Hi, I have to say I am impressed with the thoughtful conversation taking place about this taboo subject.   I posted on the ISO boards, but maybe my question would be relevant here too.

I am a married woman.  I found this site because I am researching getting a provider for me and my husband on his birthday.  I am wondering how unusual my request is, and if there are any providers out there who specialize in these situations. (?)  And how can I narrow down my search so I don't call a bunch of people just to find out that they won't/don't do this.  I would prefer a provider who is bisexual.  

Any advice?

First let me say what a great wife you must be!  Although, you didn't say if you're doing this for him or for you.  Hey, it doesn't matter, it's all good.  

There are a lot of bisexual providers (even though they usually just seek male clients), and I know from past threads your request is not that unusual.  Post on the regional board closest to your location, and I'm certain you will get some good recommendations fairly soon.  Some of the women you seek may reply directly to your post.

Remember to exercise the same precautions everybody tells the guys- read the reveiws carefully, be discrete and use good judgement when discussing what you want, fees, etc. (LE scum will arrest women clients too).  But most of all have fun and tell us how it goes!

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I didn't see the regional boards yesterday, I am still working my way around this site.  (And amazed that it even exists, thank god for the internet! lol!)

We both share this fantasy.  In order to fulfill it without any emotional weirdness, I think this is the way to go.  I just hope the reality will live up to the fantasy.  We have a fave porn star who "stars" in our fantasy and I *wish* I could arrange that...mmmm.

Heading off to the NYC boards now, thanks again!

...your husband is very lucky--hope he appreciates you.  You're a sweetheart.

you could not be more wrong, lol!

In terms of "type", we are both fans of Tera Patric.  (Altho I don't know if she is bi, I just love her looks.)  I happen to be blonde myself, so nothing against it at all.  But we have very little interest in the run-of-the-mill bleach blonde porn type.

And there is a big difference btwn a true bisexual and a woman who does it for the camera/audience/men.  We are not looking for porno fakery.  A real bi woman knows how to eat at the Y (no faking), and knows a G-spot from a hole in the ground.

Try to imagine what a woman finds attractive in another woman.  It's not your typical 16 year old boy's wet dream, but something more intriguing and...complex.

Didn't figure you to be quite THAT open minded! LOL

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