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Zangari 1484 reads
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Since texting is our primary form of communication with Providers/SBs, here are few things that I've picked up along the way.  Feel free to add your own suggestions:

1.  Don't ask a question when you can make a statement (avoid the question mark)

Weak:  "Can we get together tomorrow?"

Confident:  "Lets get together tomorrow."

2. If she doesn't reply to your text, don't send another text.  Her answer is no.

3.  If she sends you an angry text, don't reply to it.  Your 'no reply' sends a strong message:  I don't need you.    

4. When a provider texts you out of the blue for another appt:  Whether your answer is 'yes' or 'no', be a gentleman.  

5.  You're unhappy with your ATF/SB, and she hits you up to meet again.  Your reply:
"I've made other plans."  Translation: I'm fucking another girl now.  

6.  Never mention another provider or SB.  See Item #5.  

7.  The best way to handle a fight with your ATF/SB is a combination of Item #3 and Item #5.  I used to drive my  ATF into a white-hot fury with that combination, lol.   She'd usually win in the end--I'd eventually see her again.  But I'd make her wait...and she'd have to contact me again.  But make-up sex is always fun.  

--z

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...drama I hobby to avoid. #3 on down sounds like the stuff the hobby is intended to avoid. I won't be taking advantage of this info. I recommend newbies stay away from it too.

#1 & #2 are good.

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Posted By: xyz23
...drama I hobby to avoid. #3 on down sounds like the stuff the hobby is intended to avoid. I won't be taking advantage of this info. I recommend newbies stay away from it too. #1 & #2 are good.
A lot depends on what you're doing & how selective you are.  If you meet a spectacular girl (ATF/SB) & start seeing her on a regular basis, then you'll eventually have to deal with the issues on the list.  And spectacular girls are few & far between, unless your standards are fairly low.  

You're not helping any newbie with shop-worn hobby cliches.  They already know about the option to drop a girl & move on.  --z

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1192967645 reads

...of truth in them. To each his own on how they do this.

As for my standards. I'll let my reviews speak for themselves.

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2hot4u2651 reads

Where your coming from tho,in fact I was roflmao when I read your thread.I am deeply in your debt for sharing that insight,while it's prolly not newbie related as xyz points out .I have already copied & pasted for safe keeping.

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Posted By: 2hot4u2
Where your coming from tho,in fact I was roflmao when I read your thread.I am deeply in your debt for sharing that insight,while it's prolly not newbie related as xyz points out .I have already copied & pasted for safe keeping.

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Just print out my post & tape it to your refrigerator. Lol.

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Posted By: Zangari


A lot depends on what you're doing & how selective you are.  If you meet a spectacular girl (ATF/SB) & start seeing her on a regular basis, then you'll eventually have to deal with the issues on the list.  
No you won't. I never get angry texts from my ATF.

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Posted By: Zangari


A lot depends on what you're doing & how selective you are.  If you meet a spectacular girl (ATF/SB) & start seeing her on a regular basis, then you'll eventually have to deal with the issues on the list.  
No you won't. I never get angry texts from my ATF.
I do not send angry texts to my regulars and they do not play games with me either. Otherwise I would just stop seeing them.

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mrfisher606 reads

(Sexting might be a different story, however 8o)

Even with a clamshell phone that has a full keyboard, it is hard for my big fat fingers to hit the right keys, and manipulating the shift keys to get the right punctuation is a pain.

When I do get a text, I wait to responsd until I'm at my computer where I can touch type like God intended us to do.

By the way, when you do want to make an appointment, give exact specifics like when and how long, as well as where; or she will be turned off.

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AlexandraMilw645 reads

If you got this sort of thing going on... I wonder if you know how to drop a gal and move on. A good provider wouldn't give/get this sort of drama you speak of, nor would they beg for you to come back.

Newbies, if you follow this sort of mindset/behavior, expect to not have much luck with the Quality ones. Same is said if you are getting this BS from her, move on. Never know what it will escalate to. Suppose to be in this for fun not some psycho game playing. Quite a number of guys get blacklisted for weirdo behavior such as this and then good luck finding a decent gal to see.

To clarify.....Some of your numbers are fine, but #5 and #7 shouldn't be going on. Sounds like a crazy.

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No one should be using a phone for this 'business' that is on them at all times. It should be a hobby phone that you either turn off or leave at the office, until YOU are ready to play again, not until she is ready for more cash.

