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How many of you have had a provider that was great in bed but....
demonking 4 Reviews 1429 reads
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was annoying to talk to?  I saw one provider in Vegas a couple of times and she had great skills but her personality was...irritating.  (I will preface the story with that I did not know about this sites value until after this trip.)

And the thing about the girl was that she wanted to talk....a lot.  I booked an hour apt and when we met, she talked for like 30 mins before we did anything.  We went at it for around an hour and she was great, but then hung around for yet another hour talking and talking and talking.  She was there for like 3 hours almost total.  I thought that maybe she was just overly friendly for the first night.  I saw her again the 2nd time and more of the same, but this time she only stayed over like 40 mins.  The third time was kinda the same, but by that time we were done the third night, I had decided I wasn't going to see her again.  The playtime was great, but her personality rubbed me the wrong way.  Not someone that I would be regular friends with in regular life.  

I never said anything to her and just kinda drifted off.  Have any of you others had a similar experience?  If so, how did you handle it.  I didn't feel like it would be right for me to say "Hey, you're a great lay, but your personality is like nails on a chalkboard."

So far this is the only provider that has really rubbed me wrong like this.  Before you ask why I haven't reviewed her, this happened like end of last year, so it is well past the time limit.  

physical attraction but there is no chemistry.  Some people (not just ladies) don't realize why we have two ears and only one mouth.  In fact, I can think of a better use for the mouth (mine or hers) than talking).  Don't get me wrong, silence is not always golden but too much talk is a distraction.

who are you critical of?  If the chem is not there, I will not see a lady a second time?  and a 3rd?  but I will admit that I've been with some ladies with whom I have shared mutual interests and with whom I have really enjoyed learning about their lives, and they mine (or so they pretended!).  I would never complain about that.... in some instances I've learned things, and more to the point, I've benefited from the friendship.

In this instance, I would not write a review on this, as it seems you were provided "Extra time" for free...?  or have I misread you post?  but if a nice lady decided that she would really like to be with me OTC, and see where things went, I really would not complain to publically, as it is highly personal...

I have met a number of providers in a social context, then been damned thankful that I did, because they irritated the hell out of me. But I was spared the fate of having made appointments with them. They had great reviews and such, but we wouldn't have clicked well at all.

Another lady I met was fairly shy. So I am, which made for some awkwardness, but nothing I would fault her for and not "annoying" as such. Just not a good match.

So far, I have been spared what you went through.

Just keep your cock in her mouth and the two of you should do just fine.

You got some extra attention many gentlemen have paid extra for. She went the extra mile and you should have stayed home.

Obvious that you were not interested but this lady could have taken her envelope and moved on with a short good-bye.

Great performance and staying overtime gives this lady a solid 9 and even a 10 to a man who loved her conversation.

To bad she wasted her time on someone who didn't appreciate her good nature

Kisses Haley

If it was good natured and not a glorified rant about her baby daddy or certain people that screwed her over etc, then you would be absolutely right, but that's not the type of attention we pay for.  I probably didn't express myself properly, but I wish it was pleasant and her going the extra mile.  Then I would have been "Sucks I cant post this review" instead of "have you all seen this."

Bonjouor Demonking,

If you were annoyed the first time around, I'm flabbergasted as to why you'd put yourself through round 2 and 3.

Regardless, you have just as much control over the flow of the session as she does. If she walks in and starts babbling on endlessly, be initiative. If all else fails, stick something in her mouth.;-) When the time is drawing to a close, tell her that you have a business dinner, meeting with friends, work to do...etc. This will prompt her that it's time to go!

In all reality, most gentlemen would love this added time off the clock. However, if her personality is like you said, "nails on a chalkboard"...not so much.

Best wishes,
Paris

Honestly, I think part of it was that I was not running across anyone else that either wasn't making my gut instinct say run away or that wanted more money than I wanted to pay.  I chose to settle at the time.  

That was the last time that I did that however.  You live an learn. (And you find better resources.)

was a young lady who was relatively new. She seemed to feel that I needed to know all about her personal life, especially her husband. She talked about him for waaaaay too long. Knowing that she was new, I did mention it to her near the end of the evening, and she appreciated my honesty. Her reasoning was that if she made it clear that she was "taken", she wouldn't get any guys falling for her. I did wind up seeing her again, and it was a much nicer evening. She remembered our conversation, and told me that she had toned down the husband talk a lot, and was enjoying herself much more than before.

So the old TV series said; and it's no different here.

Some gals are much better at chat than others.

I've been with some who were great at chat, and so-so in bed; and I think I would take them over the ones who are vice versa.

Then there are those who have is all together.  Those are the keepers.

Musta REALLY been great in the sack!!!!  Maybe she was just lonely, hadn't had any dates in a while.  Maybe her mother was out of town!  Hard to say....I don't mind the talking, as long as the talk time is added to the play time, and NOT part of it!  :-X

Yes, once or twice.  I simply give her something else to occupy her mouth with and then get the hell out of the room when I'm done...

most any subject, whether relationship oriented, science, meta-physical, cars, clothes, etc. The only turn-off in conversation is an attitude of ingratidue, or narcissism, or a mean spirit. Short of that, I'll stay as long as she likes to chat, and even offer to continue a conversation over a bite to eat if she'd like to venture out.

Many times, I've started my 'time to get ready to leave', and a lady starts asking more personal questions about her sexuality and if I have any opinions on things she can try for variation, assisting her arousal speed, etc. (Often I have materials from my personal research on sexual physiology with me that she earlier in the date looked over and I think it takes a bit of time reviewing in her mind what she looked at to formulate questions.)

So I put my bag down, and proceed to have some very nice, open conversations. It's nice becoming a confidente and resource to a lady. It makes seeing her again even more exciting since we share a commonality of purpose in helping her expand her experiences of what her body is capable of.

Talking about things is one matter, but this girl just had a general attitude about how she talked about others and certain things that just made me not want to really want to know her that much.

I have one provider that I have seen a few times that I love talking to because we just click.  It takes a couple of bad ones to make you appreciate the good ones obviously.

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mute with skills?  Either one could help you avoid those unpleasant times you described...but, be ready for those moments of awkward silence..........

First they do the thing where they walk behind me and imitate me as I walk into the room and drop the envelope.

Then, after I get undressed, they inevitably try the old, "Tugging on the rope to make it longer" routine in reference to my penis.

Then, after the the 3 minutes of sexual bliss I impose upon them, most of them do the annoying, "Sad mime face, tears-down-the-cheeks thing."

Finally, as I linger in the room past my time, they all seem to resort to the, "Help!  I'm trapped in an invisible box," joke.

That's it!  After a dozen or so, I have learned my lesson.  No more mime providers for me!!

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