I thought about that too. I just can't admit to myself that there are cive girls out there who can perform like a provider can, and I missed out on it for 20 years.. Not cool Dad. Not cool.
It's true... The civie girls I have dated do it so differently than an escort.. Given. I always wind up dating the nerdy, conservative type. But still. Is there some kind of escort handbook that teaches you girls this shit, or what?
Anyway my point/question is.. Hmmm.. Okay. You are a provider for some time. Basically a master of a mans body, and a pro in the sack.. Do you tone it down for a BF if he didn't know you were an escort?
The reason I ask is.. If I started dating a girl, and she blew me like some of you amazing women have.. I would be suspicious... Know what I mean? I'd ask myself.. Damn! How did she learn that? I know one way....
It's like the time I found myself getting a warm washcloth for this girl I met after I.. You know.. Jizzed on her.. It is just second nature for somebody to get a washcloth after. In the hobby.. (Yes usually it's her. But if I blasted her. I get it... Mangina alert!) Anyway. If she knew the hobby.. She should have been suspicious. She didn't know, and thought it was incredibly sweet. I kinda felt guilty. Guess I've been a little worried about having to lie about this when I get serious with a girl
My ex loved to worship cock and became quite good at it (note to Hound: I am NOT talking about your Mom!). Probably the best non-provider head I've ever had. When she found out I was helping a provider with her business she asked if said provider would give her blowjob lessons. The provider said yes but the two girls could never get their act together. Then I saw a provider post on this board about a company that offered seminars for women on how to be better sexual performers. I told my ex and she took the course and liked it. Then she told me she took her daughter along! That was funny when her hot 27-year-old daughter forgot where they were and called out a question to her that started, "Mom!" All the ladies laughed over that one. My point is, lots of civvy women have ways of stepping up their BJ game, so if you're lucky enough to find one, don't assume she's a former or current provider.
I thought about that too. I just can't admit to myself that there are cive girls out there who can perform like a provider can, and I missed out on it for 20 years.. Not cool Dad. Not cool.
Truth be told I have had some of my best BJ outside of the hobby, and some of my worst by so called pros.
I would say experience is not what makes for a great cocksucker, I think it's enthusiasm, and some girls just love to suck dick, and I am eternally grateful for that fact.
Now as far as "clit sucking" goes, I have to confess I am a thousand times better at it because of my whore mongering, and I just love enjoying the reaction I get from a civvie girl who has never had her pussy properly eaten. I honestly think it has kept a couple of ladies in my bed who were otherwise "out of my league".
I can't say this for a fact, but I think sucking dick is something that just comes naturally to some women, while eating pussy for most men is a skill that takes a lot of practice to be any good at. Either way, that's my story and I am sticking to it.
The dick-sucking coming natural to some part especially. Which goes hand-in-hand with some pros not being good at it. Like the date I had the other day. Terrible. And she even tried to DT, so it was on her "menu." Her problem goes to an earlier post of mine. She didn't love it. She actually stopped to complain several times. As a result, she didn't apply any friction- it was the "loosest" mouth I've ever felt. (Yes, this was my bad weather dinner audible I posted about. Otherwise, an great time.)
Still, the advantage to a pro is the number of options she has at her disposal to make up for one bad skill. The above lady did just that.
I'm grateful for great bbbjs- I love them almost as much as FS.
It's true... The civie girls I have dated do it so differently than an escort.. Given. I always wind up dating the nerdy, conservative type. But still. Is there some kind of escort handbook that teaches you girls this shit, or what?
Anyway my point/question is.. Hmmm.. Okay. You are a provider for some time. Basically a master of a mans body, and a pro in the sack.. Do you tone it down for a BF if he didn't know you were an escort?
The reason I ask is.. If I started dating a girl, and she blew me like some of you amazing women have.. I would be suspicious... Know what I mean? I'd ask myself.. Damn! How did she learn that? I know one way....
It's like the time I found myself getting a warm washcloth for this girl I met after I.. You know.. Jizzed on her.. It is just second nature for somebody to get a washcloth after. In the hobby.. (Yes usually it's her. But if I blasted her. I get it... Mangina alert!) Anyway. If she knew the hobby.. She should have been suspicious. She didn't know, and thought it was incredibly sweet. I kinda felt guilty. Guess I've been a little worried about having to lie about this when I get serious with a girl.