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hiddenhills665 reads

I don't text to make appointments either, however, texting usually comes into play when getting room #s and locations. I prefer email for making appointments as I usually book in advance.

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If you cannot give your SB a Credit card with $5k to 10k Limit, you should not have one.

If you can’t pay for her digs, you should not have one

If you can’t pay for her Luxury Vehicle, you should not have one

If you can’t take her vacations regularly you should not have one

Everything else is fake SB

Note: I can’t afford  none of the above so I stick to P4P

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MagicMedic639 reads

I have a SB not a wife, and if were paying that much it would be exclusive, and whenever I wanted it with a key to the house and luxury vehicle. I will NEVER give a SB a credit card with a $5K to $10k limit, fk she won't get one with a $500 limit. I give her cash

I have taken her out of town for the weekend, paid bills, groceries, clothes, electronics, oil change on her luxury SUV, and take care of other monthly bills. I dont take care of every single thing she has for monthly expenses for several reasons, mostly because I don't want to.

Just like these ladies don't offer everything because somethings are reserved for their SO, I wont give everything, that is reserved for my SO.

There is a middle ground with no set rules, it is an agreement that you negotiate with the SB so that it works out for both.

MM

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London Rayne458 reads

LOL, so few do what you state above though, because they can't afford it. Most so called SDs on fk boards, are not at all what most are accustomed to. I have no complaints about the ones that I have met, but a SD did not buy me a luxury vehicle...a CLIENT did, and I've never seen him again after that. He did it not for me, but for his ego because he told the entire board he was "Going to Buy LR a Mercedes." I don't even think he liked me that much to be honest, but he did not want to look like an ass in front of his boys. Yes, he had that kind of money.

He has never been a SD to any of us girls including the ones he regularly buys tits, lipo, etc. for, but he is a client to quite a few. Still, he is more of what I would call a high roller than guys cruising SD sites looking for cheap ass.

To some 19 year old who lives in a cheap, one bedroom apartment, an extra 100 a week just might be her idea of a sugar daddy. To me...no way in hell.

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Dr Who revived854 reads

1)  Confident is fucking her in the ass when she wasn't expecting it
2)  She can't reply to my text while bound..and gagged
3)  An angry text means that she is OK with tickling
4)  Texting me out of the blue...as long as she's paying we're all good to go
5)  Again...as long as she's paying me
6)  Why not...is this some type of marriage.  It's P4P moron
7)  Best way to handle a fight is to not get involved in the drama you're suggesting be created.

Nice bash on Amber asswipe.  You would be lucky to have a sweetheart like her meet up with a moron like you.

Safe on the newbie boards?  Not when you invade with your blatant stupid remarks asshole.

Posted By: Zangari
Since texting is our primary form of communication with Providers/SBs, here are few things that I've picked up along the way.  Feel free to add your own suggestions:

1.  Don't ask a question when you can make a statement (avoid the question mark)

Weak:  "Can we get together tomorrow?"

Confident:  "Lets get together tomorrow."

2. If she doesn't reply to your text, don't send another text.  Her answer is no.

3.  If she sends you an angry text, don't reply to it.  Your 'no reply' sends a strong message:  I don't need you.    

4. When a provider texts you out of the blue for another appt:  Whether your answer is 'yes' or 'no', be a gentleman.  

5.  You're unhappy with your ATF/SB, and she hits you up to meet again.  Your reply:
"I've made other plans."  Translation: I'm fucking another girl now.  

6.  Never mention another provider or SB.  See Item #5.  

7.  The best way to handle a fight with your ATF/SB is a combination of Item #3 and Item #5.  I used to drive my  ATF into a white-hot fury with that combination, lol.   She'd usually win in the end--I'd eventually see her again.  But I'd make her wait...and she'd have to contact me again.  But make-up sex is always fun.  

--z

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AlexandraMilw473 reads

and I am not perfect, but my reviews speak VOLUMES about me and what kind of a person I am.

Posted By: ChgoCPA
1)  Confident is fucking her in the ass when she wasn't expecting it
2)  She can't reply to my text while bound..and gagged
3)  An angry text means that she is OK with tickling
4)  Texting me out of the blue...as long as she's paying we're all good to go
5)  Again...as long as she's paying me
6)  Why not...is this some type of marriage.  It's P4P moron
7)  Best way to handle a fight is to not get involved in the drama you're suggesting be created.

