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joleneineugene 266 reads
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your usual good advice and better manners are prevailing here!

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Lovelyelle1851 reads

I see quite a few ladies advertise on their websites that they are “available for exclusive arrangements”. Now, while I do understand the concept of exclusive travel arrangements, I do not understand how one can offer truly exclusive arrangements. When you add more than on arrangement into the mix, doesn’t that cancel out the exclusivity factor? To the ladies who offer these types of arrangements, how does this work? Is this something that guys frequently seek?

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Dr Who revived588 reads

disregard much of what is written on many (most) of the sites.

If we believed all that crapola, it would seem that well over 80% of the gals have Masters degrees, work out 6 times a week, have traveled the world, and are hooking only because they love it.

So why is posting an exclusive arrangement any different?

And my personal favorite are the "Chinese menu" for rates.  And there never seems to be any logic or rationale behind it.

But if the pics look good, and she is in my "wheelhouse"...I would disregard all that nonsense and send her an inquiry  LOL

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London Rayne608 reads


Girl gets tired of the SD or he gets tired of her, and she is back escorting lol. If I had one guy paying me at least 6-8k a month, I would pull my website in a heartbeat...if I could deal with the same guy for that long I mean. Has yet to happen ha ha.

Posted By: Lovelyelle
I see quite a few ladies advertise on their websites that they are “available for exclusive arrangements”. Now, while I do understand the concept of exclusive travel arrangements, I do not understand how one can offer truly exclusive arrangements. When you add more than on arrangement into the mix, doesn’t that cancel out the exclusivity factor? To the ladies who offer these types of arrangements, how does this work? Is this something that guys frequently seek?

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HangingwithBears412 reads

I've heard of providers demanding 10K+ per month, CPA, sign her up :-)

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London Rayne313 reads

health insurance, private school for the little one, and utilities I don't have a lot of bills. Add food, gas, and smokes, and we are up there though. I have learned to spend wisely lately, because the economy really does suck for everyone. I am in the wrong area to be a full-time hooker, which is why I am not lol.

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Lovelyelle521 reads

Lol, I understand that, London. Shutting down your business to be exclusive with one who you can come to a mutual agreement is completely rational to me. That's a TRUE definition of an exclusive arrangement. But, when I see this advertised on a lady's website, it usually says something along the lines of "available for exclusive/mistress/sd sb or whatever else they want to call it arrangements". That implies to me that multiple guys could have her as a mistress/sb/hooker on retainer. Ummm... WTH is exclusive about that, lol?

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Girl gets tired of the SD or he gets tired of her, and she is back escorting lol. If I had one guy paying me at least 6-8k a month, I would pull my website in a heartbeat...if I could deal with the same guy for that long I mean. Has yet to happen ha ha.


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London Rayne448 reads

3 guys who pay me by the month to see them x amount of times, but it is not enough to totally quit and I do have another gig too. I think what most escorts don't realize is that true SDs, want nothing to do with us lol. They already know our mentality and that we are not naive, so they like the coeds who will fk them 4 times a month for a cable bill.

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Lovelyelle387 reads

I get that too, London. But it's not the same thing. You hit the nail on the head about the SD thing, lol. That's what confuses me. A real SB/SD is truly exclusive, as is a real mistress situation (at least to my understanding it is). And sorry, any coed SB (or ANY SB for that matter) who's getting it in like that for the cable bill is crazy. That's STILL a hooker on retainer. Just at a cheaper rate and MAYBE a little less mileage, lol.

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3 guys who pay me by the month to see them x amount of times, but it is not enough to totally quit and I do have another gig too. I think what most escorts don't realize is that true SDs, want nothing to do with us lol. They already know our mentality and that we are not naive, so they like the coeds who will fk them 4 times a month for a cable bill.

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London Rayne448 reads

Hooker fks 4 guys a week at one or two hours at a time...SB might fk one guy, but the hours her vagina is being used are about triple and she makes a tenth of the money. I have tried to school them, but I can't save em all bwahahaha. These girls are doing full on overnights for less than 500 bucks! WTF...I can make that at Walmart!

