I am in the "I want the scent to linger" camp, BUT I don't have an SO that I have to worry about. Most guys that do this are married and they can't wait to get rid of any evidence as fast as they can. I will occasionally join a lady in the shower "post coitus" but more often than not I just get up put my clothes on (with a little help sometimes) and go about my day with a smile on my face.

As for a post session snacking, except for the occasional desire for the woman to turn into a six pack and a pizza after cumming, actually I am probably more of a non snacker after sex. An hour or two later I am usually hungry, but usually after sex I feel spent and not particularly hungry.

I have been here with what I will call a year now and have noticed a bit of an interesting pattern with you gentlemen AFTER an appointment......and it's simple.....

SO v no SO. I also suspect you don't know the percentage of clients you see that have SO's. I can't speak for anyone but me, but none of the ladies I see know that I have an SO, but I suspect I'm not alone. Although, one clue might be how fast we jump into the shower.

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I never really understood why provider after provider would ask a perfectly single guy if I wanted to shower before I go back.. Hell no.. I am happy with one shower in 90 min (in the beginning).. I don't want to catch cold...

Some ladies won't let me use shower because kids are at home. I have to sneak up alleyways to enter basement bedroom.  I carry baby wipes to clean up. I will shower at home or go back to gym to shower.  

but now that you mention it... I am in the "I want the scent to linger" camp.  

You go after you come from the gym. A SO will expect you to take a shower before coming home from gym. Also about 10 laps in swimming pool will get rid of perfume and other woman odor.

I don't wear underwear into the appointment. I will reunite with them sometime later, after the "post drip". lmao! For the ladies I see that smoke, I put all my clothes in a plastic bag.

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After all with Hawaii's cold weather and low humidity, nobody sweats here, and since my work is outside in a blue collar field, I never get dirty!

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wifey asks how, how come you are not losing weight

I would prefer she turn into a pizza and a six pack of beer "instead" of sex and not simply afterwards.

Sorry, but that's the best I've got.

loose term but apparently went over the head a bit. BD got it LOL. Senator, I think I'm a lil disappointed.  

...somewhere and I don't want the scent to draw attention. If it's home or my local sports bar then I'll wait to shower later. I have a moustache or as one of my favorites calls it, flavor savor. I enjoy the scent the rest of the day if possible.

Not a problem already in shape. I go to gym 6 days a week.

Your post just reminded me why ladies are the center of my universe. There is no better feeling in life than being wrapped up in the essence of a female.

so I don't want to get my clothes oily or attract flies

See, now everybody's happy.

unlike GaG, I could snack on Taylor all night, so I was a little distracted.  

and I got distracted thinking of YOUR scent...

I dated a few guys whose scent drove me wild, whether it be their cologne, their natural scent, or our scent together. My ex used to ask, "Don't you need to shower before you go?" But I wanted to continue to bask in our intimacy... almost as if he was following me into the rest of my day.

I have no need to shower after a session unless it's been a real messy one.  I have no SO and don't need to hide the smell of pussy and perfume.  In fact, being a lover of DATY, while driving back home I enjoy sniffing pussy scent on my upper lip and on my fingers.
I have a story in this regard that relates to the provider as well.  It's been told here but bears repeating, so those of you who recall it can stop reading at, "It all began in Las Vegas....."
I was with a top provider who has since re-located there.  She's well known as a prodigious squirter who loves Greek.  We were in standing dog and I was buried deep in her nether regions.  She screamed and squirted.  Well, it wasn't really a squirt because a virtual fire hose doused me from the balls down.  I was soaked.
The session ended and we hung out for a while as I helped with some web site issues.  I knew I needed a shower but decided to walk back to my hotel for that.  Just as I was leaving her hotel GaGambler called, also from the same hotel, asking if I wanted to get a drink (his usual question). We knew each other but hadn't met yet, so I said yes.
One thing led to another and, still coated in dried squirt, I ended up squiring two insanely hot French Canadian stripper/hookers to dinner.  Another pal had brought them to town, had other business and asked me to take care of them.  So GaG and I took them to one of the better restaurants where they guzzled a huge amount of wine and drew stares from the other diners, even two gay guys.  Yes, they were that hot.
The one seated to my right kept trying to convince me to take her back to my room.  I Told her I was spent in that department, just having had a very hot session.  Of course, in the end I capitulated.  Back in my room I tell her I need a shower and explain why.  She pulls down my pants, smiles wickedly, and in an adorable French accent says,
"Let me check, eet might be OK!"
Down she went, sniffing at me like a dog at a fire hydrant.  Up she came and, with a sexy grin said,
"Eez OK!"
And off we went for an immediate BBBJ.
So the moral is, bisexual girls love dried squirt as much as some of us guys do.
Yes, I'm sure there are some who won't believe this tale but it's 100% true.

