I’ve seen a 5-6 ladies now and most have been really good visits. My question is how do you ask if Greek is allowed? I’m not going to ask “what’s on the menu” because that’s lame. I have seen a couple of the ladies twice and plan to see more. I’ve never tried Greek, but I’d at least like to. What’s the best way to ask or to go that route without sounding pathetic?  Thanks.

...you can ask them outright.  Trust me, they've been asked before.

It's not a thing for me, so I don't do it often.  So I can sympathize with you wanting to try it and not necessarily knowing how to proceed.  I do it ever once in awhile, but no big deal to me.  The last time, I was inside a provider I had just met for the first time ever that day, and I said, "Did I understand that you offer anal?" and she "Yes and I love it" and slipped me out, flipped over on her stomach, and slipped me in the backdoor in about three seconds.  

Oh, always ask about preferences and if she "will teach you".  Most women have a clear procedure for Greek and you need to be aware of how she approaches it.  Let her lead.

I'm going to treat this as a three part Q. First, check her Profile and Reviews. Under "Services offered" there is "anal." The listing might not also be current or correct, but if it says "Yes" that is a door opener (or a back door opener). "Your Profile says Yes, and I was wondering about that ..."  If she is taken aback, you apologize with, "It was Yes in your Profile. Maybe you should ask TER to change that."
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Second, check her ads. Some are explicit or at least make it pretty clear what is offered. Sometimes, they will even say "Anal +100 with advance notice" because some prepare with diet and cleansing to make sure that the activity goes well and isn't a shitty experience.  
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Lastly, it almost sounds like you are asking about bringing up the subject during a session. I would say, Just ask. If she is willing to go there, she will discuss it further. Or she might tell you she needs advanced notice to prep so, "Next time."  Once you're together, in the room, in action, it's a small step to bring it up. It isn't like asking someone sitting in the seat next to you on a jet flight, "Excuse me, do you like anal sex?" If she says, No!, the rest of the flight can be kind of awkward.

I know that some ladies are very open about it, or it's in their reviews. I've never asked by the first contact; it didn't seem right to me. But, I think it did happen once during our first e-mails, but she asked my size because she had a size restriction.

just ask if she likes Greek? If she doesn't know what "greek" is. tell her its anal.

she will either say Yes or no?

"hey babe, u azz avail 2nite?"

Look, finding a provider that does Greek is rare, just like finding one that swallows, and finding one that does both is very rare.  We have reviews, some women put it in their menu, some women respond to text and email questions.  Here’s the deal, if you think it will happen naturally, you most likely will not get it.  

If a provider does not advertise it, odds are she doesn’t do it. I’ve literally gone through a hundred Eros women in Miami, texting the menu question, it’s about 98% miss, of the 2% that will, you’re going to have to realize there are some logistics involved. Some rare women are ready for Greek  immediately, but others need to know how you are hung.  Some need to bring lube; some need to evacuate their bowels, or not eat, or other preparations (some enema).  Prior communication is a must, and if they don’t want to discuss it, then avoid. Plenty of fish in the sea.

Of course, before that I read their TER profile to see if the offer Greek and read reviews as to how good they are at it. And I check with my extensive network of back-channel mongers who've seen the girl.
There's no mystery to it.
Besides, while Greek is nice now and then, it's nothing to live or die for.

the guy below went through a hundred girls to find two that would do Greek.  Sound like a poop-chute obsession to me.  

First off, Greek, just like swallow birds really aren't that rare, but that's not what makes your answer so bad.

 
If you are really texting random women off Eros and asking them if they'll take it up the ass I can only imagine how many DNS lists you are on. NEVER NEVER NEVER send random text messages to providers asking about which sexual services they provide. Most likely you got 98% telling you to go fuck yourself up the ass.  

 
Anyone new reading this thread PLEASE do not "be that guy" you will end up having 98% of the women you contact refusing to see you at all if you do this.

Gambler and I are as different as you can be in this hobby.  Gambler, what are you up to now, 2-3 per day?  I do 2-3 a year, sometimes as many as 5.  I’m not playing a numbers game; I’m playing a be right as often as possible game.  Every woman I see has either had an ad for Greek, reviews with Greek, or agreed to Greek in advance; every date that does not wind up with a trip is because of either false advertising on their part or performance issue on my part (mostly performance issues).  

I get that Gambler is into other things, we’re not just different types of hobbyists, we have different goals, and different things that get us going.  When TER was up, I didn’t have to ask about Greek until the particulars came up, but always warn the provider that Greek is coming, most need to prepare.  When TER was down (still down until recent review numbers get established) I had/have to text.  Gambler is right, if you randomly text for Greek, it could make future endeavors more difficult. My strategy works for me, because I don’t see girls that don’t do Greek, so if I text and she says that’s not on her menu, then I was never going to see her anyway - so I lose nothing; if you want to see the provider for something else, then maybe you are taking a risk.  