Nice bash on Amber asswipe.  You would be lucky to have a sweetheart like her meet up with a moron like you.

Safe on the newbie boards?  Not when you invade with your blatant stupid remarks asshole.
Posted By: Zangari
Since texting is our primary form of communication with Providers/SBs, here are few things that I've picked up along the way.  Feel free to add your own suggestions:

1.  Don't ask a question when you can make a statement (avoid the question mark)

Weak:  "Can we get together tomorrow?"

Confident:  "Lets get together tomorrow."

2. If she doesn't reply to your text, don't send another text.  Her answer is no.

3.  If she sends you an angry text, don't reply to it.  Your 'no reply' sends a strong message:  I don't need you.    

4. When a provider texts you out of the blue for another appt:  Whether your answer is 'yes' or 'no', be a gentleman.  

5.  You're unhappy with your ATF/SB, and she hits you up to meet again.  Your reply:
"I've made other plans."  Translation: I'm fucking another girl now.  

6.  Never mention another provider or SB.  See Item #5.  

7.  The best way to handle a fight with your ATF/SB is a combination of Item #3 and Item #5.  I used to drive my  ATF into a white-hot fury with that combination, lol.   She'd usually win in the end--I'd eventually see her again.  But I'd make her wait...and she'd have to contact me again.  But make-up sex is always fun.  

--z

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bluepillman538 reads

I might be reading this all a little goofy but....did I just see CPA take....a....take a....ahhhhh...a hoo.....a hook...a hookers side against a Johnny boy??? Is that what I just saw? Omg, CPA going soft on a "hooker"??? What's next, a one on one sauna swim with Hound and telling Saturn he loves her? Amber just tell me I'm liquored up and that everything I know about the world is still the same please! For if not, that fkin meteor with Earths name on it is just a mere 5-10 minutes away!!!!!!

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Dr Who revived608 reads

Had to join forces with Uranus..or maybe my anus...whatever.

Zangari is a bitter old man rampaging on hookers.  Piss on that noise since he attacks those that aren't on any pedestal.

But he runs away like the scared little man he is to tell his Mommy that mean CPA is here.

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I might be reading this all a little goofy but....did I just see CPA take....a....take a....ahhhhh...a hoo.....a hook...a hookers side against a Johnny boy??? Is that what I just saw? Omg, CPA going soft on a "hooker"??? What's next, a one on one sauna swim with Hound and telling Saturn he loves her? Amber just tell me I'm liquored up and that everything I know about the world is still the same please! For if not, that fkin meteor with Earths name on it is just a mere 5-10 minutes away!!!!!!

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glowerlord468 reads

Be that as it may....

Funny stuff CPA!  Great reply to a bizarre post.

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Dr Who revived587 reads

Guess TER knows you're not a newbie.

Also that you're a scary troll.

Maybe sugarland will let you post your fiction on their site?

PLEASE go there and get some better material.

Posted By: Zangari
Since texting is our primary form of communication with Providers/SBs, here are few things that I've picked up along the way.  Feel free to add your own suggestions:

1.  Don't ask a question when you can make a statement (avoid the question mark)

Weak:  "Can we get together tomorrow?"

Confident:  "Lets get together tomorrow."

2. If she doesn't reply to your text, don't send another text.  Her answer is no.

3.  If she sends you an angry text, don't reply to it.  Your 'no reply' sends a strong message:  I don't need you.    

4. When a provider texts you out of the blue for another appt:  Whether your answer is 'yes' or 'no', be a gentleman.  

5.  You're unhappy with your ATF/SB, and she hits you up to meet again.  Your reply:
"I've made other plans."  Translation: I'm fucking another girl now.  

6.  Never mention another provider or SB.  See Item #5.  

7.  The best way to handle a fight with your ATF/SB is a combination of Item #3 and Item #5.  I used to drive my  ATF into a white-hot fury with that combination, lol.   She'd usually win in the end--I'd eventually see her again.  But I'd make her wait...and she'd have to contact me again.  But make-up sex is always fun.  

--z

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Posted By: ChgoCPA
Guess TER knows you're not a newbie Also that you're a scary troll.--snip---
If the admins thought the thread was a troll, they would've pulled it instead of moving it.  But since when did logic ever interfere with your crackpot delusions.  --z  

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Posted By: Zangari

If the admins thought the thread was a troll, they would've pulled it instead of moving it.  But since when did logic ever interfere with your crackpot delusions.  --z  
Don't worry, sometimes they're just making sure by giving you a few more chances. Borderline cases happen more often than you'd think if you didn't work in the social networking industry.

