I want to thank the men and women who did offer their insight to my post about different ways to orgasm. And if you want to continue offering your input, I also posted on the NY board, and it's still near the top of page where people can see it. I understand that the guys and girls had to sort out the discussion of nipple tenderness, I just wish I had made my post AFTER that post. It was my first time posting on General Board, and I thank those who welcomed me here.

Might I just add my own response to the titty tender post:
I'm a low volume provider. I see 1 or 2 guys a day, sometimes skipping a day. My phone rings all day, but I prefer to not see alot of men, because my body would get too sensitive, and I might not give my best by the end of the day. For instance, if I was to see 5 guys in one day, the first one might get my best performance, but the 5th guy, tho he might be a really nice guy, might get me when Im feeling worn and tired. I dont want to regret an encounter, nor have anyone see me less then at my best, so knowing this about myself, I choose to be low volume. This might be why I can tolerate alot of different types of touching - soft and also rough. I realize that not all men will touch me the same way. I don't blame them for how they touch, because all women are different. Some like it rough, some like it soft and sensual. So how is a man supposed to really know how to please each and every women? I guess it depends on the level of intimacy that the man hopes to have with the women he's with "right then". Does he care if he is pleasing the women he is with "AT THIS MOMENT?" If he forgets what all the others before her liked, and just cares about what this women likes, he should be able to read her pleasure level, even without her saying anything. Another thing Ive noticed on alot of men, is that the way they are touching me, is actually how they want me to touch them. It's a signal, a signal for me to touch them that exact way. If he fingers my asshole hard, rather then me getting annoyed, I just ask him if he would like his asshole fingered hard. Almost everytime the answer is "yes". If he is twisting my nipples really hard, I reach for his in the same way, then he usually lets go of mine, since that was what he was really after in the first place. Basically, if he wanted to do what I liked, he'd ask me. If he's ASSUMING Im liking something, its almost always what he actually wants done on himself. Once I do it to him, he relaxes the roughness on me, and it makes him orgasm very strong!
In no way am I bitter that my little first-time post is way down the page. Im happy to see all the new topics. And Im not talking down to anyone. I just hate to see anyone upset. I hope this helps a little bit.
thankyou flora

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thank you and you make very good points.
I look forward to your posts.
I like it rough(pounding) just not much on my breasts.
To me my breast are big and in the way.
I love to see lots of guys.
The more I see the more I want.
I need to move to a country where the guys don't have to work such long hours and and then maybe I could get enough attention from one man.
Does this place exist?
I want to mover to NY but the winter weather scares me.

Hello Floracita,
As a result of your first post I checked out your website and all your reviews.  Incredibly impressive. I think you are walking the wild side with sagacity.

As for female orgasms in order of intensity: 1. clitoral combined with gspot to the point of ejaculation 2.clitoral and g full body 3. clitoral 4. g 5. vaginal 6. orgasm during dreaming. 7. Mini orgasms. Anal TBC. The method of stimulation is a big factor depending on whether it is skin, vibrator, water etc. Also, intensity often doesn't mean the equivalent emotional or mental satisfaction. The greatest erotic moments are when your partner is more committed and excited about your impending orgasm than you are!

Feel free to move to LA. Winters are fine, but the guys are still very busy. Can't see where we wouldn't make time for you.

Thanks for the great insights. I too have learned that, what the other person wants, they tend to do to me first, so I try to reciprocate and see if that's what's going to work for them. It usually does, though with women it's seldom rough.

Also, thank you for sharing about how you work. A few weeks back there was a post started by a person concerned about how many men a provider might see, and when to schedule to make certain she wouldn't been too tapped out to give her best effort. There were many negative responses to the effect that with a "good provider," one would never know if you were the first or the last of many. I was suprised at the negative response, given the many reviews I had read where the reviewer felt that things might not have gone so well because it was at the end of probably a very long day for the provider. I know myself, I'm much more into sex when I'm fully rested and fully charged. As an older, pretty much one cup guy, I can't imagine how anyone could think that a woman could not be physically and emotionally impacted by multiple partners in a day. I know each woman is different, but think some men are aware that a woman can have her limits, and are concerned about how that might impacted upon their time together, while other men rather not consider it at all. I have found my best time with women who seem to be much like you, and because of that stay clear of the others. Though, for many, hobbying can be a mere business transaction where someone "gets off," I feel it's an opportunity to experience something spiritual and sacred, if I remain open to it. It might be pretty hard to do that in a high volumn context.

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Come to Wisconsin - there's absolutely nothing to do here but fuck!! Our state song is,"I don't want to work, I just want to bang on the drum (aka Shilo) all day."