There was a time before the anonymous texting apps, when providers were more cagey, but I’ve had very few with the current technology not respond, and only two out of hundreds (maybe 300+) say don’t text me again, and only maybe 10 or so say I don’t discuss.  The vast majority just say sorry not on the menu. About a 25-30% don’t respond, but close to 70% do text back. Depending on what your goals are and how you hobby, you’ll have to decide how to approach.  I have multiple channels available: I have various texting numbers, P411, hobby emails, and sometimes TER.  Just categorize what type of provider she is, what you want, what you will do if she says no and is offended, then decide the channel of communication.

But unless you are high volume, absolutely do not walk in to a date with a hope and a smile  for Greek, you’ll leave $500 poorer and give us a review about how Greek didn’t work out and how grateful you are to have eaten pussy for an hour and what a great handjob you got.  Just the nature of the game.

Check HER info first and thoroughly! I’d be weary of trusting the information given in a review. The great majority of the mongers embellish their stories, at least a little.  

Then, as previously stated, ask her. If her profile is in error, she can correct it and ought to be grateful to you for pointing out the discrepancy. If, a review says she does anal, and you rely on it to pose the question to her..... give her the name of said reviewer. She may have a special arrangement with him. If he’s lying, she’ll know which review or which lying ass-hole to straighten out!

But I can say that I have never ask for it on a first date. It just happens, the stars are aligned and next thing I know she inserts me in or she kindly suggest. Put on second/third date we'll joke and talk in code, i'd ask "So how that ass?"...She'll get where I'm going
So I don't come on like, "Honey can I fuck your ass?'..not my style

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for your addiction other than going through another 100 to find 2 that are Hershey-Highway-friendly?

 
I don't usually equate addiction to pussy as the same thing as addition to porn.  I'm completely addicted to pussy for which there is no cure (except for dodo's claim that if you switch to dick you will never go back to pussy, but I would shoot myself in the head first), but rarely watch porn.   I'd rather be doing it rather than watching it.  I did have a civvie girlfriend for a while that wanted me to watch it with her before we fucked, and I did because she got really wild from it.  

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You're hung like a bull.

I used to never send texts, just emails or P411 PM's, and the occasional TER mail, because I had tons of confirmation from TER reviews . . . I only selected women that were consistently putting out greek (or other things), then a day or so before the date, I would give her a heads up that greek was on the flight plan.  Always worked, except for one Agency issue in the UK (very unusual circumstances).

TER went down and then it was "PSE" and "open-minded", basically the dark ages of mongering.  Between the "aggressive marketing and out right intent to deceive", the only solution was to ASK directly what was available.  Hopefully in a year or so, I'll be able to use TER reviews again.  Also, there are Canadian review boards with tons of good info, and some agencies still advertise the menu, and even if they don't advertise they will tell you over the phone if you ask (without ANY personal information other than your hotel room number, and that is only if you book, so really no personal info upfront).  

As for the porn addiction . . . I'm not sure I want to break it.  I have to give it to these millennials . . . their music is awful (I mean people get Grammys now for auto tunes, wtf . . .  didn't Milli Vanilli get run out of the business for faking their music?), but their porn is better . . . way better.  Most of the interesting stuff isn't plain old sex . . . come to think of it . . . I don't do this hobby for plain old sex; I'm personally in it for interesting stuff with drop dead gorgeous women, or women from different countries, or ethnicities, or for unusual sex acts (like greek) - I don't pay for plain vanilla. As a side note, in my experience, women who do greek and swallow, have very few hangups or rules, and don't get uncomfortable easily, are usually up for any position, and are unusually submissive during sex (even when they are being aggressive about being submissive) - that just happens to be my jam.

and then swallow, in that order,  why not add a little DFK at the end just to make it a new experience?  If she is properly prepped, there won't be that much shit on your dick when she puts it in her mouth, so there's very little chance she would transfer more than a few grams of fecal matter / jizz to your mouth during the DFK.  I like your "very few hangups or rules" approach.  

You forgot to ask will you be using a water based or an oil based lubricant.

Wowzas.  Very eloquently stated.  

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I offer Greek. I prefer  to know ahead of time so I can “prepare” myself. .. spur of the moment might work all right unless it is a bad stomach day  LOL  
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ask them/get all of their rules up front...or ask if they have any"do's and donts"....or better yet,just turn them over!!!...   lol....(just joking gang...)

With prior notice a post-op ts may provide not just anal, but terrific, well practiced anal. And the few post-op ladies I’ve seen fucked me enthusiastically with their new pussy first. Not to mention amazing oral.  Best was Samantha de la Valle (post-op). My ATF and such a cool person. (Went to Europe)

If a potential client starts talking about any activity or acronym before being verified, I usually don't respond or maybe I'll remind them once to send their screening information before we proceed. That said, I don't like being surprised with interest in doing anal mid-session. If fingers, toys, or a cock is going in my ass, I enjoy it the most when I've done internal cleansing, warmed up with butt plugs, and can mentally prepare well in advance.