...there was no one on it.  Sent invites, the whole 9.  Short-lived experience for me.

Many times & it can be a hit, or miss...

Many guys are here to waste your time chatting all day everyday & will never book an appointment.  TER messenger can be a bother when your on your computer attempting to work.  I get the same members that always chat, but never have seen.  I see it more, like the available now feature, but am never available now. lol Smile 4 me!