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After leaving the provider, I won't encounter another person for a day, two days, or more. I like to have the aroma (and taste) with me as long as possible, so I don't shower.  I told one provider this and she gave me a piece of her lingerie that had her perfume scent on it. When I got home I put it in a zip-lock bag, and every so often I'd just take a whiff. It made me smile.

then you said "basque." Oi!  You meant "bask." Basque, which always must be initial capped because it refers to the Basque region of Spain and it's citizens.
Conan thanks you for your attention.
And he still thinks you're hot.

Even if the lady I am going to see is Bi I shower before out of respect, and after for the same reason. And I do not want drama at home.

Really, I wanted to see who would notice. No, really, I did.

To shower before I get to a provider's place and usually wait till I get home to shower again, though I will accept any offersof showering before or after with the provider or at the request of the provider.  As far as the flavor saver, well since I usually use a fishing or hunting trip as the excuse as to why I'm not answering my cell phone all day, and usually go out todo those activities afterwards, well my hands are gonna be stinky

love her scent on my hands for a few hours.  Little grins pop onto my face for quite a while when I accidentally catch her scent again.  Even a quick shower doesn't usually wash it all off.  Being a morning guy, it's usually 6-7 hours before I'm home with the SO.  About four hours is the most the scent on my fingers and hands is detectable by my nose.  Never sniffed my dick

But I always do early morning visits.  With my regular, I ask her to shower and shave her legs the night before, but do not shower that morning until after, with me.  Her scent is more intense that way, especially in her hair at the back her neck and ears.  She does insist on wiping her nethers with a damp washcloth, before we start to get too serious, though, because I always DATY extensively.
She thinks I'm crazy, too.  I do shower right before for her.

because I recall times I've come home late after a session when I was married, and my wife would suddenly be turned on and want to have sex.  (Fortunately I was young enough then to pull it off.)

Pheromones really are powerful.

had posted about having a Spanish Basque ancestry... by way of Texas or the like.

Cosette may also be.  She is a Junior Associate of Conan.  And given the primitive level of posting here, Conan needs all the help he can get.
Cosette and anyone else seeking to assist Conan in his work should start by getting the official badge.


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soon..........

thing, don't you think posting as Inicky is a lil more mature even on here. Idk, that works for me just fine and be done with it, grammar lesson or not. You two have missed a few a long the way anyhow LOL. I suggest you get on top of it unless your 'cuddling' antics have clouded your judgement in the process.

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I try to do early morning, before work appointments so I can have her linger on me for hours, wears off by the time I get home...yum.

2) That said, "infantile" is something I aspire to, so I'm pleased that "in your book" I've accomplished that.  Most people seem to enjoy Conan, so it would seem you're an "outlier" on the subject.  Not to mention that the "inicky" handle doesn't sound terribly mature to begin with.  It's an artifact of being a noob when I joined and then deciding "fuck it, I'll use it anyway."  Too late to change now because I don't want to confuse my many friends and admirers here.
But your entire post smacks more than a bit of your "dark side." You know, the judgmental "know-it-all" TS, not the one who started a pretty good thread on cuddling?
I guess it's a part of your "multiple personality disorder."  You know there are meds for that, right?

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straight. That word in it's 'sense' doesn't exist in my vocabulary as I have stated, except when it pertains to what should be cuddled, an animal or children LOL. Not grown ups. And yes the thread is a fun one, but it's about the 'snack' remember?

If guys who think that they are the "first" of the day only knew what she was doing the night/morning before she starts work, they might not be so eager to DATY.

As to the rest of your post it's rather hard to follow, as the writing is quite poor.  And I don't need Conan or his pal The Cunning Linguist to tell me that.
And if you think my post above is "attacking like there's no tomorrow" you really should have a better idea what an all-out attack from me feels like.  Which is odd, because a few of them have sent you into all-to-brief hiatuses.
Another funny one is your saying "is that supposed to be funny" about Multiple Personality Disorder and then saying you're "giggling."  So I guess you're saying it actually IS funny?  Try and get your story straight.  Maybe I should get my friend Angel to teach you clear thinking and posting.
PS: And thanks for forgetting I actually defended you in a post under Gambler below.  Here's the deal, when you say something that makes sense, I've been in the mode of acknowledging it.  Both in that case and in liking your thread on showering after a session.  Maybe that was a mistake though. You're on your own now.
I guess it's impossible for you to see how annoying you truly are.  Oh, well...I tried.
I should have listened to your "noose."  Remember him?

Challenged much? LOL

and you'd have run screaming for a toilet to douse it in.
Challenged much?
Better get back on those meds.  You're going to need them.
PS: funny how you claim you don't read my posts.  But you reply to all of them, ad nauseum.  Lying much?

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And no, I really don't read your posts. I am sorry. Why, I'm not close to what you're saying am I? If I am, that's a bit scary I must say. Maybe I'm a mindreader and I don't know it LOL. I could add that to my services perhaps, what'do ya think? Is that better than 'cuddling'? LOL

For me it's only a question of time. I see only few providers and sometimes there is enough time to jump in the shower with her, other times she's got to get in and get out ASAP because I'm not the last one on her schedule.  

you respond to them in detail that proves you read them.  Look here, my little Pikachu, we all know you lie continually.  But do you have to make it so damn obvious? Geezk!