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Dr Who revived544 reads

Or so I hear.

And you never disappoint with your insane drivel.

Just checked under your bed too.  Your Mom said that your nightmares have gotten worse.  

All clear there and the closet.  Don't forget to set your clocks ahead tonight!

Posted By: Zangari
Posted By: ChgoCPA
Guess TER knows you're not a newbie Also that you're a scary troll.--snip---
If the admins thought the thread was a troll, they would've pulled it instead of moving it.  But since when did logic ever interfere with your crackpot delusions.  --z  

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Dr Who revived596 reads

Guess those voices are screwing with you.

Early bedtime tonight sonny boy.  No more surfing for porn...it's stunting your development.

We'd like you to be a productive member of TER one day...so eat your veggies and get enough sleep.

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DirtyDaego660 reads

It's fun to stop by once a week and see what's going on......and to find it's the same old bullshit.

Chgo...you need a fucking life outside this shit.
You used to offer some real value, but now you're just obsessed. Aren't you the guy who proclaimed loud and proud that he hated this place...was going to support others...and wouldn't come back?
Well I guess a handle change or two fixed that. lol.
It's no fun for anyone to see your downfall into the vortex of crap.

This concludes my perusing of the board for 10 minutes a week. Going back to real life.
You should try it sometime. LOL.

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It's a bitch here without you!

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This is not like trying to extend your hotel stay at an otherwise booked hotel. I would rather have someone ask me if I am available and not demand it. That is just how that seems. ;-)

Posted By: Zangari
Since texting is our primary form of communication with Providers/SBs, here are few things that I've picked up along the way.  Feel free to add your own suggestions:

1.  Don't ask a question when you can make a statement (avoid the question mark)

Weak:  "Can we get together tomorrow?"

Confident:  "Lets get together tomorrow."

2. If she doesn't reply to your text, don't send another text.  Her answer is no.

3.  If she sends you an angry text, don't reply to it.  Your 'no reply' sends a strong message:  I don't need you.    

4. When a provider texts you out of the blue for another appt:  Whether your answer is 'yes' or 'no', be a gentleman.  

5.  You're unhappy with your ATF/SB, and she hits you up to meet again.  Your reply:
"I've made other plans."  Translation: I'm fucking another girl now.  

6.  Never mention another provider or SB.  See Item #5.  

7.  The best way to handle a fight with your ATF/SB is a combination of Item #3 and Item #5.  I used to drive my  ATF into a white-hot fury with that combination, lol.   She'd usually win in the end--I'd eventually see her again.  But I'd make her wait...and she'd have to contact me again.  But make-up sex is always fun.  

--z

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MagicMedic546 reads

There is a difference in confident and demanding. This is a business for these ladies, be respectful of their time, you should never feel entitled to it because you are not.

These girls should thank you. They are new to the business and you have taught them how to spot a dipshit and they will continue to move upward and onward to bigger and better SD's.

MM

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Posted By: MagicMedic
There is a difference...These girls should thank you. They are new to the business and you have taught them how to spot a dipshit  --snip--
Here's the difference: sane people can disagree without resorting to ad-hom attacks.  And then there are Repressed Johns like you, who in a fit of jealous rage treat this board like a spit sink.  Now you know the difference.   --z

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London Rayne589 reads

Ok, for real? Z, you've got your own past of personal attacks here, so you can't exactly toss that card his way. You insult everyone when they don't agree with you, even when they are not being mean spirited.

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(And you got your outright lies pulled). MM doesn't talk shit to the women and treats them with respect.

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Posted By: SexyflirtAmber
(And you got your outright lies pulled)
What lies? That you were making veiled threats on the Newbie board?  

How did I attack you? By stating that your rating is 5.5?  I got that rating from your TER profile:  Appearance = 5.5.  Below is the link to your provider profile, I hope that helps.  --z
Related Link: http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?ID=206852

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Posted By: SexyflirtAmber
Just stop obsessively stalking me. You had 2 pulled posts and you don't know when to quit?  
Ah, I love that. This prima donna repeatedly posts on my thread, throwing tantrums all along the way. But now?  Greta Garbo just wants to be left alone.  Maybe Greta should stop ringing my doorbell.  Go home & take a warm champagne bath, lol.   --z

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