Can anyone recommend a sexual lubricant. I've tried Astroglide and it doesn't have the staying power that we need.  I don't need a waterbased lubricant since we're married and don't use condoms.  Any suggestions?

You might try KY Touch Massage

It's a sinthedick lubricant good for 10,000 thrusts !!

and you are entitled to more than a sophmoric response. Try a silicone lubricant readily available at shops that sell that type of product. It is quite expensive but very effective.

…Just to let her know what a gift she really is to me (my so).
From there a few well placed candles around the room and then some special music. Lots of caressing of her skin followed by warm nibbles on her ears and neck and by this time she knows I adore and desire her, and we have our lube…
    A woman I know once told me, most men think of a blowjob as foreplay. Now don’t get me wrong…I love getting the oral attention I crave from her, and this romance stuff may sound like a lot of work, but we make love almost every night and most of the elements I mentioned are always part of our time together.

This was a general statement and not meant to pick on you GB, I’m sure you will the find the answers you need from another poster…

SM

   

Works great for me, I have tried all the others mentioned and found this one the best!

Besos!
Jade JaDore


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I only need lubes with clients because I wear condoms and it tends to get dry when is rubbing inside me.

With my SO, without condoms, I don't need anything because he has the ability to make me extremely wet.

He eats me a LOT, with passion - pussy & ass - and when I am dripping and begging for his dick, we start to fuck.

We fuck for hours, all holes, all positions without any lube. He alternates fucking with eating me so I am alway wet.

When he pulls his dick out, it's always dripping with my juices (which I loooooooove to lick it off him lol).

Maybe you need to eat her more? When you fuck, do for a while, then stop and go down on her again, fuck, down again, fuck down again.

I bet she will love that (I doooooooooooo!!!!) and  will produce lots of her natural lube for your dick to slide like butter.

BDG










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but saliva remains a good natural lubricant--it just dries out and has to be replenished from time to time.

Durex makes something called Sensilube that is great stuff; to the best of my knowledge it is only available in England.

works best for me.

Great for massaging and anything that ails you.

wonderful for the skin too.

Available at most health food stores.

For your sake, when you're post-menopausal, I hope you can still fuck for hours without lube. For many post-menopausal women, or others who have physical/hormonal issues that limit the natural production of lubricant, finding a long-lasting lubricant is a big benefit to satisfying sex, especially if their partner is well-endowed. Enjoy while you can!

If you can't get her all wet and moist down there then you gotta start thinking if she's getting it elsewhere. LOL

Right on Jade, the stuff is great.

Is Liquid Silk.  Not so "wet" as AstroGlide.

Consider water based, married/condoms/or no...
Other products may encourage yeast infections as they are not readily absorbed by the body.

: )

you can safely use oils, which I much prefer for the taste, sensation, and persistent slipperiness. (oil will cause latex to break).  I've tried many of the natural unscented massage oils; some FBSM providers and CMTs mix their own blends.  Its all good.

However, it's not always the best lubricant.

Hugs,
Ciara

I've found that if it's liberally applied, it lasts for hours!
(The negative side effect is that the girl is challenged to NOT poop her pants for the rest of the day... However, not my problem!)

that only petroleum based lubricants (like Vasoline) will cause problems with latex and that vegetable type oils will not.

Is this not so?

Where are the chemestry majors?

for constipation!

You're lucky she didn't poop on your dick LOLOLOL

It's a matter of natural verses synthetic. Natural lubricants may work better in the short term, but synthetic lubricants last much longer. They are composed of certain type B molecules, and are formulated through a process known as resinolapthrical fusion. This procedure allows the molecules to adhere to eachother much longer before breaking down, either through friction or age.

Resinolapthrophy is a process that was originally developed by NASA for the technological advancement of all lubricants that are used in the space program.

Perfect answer SM.....too bad they can't bottle that romance stuff.If you don't have the time,patience and caring SM exibits or your body just needs a little extra help,I recommend silicone based lubricants

PC,
The question is not where?...but, how often?

but the question I wanted answered is whether or not there is a problem using latex condoms with natural oils (e.g. almond oil) vis a vis any deterioration of the condom and the ills attendent to same.

and it appears that it is a total myth that oils such as olive oil or mineral oil is better to use with condoms than others.  Frankly, anything except a water based lubricant causes condoms to break down and fail.

Silicone lube is an alternative to water-based lubricants, which are more often recommended. Unlike oil-based lubes, silicone is safe to use on latex and polyurethane condoms and dams (but not recommended for sex toys made of silicone). Plus they have more staying power!!!