Ladies & Gents,  
 
 What's your take on this?
 
For me, I can have several different moods. My sexuality can be slut soaring high, usually once I'm fully comfortable with my date. Or, you caught me during a good shift of the moon .  My sexuality can be neutral, there just for your pleasures not completely turned on. Or, just skeptical of your moves. For example, you keep asking me if we can go bareback. WTF! Just because I've done a few porn scenes does not mean that I want to have unprotected sex with you! I can be really playful & youthful at times. That's usually when I meet someone whom I hit it off with at 'Hello'.
 
Not meaning to confuse you guys with my different takes on a encounter. Admit it, we all know there's either electric chemistry or a bad decision from curiosity.  
 
But, does the confidence the lady walks with scares the thought of your chances with her?
Do you believe that you have a chance either way because she's a sex worker?
 
Let's talk about it....  

I don't construe any of that as a confidence projection, but simply that most women have moods that most men can't understand.

Posted By: Kisses_Jones

Ladies & Gents,  
   
  What's your take on this?  
   
 For me, I can have several different moods. My sexuality can be slut soaring high, usually once I'm fully comfortable with my date. Or, you caught my during a good shift of the moon .  My sexuality can be neutral, there just for your pleasures not completely turned on. Or, just skeptical of your moves. For example, you keep asking me if we can go bareback. WTF! Just because I've done a few porn scenes does not mean that I want to have unprotected sex with you! I can be really playful & youthful at times. That's usually when I meet someone whom I hit it off with at 'Hello'.  
   
 Not meaning to confuse you guys with my different takes on a encounter. Admit it, we all know there's either electric chemistry or a bad decision from curiosity.    
   
 But, does the confidence the lady walks with scares the thought of your chances with her?  
 Do you believe that you have a chance either way because she's a sex worker?  
   
 Let's talk about it....

The body of the thread was me giving a story. The questions are below.

And would some guy think he has a chance to nail her?

...can easily adapt and go with the flow on new dates - then this is exactly what I like.
If you mean aggressiveness and dictatating the how and when of all the date activities rather than letting that be more of an organic unfolding in tune with both of our desires - then no, that's not something I particularily like.  I have had a few dates where I did feel like the lady's personal boy toy, which on one level I enjoyed - knowing she was really getting off - but on another level, it was almost TOO much about her, lol!

scares and threatens many men.....some of us women too! I sometimes find myself a bit intimidated by a very sexually aggressive woman, though at the same time it is the biggest turn on in the world to me.

I will agree that crazy chicks are let's say, always fun. PMSing just means that the anticipation is building for some lucky half drunk guy to have his balls drained dry and dick fucked up into the inside of his stomach.  

I can relate to you 100%  
I found myself threaten around beautiful women. Not because I lack confidence in myself, but from her beauty, passion, and strength. So sexy! Yet even by being a woman, it's still mysterious.

I can see your point of view of confident and secure versus aggressive and, well a bitch LOL. There are guys who enjoy for a woman to take it over the top, but that request is usually on another board LOL. Versatility is more of my persona. By nature I'm gentle and submissive. If required I'm dominate and controlling. Whichever fits the bill.

Given the example I put up, are you suggesting that if you met some dude and he wanted to fuck you (and presumably you want to fuck him), you would tell him that you're strictly a hooker?

Not an ISO. When I'm at a bar, I'm with friends enjoying sports not looking for a john. When I'm at the gas station, I'm there for gas. Not a john. When I post a simple topic, it is to talk about it. Not to pick up a john.

And not expect him to hand you money.

If by having a chance with her, you mean having a chance of pleasing her, having a mutually enjoyable session, yeah, I used to find a woman’s confidence intimidating. Because I would associate her confidence with her having had good lovers, her having seen every trick in the book, her having high standards, her being hard to impress, etc.  

We can stir up some trouble on this board, but I think everyone is ready to move on to another topic. I'll be posting again soon!!

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But all I seek is the truth.

Every session is a puzzle for me as well. Every man isn't the same. Can you agree that the challenge of bringing one pleasure is an adrenalin rush? And a warm tingling of the mind?  

I can dig a demure girl, but I love a woman who embraces and enjoys her sexuality rather than guarding it like it's some kind of prize she needs to lock away and only dole out in small doses to those that pass multiple tests. This is probably why providers turn me on.

Thank you, sweetheart, but you're too kind. If I really knew what I was doing with words I would have said "every session is a mystery and every 'body' is a puzzle" instead of the other way round. Flows more and makes the point better, doesn't it?

I find confidence attractive. I go into every new encounter titillated by the possibilities. Some are meek and submissive. That has its place. Some are more into controlling the session. When done right that can also be a turn on. It is at its best when two individuals who are confident with their sexuality meet. Sometimes it is instant other times it takes a session or two. When it happens it is something you remember. Would I ever be frightened by it? No.

I agree. Kindred spirits, sexually connects, it's all Beautiful.

Kiss me well, and you can probably get me to do pretty much anything. We'll I'm probably not gonna let you peg me.... well I'm not sure depends on the kissing.