Do most ladies not bother to whitelist? Must they have a certain status with TER to do so. If they are allowed to whitelist and they have a perfectly safe and fun encounter are there other criteria a lady uses before she will whitelist a hobbyist?

I request them politely to do so after the session, and have given them a good review. Now, it is neither a TER requirement to review or even have an appointment with the  lady to get a WL from her.  But I just want to make sure that I have a good rapport with the lady when I am asking her to WL me.

Most of the ladies are not going to bother white listing you, since they don't need it and doesn't do them any good whether they WL you or not. It does help you, so if you need it just ASK politely.

Do I use it as a guide? No, because some providers will fk anything. It's nice to see a guy has a few, but if he has none, I could not care less as long as he has current refs.

I'd tried that with one with no response and I've seen her twice and referred several buddies. Guess it comes into the "why bother" catagorie.

i have never been turned down to be white listed by a lady i've asked.

of course i always give good reviews to the lady.  if i didn't enjoy the time, i don't bother to ask for a white listing.

quid pro quo, clarice...

Even the best players dont reach base 7/10 times. All u can do is ask. Play on player.

I've received a few emails/texts over the years asking me how they can  white list someone.

For myself, I am very meticulous regarding safety and discretion. If I know I want to stamp and verify a gentleman to let other ladies know he is a pleasurable person to spend time with, I may use other venues to do so.  My gents may write me a nice review if they so choose, and I do appreciate that. I do not however wish to confirm that with a WL. Those are supposed to be fantasies. I give references, DC, p411, etc to good boys.

Other ladies white list each and every gent who reviews them as a thank you, and I understand and respect that.  It is a system that works for many.

Some only WL certain gents, each lady has her own criteria. I don't think it should be a deal breaker or make anyone unhappy. There are always alternatives to getting your Good Hobby Gent Stamp of approval!

:?)

Grace

Dear Ms. Rayne:
What are the traits that you look for to determine if you would see a client again? Also would these traits tend to be similar to the standards that you would have for men in your civilian life?

No, they are almost never the same things I look for from a BF either...that would be looking for a mate, and not my next patron. Respectful (in person) lol, cocky and down to earth at the same time, prompt, clean, not clingy or demanding, and under six inches. You're welcome!

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