When I see them in an ad or on a website. My first reaction is that her rate is high and she's trying to justify it.  

 
However, I will acknowledge that there are certainly exceptions.

It really is just white noise at this point. “VIP”, “Elite” etc are not determined by the provider anyway, as the client determines that in any business.
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On the other hand, does it bother me? Not at all. I mean what is she supposed to say? I don’t think “Trying to be Elite!” works either. Lol

Vip and elite dont mean shit when its coined by that person about themselves. Its fluff. Almost sounds like id be paying more right off the bat.  

Top rated however...when linked to the top rated reviews holds some serious weight.

It generally means you're not.

If the shoe fits, wear it. If a provider has a great reputation, is incredibly good looking and is rated highly on review sites than I don't have a problem. The turn off comes when the terms don't match the profile. If a provider is calling herself VIP or Elite, but has no reputation, has crappy photos and doesn't look all that hot it will raise my eyebrows. If a provider calls herself "top rated" and doesn't have a TER profile I'll close the ad and move on.

I find those terms very important and helpful when used by a gent to describe his experience with an escort. I find them inappropriate and unhelpful when used by an escort to describe herself or her prowess, and rarely see ladies who address themselves as such.  
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By the same token, I rarely rely on reviews by a gent who feels the need in his reviews to tell us how big his cock is or how many orgasms he 'gave' to a provider.

Honestly, use them or not, doesn’t matter. If your reviews say you’re amazing, I’m good. If they say otherwise, those words won’t make you seem any better.

I thought this post was going to be about dirty talk 😈  

I see a lot of new girls put up websites where they describe themselves as elite escorts and it feels, shall we say, aspirational.

My opinion is that this is something that is shown, not told.

When it's not written on the site and is surprise in person

Just means price over inflated and ego centric

prove me wrong

I’ve seen more than a handful of providers because either they or their reviewers told me how great their blowjobs and deepthroating skills are! This is almost 100% independent of looks or age(yes, price is still a factor!).

Those words don't do anything for me as to a turn on or off.