... and true in my experience as well. Not that I hated bjs but they left a lot to be desired. Well done Hound. I actually remember your washcloth post.
the PS-level BJ ever gave me away...I don't think many guys would ever guess that I'm a provider, but it could definitely suggest that I'm much more experienced than my demeanor/appearance would suggest. Which isn't a good thing in 90% of cases.
One time, I was with my ex-bf (a civvie) and put a condom on him with my mouth. After we were finished, he was astonished...he'd never even felt the condom go on. He was like, 'How did you DO that??' That moment kind of gave me the jitters.
I'll be totally honest. Before the hobby.. I was a moron in the sack. Typical two pump chump.. Scared shitless.
It's inevitable you learn a thing, or two after a while.... I sometimes feel guilty about how I learned it.. Sometimes I'm proud I broke my shell. One thing I know. 95% of the girls I can date will dump me on my ass if they found out how I learned to please them. I never thought of that when I started doing this.. Yes. I am stupid
I was the instructor for a two part blow job class. The pay blew, but the knowledge I bestowed on the simple Midwest housewives was a priceless lifetime reward.
I knew plenty, but picked up one priceless tip from Jenna Jameson's book: 'How to Make Love like a Porn Star,' was to deep throat till you gag.... That is where the thick slippery throat lube comes from.
Hey Hound, the teacher is ready....I need a demo bunny for my next class!
that you are one gagging, slippery, sloppy, deep-throating BJ Princess. Dirtiest mind in town, too. Upon my return, which may not be until mid March, I stand ready to assist you in your endeavors to spread your knowledge to those unschooled in giving "Head Royale." Why settle for my son the Hound, when you can have "big daddy." But I do appreciate the affection you've expressed for my boy. He is a fine young pup
I get away with murder because civvie boyfriends can't let go of the great sex. Providing really got me into being enthusiastic about sex and craving it all the time. I'm an animal if I haven't gotten any in at least 3 days lol. I think there is a difference, because before I began this adventure, I just wasn't as into pleasing someone as I am now.
I always wonder if I should scale back when with a new civvie bf, but then I figure why sacrifice pleasure? I have to thank the industry for making my sex life amazing, and for teaching me how to be a fantastic lover.
Dear Madam Marie: I am just wondering since you have an immense sexual predilection that is an addiction, have you begun to explore in your civilian life at least being active in public and unconventional places?
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I get away with murder because civvie boyfriends can't let go of the great sex. Providing really got me into being enthusiastic about sex and craving it all the time. I'm an animal if I haven't gotten any in at least 3 days lol. I think there is a difference, because before I began this adventure, I just wasn't as into pleasing someone as I am now.
I always wonder if I should scale back when with a new civvie bf, but then I figure why sacrifice pleasure? I have to thank the industry for making my sex life amazing, and for teaching me how to be a fantastic lover.
Dear Madam Marie: Although you won't say it, you have some peculiar proclivities that make you an innate freak. With that said, you tend to attract men who have an equal sexual intensity and know that they can put it on you. Henceforth, If I may hazard a guess, you tend to attract older men who have an equal or greater experiential concomitant of experience.
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How did you know?! Are you friends with my civvie bf? If so I'm in a lot of trouble....
they're not worried that if they look too eager the guy will say "she's a whore". I've only had two civvie girlfriends that could earn anything near a bronze medal.
And by the way she taught me how to eat pussy quite well, at least I have never had a complaint and oh by the way I love to practice. But between the College GF and starting my hobby career the bj's I had were lackluster at best. My ex's idea of a bj was to get it wet with spit for lube, only foreplay never just blow me to completion. Thus she's my ex, I don't cheat, but I'm not going the rest of my life without getting my cock sucked off (ok I'm not that shallow, there was more than just that). Now since I started my hobby career I'm getting great bj's all the time. If I were to ever enter in another civie relationship I wouldn't think twice about why she would give great head only that she does. I am very good at eating pussy and I've never been paid for doing so, although that would be very cool. There are a few providers that I see, and it's all we do for a 2 hour session is oral, her on me and me on her with breaks in between of course. I have to find providers that do bbbj to completion because I have a stupid mental block with condoms, I can't maintain an erection for very long once a condom is put on. It's almost as if it's suffocating the little guy.
A question for the ladies, do you prefer a client that only wants bj's? Is it easier and more comfortable? The reason I ask is that it almost like some providers are happy when they discover that this is all I want.
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