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AZ Misty See my TER Reviews 2161 reads
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1 / 9

This was sent to me and I though it had a wonderful life's less that should be shared.  Enjoy.  

And the story goes like this:
Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife Lisa, and their little boy Shane, were all very attached to Belker and they were hoping for a miracle.


I examined Belker and found he was dying. I told the family we couldn't do anything for Belker and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.


As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience

The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.

The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker's death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, "I know why."

Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation.


He said, "People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life -- like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?" The six-year-old continued, "Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long."


So,
Live simply.
Love generously.
Care deeply.
Speak kindly.

Remember, if a dog was the teacher you would learn things like:

When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.

Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.

Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.

Take naps.

Stretch before rising.

Run, romp, and play daily.

Thrive on attention and let people touch you.

Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.

On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.

On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.

When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.

Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.

Eat with gusto and enthusiasm. Stop when you have had enough.

Be loyal. Never pretend to be something you're not.

If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.

When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently.

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So let's learn from dogs (and cats too) and love unconditionally.

Thanks for reading,
Misty

SwedishAnna See my TER Reviews 397 reads
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2 / 9

Those are the things I were thinking about about 3 months ago when my life changed, among other things. My life is short and I hope I never get to be 90 years old and look back and 'wish that I had'. I want to grab each opportunity because I don't know if it will come again. But more importantly to live 'right now' instead of thinking of the next moment and make that moment as good as I can. So for me a few friends are better than a whole bunch because I have to be able to care for them all.

I could go on and on about this but to be able to feel happiness about the things I do every day is so important to me and I need to remind myself sometimes about it because I (we) live such a fast paced life that I sometimes forget.

Thanks Misty for giving me my daily reminder :)

Puss och Kram,
Swedish Anna

Layla South See my TER Reviews 761 reads
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3 / 9

Very sweet!
Thank you for the unconditional love reminder.
I miss my Lab :(
He was exactly as described here . If more of us would exhibit half the sweet behavior as our pets  the world would be much better place...

LOL  Now Now to you all who are thinking how nice it would be if....
Um...My thought has always been  when watching my cat lick.... "Damn if I could do that I would have never left home "!

mattradd 40 Reviews 967 reads
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4 / 9

Sounds like the boy was born an 'old soul,' which most of us are. However, we lose our wisdom when having to adopt the world view of our parents and teachers.

When I listen to my adult daughters and son talk of their childhood and family experience, they inevitably organize it around where we were living at the time, and which dog we had.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 524 reads
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5 / 9

because they haven't been taught yet they they are wrong.

"You can tell by the kindness of a dog, the way a human ought to be."

-Don van Vliet

mattradd 40 Reviews 219 reads
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6 / 9

"'I am a fox,' the fox said. 'Come play with me,' proposed the little prince. 'I am so unhappy.' 'I cannot play with you,' the fox said. 'I am not tamed.' 'Ah! Please excuse me,' said the little prince. But, after some thought, he added: 'What does it mean to tame?'...'It is an act too often neglected,' said the fox. 'It means to establish ties.'...'To me, you are still nothing more than a little boy who is just like a hundred thousand other little boys. And I have no need of you. And you, on your part, have no need of me. To you, I am nothing more than a fox like a hundred thousand other foxes. But if you tame me, then we shall need each other. To me, you will be unique in all the world. To you, I shall be unique in all the world...'" The Little Prince by Antoine De Saint-Exupery

dawgdish 47 Reviews 293 reads
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7 / 9

call me a cynic but most people don't even learn that lesson in their lifetimes - that's why I love dogs!

HippieJamie See my TER Reviews 159 reads
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8 / 9

I LOVED how the author coorelated the dog's loving actions to what we can do as people.  I have a rottie and a yorkee and put down my lab a few years ago.  As humans there is so much we can learn from our 4 legged friends.  
I put one of the actions into play while finishing reading the story.  I pet my "friends" leg in which he got a "Mr. Happy" almost immediately.  So I guess it works just as well on 2 legged friends as it does on 4 legged ones.
Thanks for sharing.

-- Modified on 12/1/2007 4:51:16 PM

CiaraPhx See my TER Reviews 1593 reads
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9 / 9

Pardon the pun with "tale" but I loved the story, Misty.

I believe animals and people come into our lives for a reason, and hopefully not just for a season. However, whatever the case may be, enjoy those moments and try to learn something from them.

Hugs,
Ciara

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