don't think the OP is being unreasonable but I would suggest speaking to your ATF regarding the phone issue.If it continues to be an issue move on.

Or at the very least talk to her about this.  

If there is any OTC time, I will check my phone/emails. It is then my time and I can realistically do what I need to considering he is not paying a dime.

Some things should not have to be told to any adult and at $300/+ an hour that list is short.
 

hbyist+truth=;(
To answer your question, no, I do not expect more. I have some menu items I enjoy and she gave them to me perfectly, until last week.  

Mostly at you if I am being honest, but with you at least somewhat. So there is that.

Well talk to her but I think you're right when you say she might not change and maybe her new found popularity has gone to her head in a not so good way.  

I sleep 8 hours a night, and never wake up every 2 hours to check my phone. I take 3 hour naps and don't wake up hourly to check my phone.

No reason for no one to be looking at their phone every 5 min.Especially on business date.RUDE

I find that to be rude for either party. I try not to look at mine unless I go to the restroom (or they do) and can take a peek. I usually don't have anything so pressing that I need to be on my phone the whole time. After all I am there to have fun too!!!