"The problem is there are some girls who I would see more (either longer or more often) if they were to make rate adjustments."
Mr.,
YOU are obviously the only one with a problem about this. If the ladies thought it was a problem they would change it. How do you delicately raise the point? YOU DON'T. Simply see the ladies who have policies that are favorable for you.
I do offer discounts on longer sessions and accommodations for my best friends. That said, I would never presume to go into Safeway and ask for a special discount because I come in twice a week, and I would never ask my chiropractor to take a pay cut because I've been seeing her for five years.
Some ladies will do better with the reductions in the long run, others wont. It is not your business to tell anyone how to do their business.
I have been bothered by these two related donation issues for a long time. I either want advice on how to handle the issues or at least feedback that I am not totally out of line.
I feel that girls should offer a discount for multiple hours. Some do but some are very resistant. In many cases I have passed on girls who won't make adjustments for long sessions. I know it is their perogative and I can just say no, but I still feel that I am being the more reasonable about the issue.
Second, it is the old repeat customer problem. If I want to see a girl over multiple occasions I think there should be some consideration and recognition of my status as a valued regular. Again some girls extend the courtesy and other girls hold the line. But I tend to see the girls who make accomodation more. It seems an issue of maximizing current profit at the expense of long run profit. Again I can say no and I do but it still leaves me wondering.
The problem is there are some girls who I would see more (either longer or more often) if they were to make rate adjustments. How can I delicately raise this point? What do experienced, older hands suggest?
I think that attempting to negotiate any kind of reduction BEFORE the date is a bad idea. The ladies hate this and so would anyone in the personal service business.
I think the only way to do it is AFTER the date. Casually mention to the lady that you would be interested in seeing her on a regular basis in the future under a lower rate structure and to let you know if she ever has an interest in doing this.
That way the offer is out there for her to accept or reject. And because it is not tied to a specific upcoming date, I do not think the lady would be offended.
If you are the type of client that they would like to see anyways (I.e., you are clean, well groomed, on time, polite, respectful, etc.) it could be that they will suggest a discount for spending more time with them.
I'm not saying this will always happen, but it does often enough.
A lady is free to set her price schedule at any level she wants and your choices are simple: (a) pay what she asks, or (b) select a different lady. Negotiating a properly disclosed fee is tacky.
I suggest you see who you want to see but don't expect to charm anyone into giving you a discount off of multiple hours or multiple appointments. What the lady charges is her business. Either accept it or move on.
Sometimes we offer discounts for whatevr reasons, but I am in this busin ess to make money. What I do to make my money is nothing to take lightly. I am giving yo ua piece of myself and I highly value that.
I have many repeat clients and I meet many new clients that are fine with my rates. I just think it is tacky when I get that random one that will try to break down my prices. I hate it, I really do.
In the long run, it's better all around. I have had ladies offer longer dates, free hours, and that is what I prefer over a lower rate. I'd much rather have the chance to spend more time with a lady.
"The problem is there are some girls who I would see more (either longer or more often) if they were to make rate adjustments."
Mr.,
YOU are obviously the only one with a problem about this. If the ladies thought it was a problem they would change it. How do you delicately raise the point? YOU DON'T. Simply see the ladies who have policies that are favorable for you.
I do offer discounts on longer sessions and accommodations for my best friends. That said, I would never presume to go into Safeway and ask for a special discount because I come in twice a week, and I would never ask my chiropractor to take a pay cut because I've been seeing her for five years.
Some ladies will do better with the reductions in the long run, others wont. It is not your business to tell anyone how to do their business.
does anyone remember the old saying. If I had a dollar for everytime..... If I offered a discount for every first time gent for returning clients.. It's unfortunate that alot of guys in the hobby use this as a way to dicker a girls rates down. And you will never hear from ever again. So for all you guys who are honest...there are hundreds who are not. Women set rules generaly because somebody before you ruined it...
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