to Mathesar for taking the time to post some information about condoms and it's effectiveness.
As a provider, yes, many of you are correct that a lot of us are very cautious about our practices on dates than the common woman looking for an occasional fling, however that is not always the case.  Some providers are supporting other destructive habits and don't care much about taking care of their bodies and just care about making the money at whatever the costs.  How do we know the difference?  We don't. We as humans can be selfish/hopeful whatever term you would like to use in this case.  We want things to work out the way we want to and we think if we don't think about it much and make excuses, maybe it will just go away.  
I have given BBBJ's to selected friends, but to think that a date should always give BBBJ's to each and everyone she dates, I ask, are you crazy?  Escorts are not being paid to just be there and have sex with you, perhaps if that is what you are looking for you would be better off getting the local girl off your corner who advertises as being a prostitute.  Escorts are being paid for their time and companionship and should be respected as human beings and not expected to give your smelly, warty, funky looking dick a blow job uncoveredjust cause you paid her high dollars.  I do however understand the risks that come along with this job, but at the same time I don't think that means being irresponsible.  As in any work atmosphere, they have regulations and safety rules to keeping you safe on the job.  I know that cause being also in the horticulture industry, I must follow OSHA standards.  
Be realistic and if you are going to play, the more you do, the more chances of getting something.  As I have posted before, both sides should be responsible and get tested periodically.  Be smart, play safe.