You Answered All The Points!
As for me I LOVE my HAIR COLOR!
I Feel So SEXY & Mysterious!
Thanks Again
Tootles
Is Hair Color Important?
Hi Molly, you are gorgeous! For me, hair color must be natural: blonde, brunette, redhead -- doesn't matter very much. I love a natural looking woman, one who turns heads, her eyes captivate, her hair frames her face. Girls with green hair, blue hair or the like do not capture my attention.
How about a streak or two or blue or purple? lol
Gray is out for me anything else is great. Red even better.
Attitude, sensuality, smile and the ability to breathe through one's ears. The only thing worse than grey hair is fake looking ,feeling or smelling hair. Hair to a woman is as important/unimportant as guys size is to us. I looked at your site, you look fun, especially the bike pictures, you physically look fantastic, your ratings appear that you seem to be good at your chosen profession so I think that you have everything most dudes care for. Blonde would be fun, short might be fun, certainly easier for you, but I bet using that long brunette hair as reins from behind could be great fun.
Just an old,fat fuck with an opinion
Personally, for me, it doesn't matter much. The woman should do whatever makes HER feel her best because it is my belief that if she FEELS hot, she IS hot because she'll project that. So my personal preference is that the woman should exercise her own best judgment about what makes her feel her best. I'm pretty sensitive to a woman's psychological projections, so that works for me.
Interestingly, I have never seen a blond provider. Dunno why. Maybe blond providers when compared to brunette providers charge more per unit of performance? A sort of "blond premium?"
However, what works for me might not be the most wise approach in dealing with the general public. Dealing with "men" generally is very different from dealing with a man individually.
There are a host of studies on the correlations to hair color in women.
In Britain, blonds makes more money, marry wealthier husbands, etc: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/lifestyle/7552146/Blondes-paid-more-than-other-women.html
Men generally DO prefer blonds for a host of reasons: http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2010/jun/04/men-blonde-women-attractive
Now -- HERE is the kicker. Men prefer women with blond hair color EVEN IF they know it is from a bottle!!
So, from a sheer money-in-the-bank perspective, if you can pull off blond, it will probably make a 5%-10% positive difference in your income.
HOWEVER -- depending upon what market you are aiming at, that may not work as well as being brunette.
Whether the stereotypes have any basis or not is irrelevant -- but men consider brunettes to be more comparatively solid and reliable. Therefore, especially for providers serving a more long-term market or working with men who need the absolute utmost in discretion; brunette hair may be a bonus.
Obviously, the hair color doesn't make any change in the woman. But it makes a change in the way she is perceived by men, Those differences are relatively small -- in the 5% to 10% range -- but repeatable and useful.
So, the answer is really related to what segment of the market you serve and what your objectives are; keeping in mind that a sharp woman who knows what she is doing can accomplish her objectives despite superficialities. So that, in the end, if a lady knows what she is doing, any differences due to hair color can be compensated.
Interestingly, I have never seen a blond provider. Dunno why. Maybe blond providers when compared to brunette providers charge more per unit of performance? A sort of "blond premium?"
However, what works for me might not be the most wise approach in dealing with the general public. Dealing with "men" generally is very different from dealing with a man individually.
There are a host of studies on the correlations to hair color in women.
In Britain, blonds makes more money, marry wealthier husbands, etc: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/lifestyle/7552146/Blondes-paid-more-than-other-women.html
Men generally DO prefer blonds for a host of reasons: http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2010/jun/04/men-blonde-women-attractive
Now -- HERE is the kicker. Men prefer women with blond hair color EVEN IF they know it is from a bottle!!
So, from a sheer money-in-the-bank perspective, if you can pull off blond, it will probably make a 5%-10% positive difference in your income.
HOWEVER -- depending upon what market you are aiming at, that may not work as well as being brunette.
Whether the stereotypes have any basis or not is irrelevant -- but men consider brunettes to be more comparatively solid and reliable. Therefore, especially for providers serving a more long-term market or working with men who need the absolute utmost in discretion; brunette hair may be a bonus.