Yes you are correct...truly exclusive connotes one on one, but "entertaining SD arrangements" means she is trying to land one lol.

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Nyx_GG315 reads

and a lot of them are doing BBFS with their sugar daddy on top of it. In my experience the vast majority of guys claiming to be sugar daddies are nothing more than bargain hunters.

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Posted By: London Rayne
They already know our mentality and that we are not naive, so they like the coeds who will fk them 4 times a month for a cable bill.
Right on the money, lovely London, as usual. ;)

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Posted By: London Rayne
...they like the coeds who will fk them 4 times a month for a cable bill.
London honey. Will you forward emails for some of the coeds?  *eg*  I'll pay your light bill as a "finder's fee!" hahahaha.

Actually, coeds are the ones that are mental.....Straight Cash Homes == the way to play.

Hugs to you,

Phats

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Nyx_GG411 reads

It's the guys who are going to be exclusive because they're giving all their money to the girl...

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BethanySweet276 reads

I'd love to have just one guy who was my SD.  I have fun with my regulars, and there's a reason why I run my business a certain way.  I charge more so I can see fewer gentlemen, and give them a better experience.  Also, less chance of getting in trouble with LE.  I do NOT want problems, not legal and not health issues, as in STDs.  

xo

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HangingwithBears350 reads

I've seen providers drop out for awhile for SD/SB arrangements. The providers I know of lasted about 6-9 months in these arrangements and were ALMOST exclusive. They did "cheat" on their SD's from time to time when they needed extra cash and the SD wouldn't cough it up.

Exclusivity depends on both parties honoring the agreement.

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Exclusivity depends on both parties honoring the agreement.
So what happens when it is a married sugardaddy? That's not exclusive either.

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joleneineugene339 reads

on the woman's part, not his.

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joleneineugene267 reads

your usual good advice and better manners are prevailing here!

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SoftlySarah310 reads

Bah. That arrangement's not for me. I am too poly-sexual. (Now I could do a frequent flyers thing like London, because then I wouldn't have to be exclusive and neither would they.)

Posted By: joleneineugene
on the woman's part, not his.

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London Rayne350 reads

Posted By: SoftlySarah
Posted By: Polish_Pirate
Exclusivity depends on both parties honoring the agreement.
So what happens when it is a married sugardaddy? That's not exclusive either.

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AngelMichaels342 reads

And, they're usually the most generous!!!!!!  If you can find a married SD willing to support you:
DO IT!!!!!

Posted By: London Rayne
Posted By: SoftlySarah
Posted By: Polish_Pirate
Exclusivity depends on both parties honoring the agreement.
So what happens when it is a married sugardaddy? That's not exclusive either.
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hockey79314 reads

I am married and have done the whole SB thing before several times and from my limited experience it is a complete fiasco.  First, it takes effort to set up ground rules and trying to lay them out is easier said then done.Plus you don't know who you are getting involved with, the stability of the sb mentally, what she really expects, etc etc.  Things start off pretty cool with eye candy on your arm until you decide this is getting old, then what?  Do you think the sbs are really cool with just ending it..ahh the mess it causes.  All for what? Perceived exclusiveness? Perceived less risks? Plus a civvie may think its all about the green but in my experience it becomes more...SB FAIL.  Ill stick to SPs, sure there are still risks but I think they are mitigated...I know what they are out for and that's perfectly ok with me.

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NYSt8tofMind288 reads

She will not have more than "one" hence the term exclusive. Problem is - can you ever really be sure

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Brthtkngbrooke288 reads

If I wanted an exclusive encounter,I'd have a boyfriend!
This type of arrangement rarely works out for either party longer than 6 months.
It's way more difficult than it should be as we are dealing with humans who are not always a perfect science. If it sounds too good to be true, it just might be!

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BethanySweet260 reads

My monthly exclusive rate is $5,000.  Consider this.

*Rent $1800
*Health Insurance $600
*Auto/Renter's Insurance $125
*Dental Insurance $130
*Gas/oil/maintenance - varies
*Tuition $500
*Food $600

Etc etc etc

So, really, $5,000 is a minimum.  Note that I support my two children solely.

xo

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