Was having a wonderful time. During DATY, I noticed something inside her vagina but not obvious. Afterwards, I had her climb on top for some CG and I could feel an obstruction. So, I asked her-point blank"- is there something in there? Well, yes, there was. Something called a "cup", which is supposed to help a lady have sex while Aunt Flo is visiting. Now, I do not fault the girl, she had wanted to cancel but her boss asked her do this. I have NEVER had this happen before, in way over four years of hobbying. I have heard many times, "Sorry, she isn't available as it is her time of the month". I also know most independent ladies take that time off.

But I heard of sponges... Much softer, was it like an actual cup? Hard?

I tried the cup a few times..... it was fine until we did K9 and then it got dislodged.  What a mess!!!    

My question is don't providers take that time off, or do most of you gals use sponges or cups or whatever. I for one, would like a woman without any cup or sponge. Should a provider tell the client that she is wearing one

i have an app that keeps track of my monthly cycles...if there is a request in the ballpark of it, then i will let the client know and leave it up to them to make the appt or not

and as long as there is no DATY I suppose you can still keep it a secret that it's your "time of the month" but it's still noticeable. The sponge will suck up all the moisture "down there" and without the use of lube, sometimes a LOT of lube, it will be a very dry fuck indeed.

It was too late to cancel so I told her we could pursue an alternative way to complete our playdate if she was in any way uncomfortable. Bless her heart - she wouldn't hear of altering her game plan and gave me one helluva session.

I think sponges are most common for that purpose now. You might now even know the sponge is there.

Hehehe we can do magic you know... The times I used to wear a sponge, there was no dryness and they never noticed

You never heard of "Diva Cups"? They are all the rage. All the cool kid use them. All kidding aside I had one tip and leak over some expensive sheets I'm still pissedcabout that one. My regular's tell me that Aunt Flo is visiting and we reschedule. I just wish everyone was professional like that.  

I had a session a few years ago with a high dollar traveling gal in her hometown-we met in the lobby of the hotel at the airport-had a drink and great conversation-went up stairs to my room-as we got deeply into the engagement and was moving from mish to doggy-I thought I was back in college-blood all over my (covered) dick and balls !  She acted thoroughly surprised-I don't know if she was or not-but we still had an awesome session !!  Lubrication was never an issue either !!

I use my days app, it's literally on point every month! ))  

Oooh ew, that's awful. I'm glad I never encountered a problem like that. In my past, I would be pissed about the sheets but you can fix that with Coca-Cola

It did not bother me fucking her, but I would not DATY down there! No thanks

Thank God for early menopause lmao  op not funny but funny lol

I've never used it but I used the sponge when I was making adult movies. Worked fine but the sponge got stuck up me and I couldn't get it out for a full day, I had to stick my hand way up my hoo ha to pull that thing out.
Also I only work on my period if the guy wants me to. And yes I have had a client who preferred me on my period and yes he did DATY on me while I was on my period.

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No one has ever mentioned feeling that presumably because it's spongy and sits up far enough to not be felt. I prefer not to work that time though mostly because I'm rarely at my sparkly best!!!