hello ladies and gentlemen, I've recently decided to become a provider. It's something that has always intrigued me. I'm young and very very attractive, and i've always been sexually charged. i cannot wait!
I'm very excited about this, but i am a little nervous as well. My first experience is in 5 days. I need to know EVERYTHING! women, what are some small secrets that i need to know, what should i expect, etc. how do you go through your hour? what steps do you take
men, what is your perfect gfe routine hour?
thanks guys! i'm really looking forward to your input, and i appreciate your help

If you're really a GFE,then LFK,DATY,multiple cups {if time allows} AND BBBJ along with intercourse should be provided at the very least.If you're not willing to do these things,then you shouldn't advertise as a GFE.Make sure to return phone calls and emails in a timely fashion and keep your rates,websites and photos updated.Treat your clients well.{especially your regulars} If these tips are followed,you should have a very prosperous future ahead of you! Good luck!

If you do not have one already, buy a VIP membership.

Once you have that, go to "search reviews". First do a search using only the criteria of performances rated 2-4 and start reading. Take notes. You'll get a crash course in what NOT to do from the best source around - the men themselves.

Then search for reviews rated 8-10 and take notes on what TO do. Find out what men raved about in reviews that resulted in a highly rated review.

You can learn more from the reviews on here than just about anything when it comes to what to do once the door opens.

For tips on security, screening, advertising, web building, and all the other things that go into being a provider, the other ladies on this site can offer you tons of advice. Read the discussion boards, and PM someone if something they said sparks your interest.

That's my two cents, and good luck to you

Siobahn,

#1 - Safety.  Everything else, while important is really secondary in the big picture.  Hopefully the ladies will provide you with the best tips for screening and always having someone else know your whereabouts.  The hobby can be a lot of fun and I (with bias of course) believe that most gents are decent but the odds are that sooner or later you may find yourself in a dicey situation of which you want no part of.  Be prepared to and know how to handle the occassional a-hole.  Then there is sexual safety.  Without going into specific subject matters that can and will lead into countless opinions about this subject..play safe.  Condoms..ALWAYS during vaginal and/or anal penetration.

Hopefully you will get lots of advice about conducting sessions, establishing clients, pricing, etc.  My secondary advice in these areas is to be yourself.  If you don't like something then don't do it but at the same time be as honest and upfront about this from the start.

One last piece of advice.  Post your question on 'The Erotic Highway' board of this site.  The resident Love Goddess is exceptionally wise and I think you will find her to be honest, educational, helpful and supportive (which may mean saying something that you do not want to hear).

Good luck to you and let us know how you fare down the road.  One last time....please be safe.              

sio, it all depends on what you are willing to do and what you are offering as a provider.

Guys are different and like different things in women. For your first time as a provider "virgin" so to speak just ask the guy what he likes and be your feminine self. A few providers I've seen have done this, I then told them and that is what I got. That should work perfectly.

For me I tend to like giving oral, a lot. That is my thing and it gets me hot seeing a woman truly enjoying herself. Everyone is different.

Good luck and knock his socks off!

I agree, mulitple cups or shots on goal.  LFK, followed by DFK, lots of eye contact, and be vocal during intercourse.(moaning, Yes, yes, yes,! talking dirty fires me up!)  Every guy is different.  The regular SP I see is fantastic! I really think You have to be a Sales Person!  I think mine takes notes, and checks them before I show up.  It makes for a more personal experience,  Plus, be a little wild and take control!  Suggest things if you have to; DATY, CG, Doggie!  
Good Luck!  Maybe I'll visit some day!

Wow, keep it coming...puns, all right. I mentioned in another post that i wouldn't be a normal human being if i weren't just a little nervous. excited? absolutely, but still nervous. so the more feedback the better. i'm primarily concerned about my saftey. i'm very attractive, sweet, small, blonde, and young (last year of college...ripe!). so i don't want anyone to hurt me. that's the perhaps the only nervous concern. i'm also concerned with his pleasure. i've always given a+++++ pleasure (god i reallly enjoy it) to my partners, but i hope that i will feel the same enthusiasm in this situation. i want to. i don't want to choke.
i don't want many at first. just a few here and there. i have a really good job starting in the fall so this is for fun and funding for now.
anyway, really, i'm so very appreciative of all you guys.

One thing I like to do is compliment the lady when and if she is good at something. I make sure it is true and real, and it comes from my heart (and the little head). It is nice to get some compliments from the ladies when things go well, something like,"you eat pussy well", or  "you are a great lover". We dudes have huge egos.

Totally agree. Safety is always best and don't let them take advantage of you. It's your body and it they are too creepy or you don't feel comfortable with something, don't do it. If they don't know enough already, ask them to clean up (nothing kills the mood like smelly balls or breath!). Get your $ upfront and relax and have fun! Good luck!

She gazed down on my face with a beaming smile after she rode on top of me to a great orgasm and said.."Good boy".

My heart just melted.