Obviously, the hair color doesn't make any change in the woman. But it makes a change in the way she is perceived by men, Those differences are relatively small -- in the 5% to 10% range -- but repeatable and useful.
So, the answer is really related to what segment of the market you serve and what your objectives are; keeping in mind that a sharp woman who knows what she is doing can accomplish her objectives despite superficialities. So that, in the end, if a lady knows what she is doing, any differences due to hair color can be compensated.
You would think... but not always the case. I went back to my natural color of blond a few years back.. and regulars were NOT happy, and after 7-8 months, finally went back to my now dark hue, people were much happier, & my income went back up... lol, go figure.
It depends on where the hair is located.
On the head natural is good and can go the full range. Blue is not a natural hair color.
Below I prefer no hair color.
You Answered All The Points!
As for me I LOVE my HAIR COLOR!
I Feel So SEXY & Mysterious!
Thanks Again
Tootles
After reading your post I then immediately went to your profile to get a look at the lady behind the question.
I gotta say, I was completely surprised to see someone with the name Molly as anything other than an auburn/red head lass.
Just maybe a women's hair color can be as important as the name it accompanies.
To answer your question check my reviews, I will always run to the darker haired women the fastest.
to me, though if I perceive from her pictures that her hair color doesn't fit with the color of her complexion, I can find it a significant enough of a turn off to diminish my desire to meet with her.
The hair may be the first thing a guy looks at when he sees your picture - the eyes are drawn to it because it's a color, so personal preference will have lots to do with it. A distinct color - bright blonde, rich red, or jet black mane will always draw attention from the man's eye - it's physiological. I like purple, myself.
It is one of many factors, and the criteria are highly personal and varied from person to person.
So, in my case, I tend to go for different hair colors depending on my mood. If I'm in the mood for intimacy and tender lovin', I gravitate slightly more toward blondes. If I'm in the mood for an athletic, sweaty romp, I gravitate slightly more toward brunettes. I have a "thing" for lovely blondes, and I have a "thing" for sporty brunettes. It's inexplicable; I have no idea where it came from; but I'm glad I know what I like.
It doesn't mean I don't appreciate sporty blondes or lovely brunettes. Quite the contrary. If she has a great smile and a cute ass, hair doesn't matter much (as long as she has some).
I tend to avoid redheads, though. I have one at home, and that's enough crazy for me, thanks.
I definitely have a "type" I prefer to meet in the hobby. That said, sometimes there's just something that strikes me about a woman I'll read about--a look in her eyes, an attitude that reveals itself in a website or a discussion thread, something I'll read in a review by a reviewer whom I respect, that will make me vary from the most frequent hair color. Had fun in the afterglow of a first encounter with a now retired dynamic woman whom I saw more frequently than all but one other provider when I told her that she didn't fall into my usual "type" by hair color and another characteristic or two, but damn, the lesson learned was "type, schmype, treat each lady as an individual on her own merits". We laughed, as clearly we'd clicked and went on to have more wonderful times. And though she is retired a few years now, we've swapped emails and kept in touch across the miles. And the hell of it is, now in retirement, she'd gone and dyed her hair the color that does fit my "type", and when I saw her in a photo she emailed me all I could think was "but she was perfect before!"
Big thick hair is adorable, but so is light wispy blonde, and I love curls too.
I'm even turned on by the Sinead O'Connor look.
It's all good.
matters most is performance and appearance in that order.
What a loaded question!
Hair color is important sometimes. Honestly, if you look good, then you look good! I used to be super picky! She had to be short (5'3" or less), small (C-cup or less), light brown/dark blonde hair, green eyes, etc, etc, etc...
Since then, I've learned that a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman without regard to race, hair color, eye color, other demographics.
However, those demongraphics need to seem natural! An African-American with blonde hair is going to really look weird to me! Likewise, any girl standing over 6 feet tall.